Questions for those who asked to be locked up

Angelina more honest and I think if you decide to do it, your mother deserves at least an explanation

@Renita , I agree what @Angelina says. Based on your post when you posted about wearing chastity belt again, you said you don't live with her, so your mother really need to know that it's no longer under her control. To be honest, I think if you want to stop wearing it, you should stand your ground. Break it, lockpick it, or just reject putting it back on after cleaning break, and stand your ground. The most important part of healthy relationship between keyholder and wearer is that it is based on consent, and it should be able to be withdrawn anytime.

Although I feel such an irony that to wear a belt I have to move out first, unlike most wearers here (As my parents would certainly think I'm a freak into weird looking metal underwear if I say anything about chastity belt if I dare enough), but wearing chastity belt does require huge commitment and trust towards keyholder. A trust that keyholder won't abuse the power as a keyholder with chastity belt wearer is wearing. If you feel too stressful to wear a belt, it's okay to say no (Refuse putting it back on after cleaning break, lockpick, or destroy it, whatever way you can take to take belt off) and stop wearing the belt.

Renita Is it easier to pick?

I don't really know, I never picked any locks, and I never seen Neosteel chastity belt's locking system at all.

Renita
I can teach you how to pick it open, but it could take time. You could definitely learn to pick a lock open in person in 10 minutes. If I could show you in person, it'll be easier to explain your mistakes and what to keep in mind. Being gentle and feeling soft resistance is all you need to remember when telling the difference between a picked pin and an unpicked pin. The rest is easy after that.

There is something that I have to warn though, and that is not to be frustrated, because taking a break and starting over is sometimes better than continuing while frustrated. Over time, you'll learn how far you'll need to insert your tools and which pins take the longest, but you could definitely learn lockpicking, anyone can.

Renita She has it already.

yes, but you still wear the belt. i mean that if you decide against wearing the belt, your mother should get an open explanation why you decide against it. i find destroying the padlock kind of cowardly

Angelina your mother should get an open explanation why you decide against it

I don't have an explanation, that would satisfy her.

bonzibuddy
Those who wear it as rape protection

Angelina that would even be the better option because then she has thought about it and is not acting in an exceptional emotional situation

Right.

Renita

She would notice if you destroy it too.

It would only delay the possible argument.

Renita

It is not the same to give up and accept,no.

Raziel I can teach you how to pick it open

It would be a good solution for her.

Renita I don't have an explanation, that would satisfy her.

Chastity is hard to reverse because of the lock, but also because it is much more difficult to come up with good reasons to remove the belt than reasons to put it on. Removal for self-pleasuring doesn't even convince me and I'm a wearer.

Vanessa It would be a good solution for her.

Let's hope she fails

Raziel but the moment the mother finds that the wrong key works

Thank you for the hint, will pay attention.

Raziel
If you can change the pinning of the lock, you should also know enough to copy the key - few padlocks have restricted blanks.

youdontknowme
I don't have the tools or grinder to craft a key. I can bring a broken padlock and give the lengths of the pins to a key maker at a hardware store for a new key, though. Some padlocks needs to be drilled to reach the pins, meaning it wouldn't be repairable, just replaceable.

@Renita
When would you like to begin to learn lock picking? I can try video, but you'd need tools to practice with. You should always practice with something alot easier, like a lock with fewer pins, or transparent locks. Be cautious that tools can cost quite a bit if you need a new set for a different type of lock. You can free yourself, it'll work out, but it'll be a slow journey until you reach that stage. I'm always willing to help, but the effort you put in is your reward. Good luck.

Renita I don't have an explanation, that would satisfy her.

it doesn't have to satisfy her, it should just give her a reason. my father also never gave me a reason for the belt that i think is good, but he gave reasons for it

Renita I would like to avoid it too.

how is that supposed to work? at the latest, she would notice it during the next cleaning break.

Raziel When would you like to begin to learn lock picking?

When I get too frustrated

Raziel I'm always willing to help, but the effort you put in is your reward. Good luck.

Thanks.

Angelina it should just give her a reason

For example?

Angelina how is that supposed to work? at the latest, she would notice it during the next cleaning break.

I want to avoid destroying the belt. Lockpicking or a fake key is better choice.

Renita For example?

no idea, you should know better

Renita I want to avoid destroying the belt. Lockpicking or a fake key is better choice.

probably, but make sure you don't get caught. but i still think it's better to talk honestly to your mother

Angelina no idea, you should know better

I don't know either.

Jonas

If we have agreed it is comfortable and wearable for our daily activities,asking to have it off often means for masturbating or having sex,so no good reasons...

Laura

Renita I'm more concerned about relationships.

Wasn't it the reason you asked for it?

Raziel

And she must not be caught,not leave scratch on her lock.

Renita

Why not trying to explain her you can't prove her you behave better if she doesn't take it off?

Vanessa Wasn't it the reason you asked for it?

Well, to prevent instant sex, but relationship is something else.

Vanessa Why not trying to explain her you can't prove her you behave better if she doesn't take it off?

Because she believes that masturbation is a sin.