Been gone a while

Angelina

she should meet him, I think that is important so that she realises how much you are in love 🙂

as for the belt, hmmm.... i think it would be the right decision to wait, you wrote in another thread that your boyfriend is willing to wait too. i think it's similar to me and my girlfriend

Funguy

Angelina

I also want my mom to meet him, I think it would help her understand that we do love eachother and that it’s real.

And if he’s willing to wait then I am too I think it’s the best thing to do so I can have a good relationship with my mom and bf

Angelina

Funguy And if he’s willing to wait then I am too I think it’s the best thing to do so I can have a good relationship with my mom and bf

that would be the best. the question is of course if you have a good relationship with your mother outside of the chastity topic, if so (like me with my father) it is probably not worth giving that up. 🙂

Vanessa

Funguy

Yes,but at least,you know it could work well!🙂

Funguy My mom hasn’t met him yet and I’m not sure when that will happen.

Is she open about meeting him?

Or accept it,but don't want to meet him?

Funguy If I break it I’m sure my relationship with my mom will be very angry with me and might cut contact for a while or maybe stop supporting me so I don’t think it’s worth it I’ll just wait.

It's the consequences for many of us,and we generally make the same decision too.

Funguy

Vanessa

Vanessa Is she open about meeting him?

Or accept it,but don't want to meet him?

I’m not sure I’ll have to talk to her about it

Vanessa

Funguy

I agree, a talk would be helpful.

Renita

Funguy Noy sure I’d probably just try to get out ASAP and then see if she’s be willing to give me the key

Then you shouldn't wait and let her change her mind.

Funguy

Angelina

Yeah we do have a good relationship she’s my mom and I love her and she loves me and we get along very well and it’s great. The chastity thing is really the thing I don’t like that she’s done but I know she has good intentions with it.

Right now I just really hope she likes my bf he’s coming over on Friday for dinner so we’ll see how that goes.

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.

Funguy she has good intentions with it.

I think it is the case for most of us who have to wear the belt due to parent's decision.

They're generally pretty sure they're right and make us wear one for our good...

Funguy he’s coming over on Friday for dinner so we’ll see how that goes.

Let's hope it goes well and that he would be accepted by your mother!🙂

Funguy I could see it being used for play

Pretty sure it can be used as a game,yes.

Jonas

Then reduce the amount by the time spent fighting it!😉

Angelina But you still have to subtract the time you spend on unwedchastity because of the belt. 😂

This too,yes!😉

Jonas

Funguy The chastity thing is really the thing I don’t like that she’s done but I know she has good intentions with it.

From what you've written I really think she does have good intentions. Experience does count for something. Looking back on my own life, if I had a do-over, I'd put me in a belt if I could. 😅

Right now I just really hope she likes my bf he’s coming over on Friday for dinner so we’ll see how that goes.

Best of luck with this Funguy!!

Angelina

Funguy Yeah we do have a good relationship she’s my mom and I love her and she loves me and we get along very well and it’s great. The chastity thing is really the thing I don’t like that she’s done but I know she has good intentions with it.

that really sounds like me and my father, really the sentence could come from me and i think it is also clear why i stand by my father in spite of everything. 😃

Funguy Right now I just really hope she likes my bf he’s coming over on Friday for dinner so we’ll see how that goes.

good luck, i wish you that everything works well 😃

Funguy

Jonas From what you've written I really think she does have good intentions. Experience does count for something. Looking back on my own life, if I had a do-over, I'd put me in a belt if I could. 😅

Can I ask why you’d want to be belted? Is there some secret about the belt I’m missing 😂😅

Jonas Best of luck with this Funguy!!

Thank you Jonas! ♥️

Jonas

Funguy Can I ask why you’d want to be belted? Is there some secret about the belt I’m missing 😂 😅

Masturbation is a short circuit that leaves me sluggish and drained, whereas chastity charges me right up! 😅

Oh and looking back; A belt would have saved me a huge amount of wasted time... 😅 😟😓😳

Jonas Best of luck with this Funguy!!

Thank you Jonas!

