youdontknowme Some guys think that if they abstain from self-induced orgasm for a period of time, their sexual energy will allow them to seduce any woman they want.

Yes, the stories I read have women approaching the guys.

    Avery

    I read about it,too,even if never experienced it with one of my ex.If addicted to masturbation,they may have problem to get erect for sex.But I think it is unusual.

    In your case,he may be stressed and the stimulation with your hand helped his body to react "mechanically",no matter the stress.

        Vanessa In your case,he may be stressed and the stimulation with your hand helped his body to react "mechanically",no matter the stress.

        Yup, performance anxiety maybe, or some stress totally unrelated to what we were doing.

            @Avery
            @Vanessa
            I hear exercising builds up testosterones and allows one to perform longer when it comes to sexual activity. Another possibility is that the men you met doesn't exercise or have a low sex drive. I don't notice a large difference, and its been many years since I last exercised (7 yrs since I left the military), so I can't make a good comparison between then and now.

            @Lightnin_47
            To be honest, you should talk to someone before giving a key randomly and explaining it later. At least be upfront on what it's for, and if they accept the responsibility, then they could take the key. It'll be awkward to explain if your sister finds the key and asks what its for, or throws it away thinking its not anyone's.

              Lightnin_47 Yeah i wanted to talk about it to my sister, she probably would take the keys but i don't know how she would react.
              Plus i don't completely trust her, I'm scared she would hide the key

              It's been a while now since you deposited the key in your sister's room. Have there been developments since then? Does your sister know now what those keys are for?

                  Raziel I hear exercising builds up testosterones and allows one to perform longer when it comes to sexual activity. Another possibility is that the men you met doesn't exercise or have a low sex drive. I don't notice a large difference,

                  I like looking at guys who exercise more, runners and swimmers, not weight lifting types. But as long as the guy I like can perform reasonably well I don't care, I just want him to be gentle and spend some time making sure I end up satisfied.

                      Avery performance anxiety

                      I think it can likely be the case.

                      Raziel Another possibility is that the men you met doesn't exercise or have a low sex drive.

                      Possible,too,yes.

                      Raziel It'll be awkward to explain if your sister finds the key and asks what its for, or throws it away thinking its not anyone's.

                      I agree.

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                            carg Hi, sorry if I'm too late.
                            After i posted this topic i decided to put the keys in my sister's room.
                            She didn't know what the keys were for and they stayed in her room for almost a month, then i took them back and i removed the chastity cage.
                            Since then my masturbation problems decreased so i don't need constant chastity, i just lock myself up a few days a month (and in this cases my sister hold the keys, even If she still doesn't know what they are for).
                            So that's my current situation, thanks for all the advices you all gave me they really helped a lot🙏

                                Lightnin_47

                                I am glad that you are feeling better and that your desire for masturbation has returned to normal 🙂

                                Lightnin_47 even If she still doesn't know what they are for

                                Didn't she ever ask? surprising 😮

                                    5 days later

                                    Lightnin_47 Since then my masturbation problems decreased so i don't need constant chastity,

                                    That's good do you feel more sensitive that you aren't squishing yourself raw???

                                    Avery I like looking at guys who exercise more, runners and swimmers, not weight lifting types

                                    Avery not weight lifting types.

                                    Yeah I watch my husband lift big weights and wonder why they do the same move over and over. It's upp twist over head down. Up and down up and down. It's the same weight every time like whatever you already won last time.

                                    I like to do leg raises with him but I'm not going to do the same thing over and over and over.

                                    Well my husband doesn't look sinewy or have any awful tattoos but yeah running would be nice. I don't have a treadmill my old broke and it's to cold outside.

                                            Megan It's the same weight every time like whatever you already won last time.

                                            😂😆

                                            You are right! Lately I have to do more exercise in the gym, and I find it boring, luckily there are screens and places to put the smartphone.
                                            I do see results in my way of playing, but it is not entertaining.

                                                Ines You are right! Lately I have to do more exercise in the gym, and I find it boring,

                                                i recently did it once with my best friend, she had a voucher for a free trial lesson. frankly never again, only outdoor sports, it's more interesting and more fun. 😂

                                                  Megan I watch my husband lift big weights and wonder why they do the same move over and over.

                                                  Gah what is it with guys?! Weights have their place but endless compression / pumping is just not functional! I'm with @Avery, athletic beats beefcake any day.

                                                      Sin athletic beats beefcake any day.

                                                      I think of beefcake as a 1980s guy who is overweight but throws rocks at things but even a man who is muscular everywhere it's still like darling you just did that up and down thing with those 100lbs barbells a minute ago 😅
                                                      Let's go watch a movie 😃

                                                      My husband always wins against the metal I'm sure he'll win next time.

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                                                        tyler1234

                                                        hello, we would be very happy if you could write an introduction about yourself in the appropriate thread so that we can get to know you better 🙂

                                                          Avery With the "kitchen" safe, emergency access is not a real problem. It is plastic and pretty easy to break. Of course you are throwing away your money so you would probably not do it on a whim.

                                                              bdsamm With the "kitchen" safe, emergency access is not a real problem. It is plastic and pretty easy to break. Of course you are throwing away your money so you would probably not do it on a whim.

                                                              When my Dad was trying to quit smoking he would leave the cigarettes in the car so there was at least some effort in having one. Plus, of course, everyone knew what he was doing going out the door. Could do the same thing with the key.

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