Who would literally ask someone to lock themselves up into chastity belt? I don't get it.
Questions for those who asked to be locked up
bonzibuddy
Various reasons.
Those that wants to avoid temptations.
Those that wants to ensure they'll not have any accidents for their family.
Those who are offered more freedoms in exchange of temptations.
Those who believe it is the best practice for religious reasons.
Those who thinks it looks stylish.
Those who are kinky.
Those who wants shiny underwear.
Those who wants a bulletproof crotch.
Those who wants to try wearing a belt to see what it's like.
Take your pick, there's a reason for everything.
Renita More stressful. I would prefer to get rid of it silently.
but as I said, more honest and I think if you decide to do it, your mother deserves at least an explanation.
people who want to remain chaste but cannot do so of their own willpower (which is very often the case) or people who see it as a help against excessive masturbation.
A bulletproof crotch and shiny underwear
Raziel Those who thinks it looks stylish.
I actually had bit of interest in chastity belt itself since I was around 15, I was stumbled somewhere on web and found what it is, and it looked so great.
Angelina more honest and I think if you decide to do it, your mother deserves at least an explanation
@Renita , I agree what @Angelina says. Based on your post when you posted about wearing chastity belt again, you said you don't live with her, so your mother really need to know that it's no longer under her control. To be honest, I think if you want to stop wearing it, you should stand your ground. Break it, lockpick it, or just reject putting it back on after cleaning break, and stand your ground. The most important part of healthy relationship between keyholder and wearer is that it is based on consent, and it should be able to be withdrawn anytime.
Although I feel such an irony that to wear a belt I have to move out first, unlike most wearers here (As my parents would certainly think I'm a freak into weird looking metal underwear if I say anything about chastity belt if I dare enough), but wearing chastity belt does require huge commitment and trust towards keyholder. A trust that keyholder won't abuse the power as a keyholder with chastity belt wearer is wearing. If you feel too stressful to wear a belt, it's okay to say no (Refuse putting it back on after cleaning break, lockpick, or destroy it, whatever way you can take to take belt off) and stop wearing the belt.
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Raziel but your locking mechanism sounds like a normal padlock and it'll take a few seconds to pick open
I guess, I need to learn how to do it myself, especially the lower lock.
Rina Apparently her belt’s lock isn’t Stainless Steel Snap Lock based on what she said here, so I guess that may help further
Is it easier to pick?
Angelina your mother deserves at least an explanation
She has it already.
Renita
I can teach you how to pick it open, but it could take time. You could definitely learn to pick a lock open in person in 10 minutes. If I could show you in person, it'll be easier to explain your mistakes and what to keep in mind. Being gentle and feeling soft resistance is all you need to remember when telling the difference between a picked pin and an unpicked pin. The rest is easy after that.
There is something that I have to warn though, and that is not to be frustrated, because taking a break and starting over is sometimes better than continuing while frustrated. Over time, you'll learn how far you'll need to insert your tools and which pins take the longest, but you could definitely learn lockpicking, anyone can.
bonzibuddy
Those who wear it as rape protection
Angelina that would even be the better option because then she has thought about it and is not acting in an exceptional emotional situation
Right.
She would notice if you destroy it too.
It would only delay the possible argument.
It is not the same to give up and accept,no.
Raziel I can teach you how to pick it open
It would be a good solution for her.
Renita I don't have an explanation, that would satisfy her.
Chastity is hard to reverse because of the lock, but also because it is much more difficult to come up with good reasons to remove the belt than reasons to put it on. Removal for self-pleasuring doesn't even convince me and I'm a wearer.
Raziel
If you can change the pinning of the lock, you should also know enough to copy the key - few padlocks have restricted blanks.
youdontknowme
I don't have the tools or grinder to craft a key. I can bring a broken padlock and give the lengths of the pins to a key maker at a hardware store for a new key, though. Some padlocks needs to be drilled to reach the pins, meaning it wouldn't be repairable, just replaceable.
@Renita
When would you like to begin to learn lock picking? I can try video, but you'd need tools to practice with. You should always practice with something alot easier, like a lock with fewer pins, or transparent locks. Be cautious that tools can cost quite a bit if you need a new set for a different type of lock. You can free yourself, it'll work out, but it'll be a slow journey until you reach that stage. I'm always willing to help, but the effort you put in is your reward. Good luck.
Renita I don't have an explanation, that would satisfy her.
it doesn't have to satisfy her, it should just give her a reason. my father also never gave me a reason for the belt that i think is good, but he gave reasons for it
Renita I would like to avoid it too.
how is that supposed to work? at the latest, she would notice it during the next cleaning break.