Angelina

I also want my mom to meet him, I think it would help her understand that we do love eachother and that itโ€™s real.

And if heโ€™s willing to wait then I am too I think itโ€™s the best thing to do so I can have a good relationship with my mom and bf

    Funguy

    Yes,but at least,you know it could work well!๐Ÿ™‚

    Funguy My mom hasnโ€™t met him yet and Iโ€™m not sure when that will happen.

    Is she open about meeting him?

    Or accept it,but don't want to meet him?

    Funguy If I break it Iโ€™m sure my relationship with my mom will be very angry with me and might cut contact for a while or maybe stop supporting me so I donโ€™t think itโ€™s worth it Iโ€™ll just wait.

    It's the consequences for many of us,and we generally make the same decision too.

      Vanessa

      Vanessa Is she open about meeting him?

      Or accept it,but don't want to meet him?

      Iโ€™m not sure Iโ€™ll have to talk to her about it

        Funguy Noy sure Iโ€™d probably just try to get out ASAP and then see if sheโ€™s be willing to give me the key

        Then you shouldn't wait and let her change her mind.

        Funguy And if heโ€™s willing to wait then I am too I think itโ€™s the best thing to do so I can have a good relationship with my mom and bf

        that would be the best. the question is of course if you have a good relationship with your mother outside of the chastity topic, if so (like me with my father) it is probably not worth giving that up. ๐Ÿ™‚

          Angelina

          Yeah we do have a good relationship sheโ€™s my mom and I love her and she loves me and we get along very well and itโ€™s great. The chastity thing is really the thing I donโ€™t like that sheโ€™s done but I know she has good intentions with it.

          Right now I just really hope she likes my bf heโ€™s coming over on Friday for dinner so weโ€™ll see how that goes.

            Funguy The chastity thing is really the thing I donโ€™t like that sheโ€™s done but I know she has good intentions with it.

            From what you've written I really think she does have good intentions. Experience does count for something. Looking back on my own life, if I had a do-over, I'd put me in a belt if I could. ๐Ÿ˜…

            Right now I just really hope she likes my bf heโ€™s coming over on Friday for dinner so weโ€™ll see how that goes.

            Best of luck with this Funguy!!

              Jonas From what you've written I really think she does have good intentions. Experience does count for something. Looking back on my own life, if I had a do-over, I'd put me in a belt if I could. ๐Ÿ˜…

              Can I ask why youโ€™d want to be belted? Is there some secret about the belt Iโ€™m missing ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜…

              Jonas Best of luck with this Funguy!!

              Thank you Jonas! โ™ฅ๏ธ

                Funguy Can I ask why youโ€™d want to be belted? Is there some secret about the belt Iโ€™m missing ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜…

                Masturbation is a short circuit that leaves me sluggish and drained, whereas chastity charges me right up! ๐Ÿ˜…

                Oh and looking back; A belt would have saved me a huge amount of wasted time... ๐Ÿ˜… ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜ณ

                Jonas Best of luck with this Funguy!!

                Thank you Jonas!

                If you're very lucky one day your keys will go to your bf! ๐Ÿคฃ

                  Funguy Yeah we do have a good relationship sheโ€™s my mom and I love her and she loves me and we get along very well and itโ€™s great. The chastity thing is really the thing I donโ€™t like that sheโ€™s done but I know she has good intentions with it.

                  that really sounds like me and my father, really the sentence could come from me and i think it is also clear why i stand by my father in spite of everything. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

                  Funguy Right now I just really hope she likes my bf heโ€™s coming over on Friday for dinner so weโ€™ll see how that goes.

                  good luck, i wish you that everything works well ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

                    Jonas Masturbation is a short circuit that leaves me sluggish and drained, whereas chastity charges me right up! ๐Ÿ˜…

                    Oh and looking back; A belt would have saved me a huge amount of wasted time... ๐Ÿ˜… ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜ณ

                    Hahaha I canโ€™t deny itโ€™s saved me a lot of time and let me focus on work that needed to be done ๐Ÿ˜›

                    Jonas If you're very lucky one day your keys will go to your bf! ๐Ÿคฃ

                    Maybeeee if he takes an interest in it I could see it being used for play. Although I doubt it.

                      Funguy Hahaha I canโ€™t deny itโ€™s saved me a lot of time and let me focus on work that needed to be done ๐Ÿ˜›

                      Now add up the hours the belt's saved you in the last 12 months and multiply by 30 years!! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿคฏ

                        Funguy Thank you so much ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

                        please write an update how the meeting went ๐Ÿ˜‰

                        Jonas Now add up the hours the belt's saved you in the last 12 months and multiply by 30 years!!

                        But you still have to subtract the time you spend on unwedchastity because of the belt. ๐Ÿ˜‚

                          Angelina But you still have to subtract the time you spend on unwedchastity because of the belt.

                          ๐Ÿคฃ ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ

                          Angelina

                          I agree.

                          Funguy she has good intentions with it.

                          I think it is the case for most of us who have to wear the belt due to parent's decision.

                          They're generally pretty sure they're right and make us wear one for our good...

                          Funguy heโ€™s coming over on Friday for dinner so weโ€™ll see how that goes.

                          Let's hope it goes well and that he would be accepted by your mother!๐Ÿ™‚

                          Funguy I could see it being used for play

                          Pretty sure it can be used as a game,yes.

                          Jonas

                          Then reduce the amount by the time spent fighting it!๐Ÿ˜‰

                          Angelina But you still have to subtract the time you spend on unwedchastity because of the belt. ๐Ÿ˜‚

                          This too,yes!๐Ÿ˜‰

                            Vanessa Funguy heโ€™s coming over on Friday for dinner so weโ€™ll see how that goes.

                            Let's hope it goes well and that he would be accepted by your mother!๐Ÿ™‚

                            Absolutely, yes.

                            Funguy I could see it being used for play

                            Pretty sure it can be used as a game,yes.

                            Most people seem to use chastity as a game. Serious use is one of the things that make this forum unique.

                            Jonas

                            Then reduce the amount by the time spent fighting it!๐Ÿ˜‰

                            That's why I'm all about the security. The more secure the belt, the quicker you stop fighting it. Nothing worse than a belt that keeps orgasm out of reach but seemingly attainable.

                            Angelina But you still have to subtract the time you spend on unwedchastity because of the belt. ๐Ÿ˜‚

                            This too,yes!

                            That's where internet filters come in. I can and will have to ask my wife for limits to be set on this website. The topic just interests me too much. Lol.

                              Vanessa They're generally pretty sure they're right and make us wear one for our good...

                              right, mostly it is a form of stubbornness, but no ill will

                              Jonas Serious use is one of the things that make this forum unique.

                              definitely, for that i even started to try to improve my english ๐Ÿ˜‰

                              Jonas The topic just interests me too much. Lol.

                              instead of masturbation addiction, you now have an addiction to writing about it. you develop addictions pretty quickly ๐Ÿ˜‚

                                Angelina you develop addictions pretty quickly

                                Yep, it's true and such weakness is not an attractive quality I think. Thankfully I'm learning I can outsmart temptations by making commitments that I can't easily go back on.