If you're very lucky one day your keys will go to your bf! 🤣

Funguy

Jonas Masturbation is a short circuit that leaves me sluggish and drained, whereas chastity charges me right up! 😅

Oh and looking back; A belt would have saved me a huge amount of wasted time... 😅 😟😓😳

Hahaha I can’t deny it’s saved me a lot of time and let me focus on work that needed to be done 😛

Jonas If you're very lucky one day your keys will go to your bf! 🤣

Maybeeee if he takes an interest in it I could see it being used for play. Although I doubt it.

Funguy

Angelina good luck, i wish you that everything works well 😃

Thank you so much 😃

Jonas

Funguy Hahaha I can’t deny it’s saved me a lot of time and let me focus on work that needed to be done 😛

Now add up the hours the belt's saved you in the last 12 months and multiply by 30 years!! 😮😲🤯

Angelina

Funguy Thank you so much 😃

please write an update how the meeting went 😉

Jonas Now add up the hours the belt's saved you in the last 12 months and multiply by 30 years!!

But you still have to subtract the time you spend on unwedchastity because of the belt. 😂

Jonas

Angelina But you still have to subtract the time you spend on unwedchastity because of the belt.

🤣 😂🤣

Jonas

Vanessa Funguy he’s coming over on Friday for dinner so we’ll see how that goes.

Let's hope it goes well and that he would be accepted by your mother!🙂

Absolutely, yes.

Funguy I could see it being used for play

Pretty sure it can be used as a game,yes.

Most people seem to use chastity as a game. Serious use is one of the things that make this forum unique.

Jonas

Then reduce the amount by the time spent fighting it!😉

That's why I'm all about the security. The more secure the belt, the quicker you stop fighting it. Nothing worse than a belt that keeps orgasm out of reach but seemingly attainable.

Angelina But you still have to subtract the time you spend on unwedchastity because of the belt. 😂

This too,yes!

That's where internet filters come in. I can and will have to ask my wife for limits to be set on this website. The topic just interests me too much. Lol.

Angelina

Vanessa They're generally pretty sure they're right and make us wear one for our good...

right, mostly it is a form of stubbornness, but no ill will

Jonas Serious use is one of the things that make this forum unique.

definitely, for that i even started to try to improve my english 😉

Jonas The topic just interests me too much. Lol.

instead of masturbation addiction, you now have an addiction to writing about it. you develop addictions pretty quickly 😂

Avery

Vanessa I think it is the case for most of us who have to wear the belt due to parent's decision.

They're generally pretty sure they're right and make us wear one for our good...

Wonder if the supervised showers are a part of that concern.

Vanessa

Jonas Serious use is one of the things that make this forum unique.

I think so,too.

Jonas the quicker you stop fighting it.

I still fight mine a lot...

Jonas Nothing worse than a belt that keeps orgasm out of reach but seemingly attainable.

More frustrating,yes.

Jonas That's where internet filters come in. I can and will have to ask my wife for limits to be set on this website. The topic just interests me too much. Lol.

How long would you be allowed?

Angelina right, mostly it is a form of stubbornness, but no ill will

I agree.

youdontknowme that is why I like chastity devices as a sort of "are you sure" prompt.

Only if you are your own keyholder.

Avery

Mainly to be sure I don't cheat during it.

youdontknowme I do not think that, outside of fetish couples, anyone is supervising showers for the viewer's gratification.

I agree.

youdontknowme I would even doubt most of the supervised showers mentioned on this forum involve someone constantly staring at the person in the shower, more like staying in the room and casting a quick glance at unpredictable interviews to make sure nobody is abusing their hygiene break.

Yes,even if more watched when I shower/dry the part which are generally under my chastity belt...

Funguy

Good it went well!🙂

It is similar to the "approval talk" with my parents when I wanted to date a potential boyfriend/girlfriend,except they told me if they approved him/her only after he/she left.

Jonas Chastity is sexy!!

🤣

Funguy now I know that I’ll get the key once I’m married.

Good to be sure of it,now.

youdontknowme Maybe it is not you who ends up with the key, but your future husband.

It would not be bad.

I would find somehow romantic,if,at my wedding,Emilie get the key to my chastity belt,and I get the key to Emilie's chastity belt(we plan to both wear it during our wedding).

Jonas

Angelina you develop addictions pretty quickly

Yep, it's true and such weakness is not an attractive quality I think. Thankfully I'm learning I can outsmart temptations by making commitments that I can't easily go back on.

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