Samantha They decided they would first buy a cheap knock-off belt and if it helps they would buy a proper one.

Waste of money.

    Samantha They decided they would first buy a cheap knock-off belt and if it helps they would buy a proper one.

    I can write now, I got a big box of chocolates as a thank you 🙂 It works and my cousin feels a lot safer and started to freely enjoy going out again!

    The cheap belt has some issues but is usable, they are waiting for the delivery of a proper one.

    Great that someone had the courage to step in.
    It looks like the belt is really helping and go first with a cheap belt is a good way. Now she knows it and has not the pressure to commit something because a proper belt would cost much more.

    It would be nice if you keep us informed how she is going on or she may join the forum.

      Samantha

      once you have experienced such a situation, you are of course terrified, so i understand your cousin. if the belt helps even a little bit to make her less afraid, it is a good investment. i think a cheap belt can also be sufficient for this purpose. 🙂

        10 months later

        Maija I’m in college, and my dorm roommate saw it while I was changing. He seemed to already know what it was, which made me curious if he had an interest in it, but I did not ask. Maybe some other day.

            Mark but I did not ask.

            did he ask you any other questions about the belt?

              I had an incident at work a week or so ago where I caught a glimpse of my boss’s, boss’s, boss’s wife in a state of partial undress. She was wearing loose-fitting slacks without a belt (the kind that holds up one’s trousers).

              The slacks were riding very low in the back, and I could see that she wasn’t wearing underwear.

              She was not wearing a chastity belt, but it would have been really cool if she had been.

              The owners are foreign-born, from India or Nepal, and relatively wealthy, so the idea of a chastity belt would not have seemed completely out of the question.

              This incident actually recalls a similar incident that happened in 1985 when I was a customer of the White Castle fast-food joint in Hasbrouck Heights, New Jersey, just a stone’s throw from NYC.

              There was a female customer wearing some kind of one-piece romper or shortalls-type garment, which was made of yellow linen or cheesecloth. The transparency of the fabric was such that you could easily see her underwear.

              I thought it would have been way cool if she had been wearing a chastity belt, preferably one of the Centurian’s all-leather “horse harness” belts, the kind with a 3”-wide waist belt and 3”-wide thigh straps. While I have generally considered these belts to be somewhat gauche, vulgar, and unattractive, in this context it would have been perfect.

              And I would really like to know where the young lady got the romper/shortalls outfit; all of my recent internet/eBay/Etsy searches have come up empty.

              10 days later

              I wore my inexpensive steel-cable belt in lieu of a swimsuit at an indoor hotel pool last Thanksgiving weekend (the last weekend in November).

              I deliberately chose a time (1 PM on Friday, the day after Thanksgiving) when no one else was using the pool.

                12 days later

                Maija I'm not sure if I'd like this

                swimming in the belt or what do you mean?

                  19 days later

                  My belt hides fairly well under my clothing, but I’ve had it pop above occasionally, which can get awkward. One time, someone tripped and fell on me, knocking us both over, and the person asked why they landed on metal.

                    Abby82 Now when its spring time here it means that we who wear a belt have to be more careful with clothing 😅

                    that's right, and the warmer it gets, the fewer options we have. 🙁

                      I'm starting a new job next week, the dress code requires a skirt little too short for my taste, we'll see how it goes with the thighbands

                        Maija
                        Will you be allowed to not wear thigh bands in case they are too visible? Or are thigh bands non negotiable and you have to adjust and even accept when other people might see them?

                            Maija As far as i remember Maija was allowed to wear the bands a little lower on the thighs. That was in compensation for the fact that the chain was no longer connected to the belt. Actually an improvement for her. Now this may be a drawback.
                            To me the most important risk is the noise of all the chaines.

                              astro

                              I thought about what I'd reply. If I was ready to be open to the person or wanted to hide. Answer to hide probably depended on what type of belt / position / other clothes, jewels etc.

                              Are you willing to share, what you replied and how the scene concluded?

                                Maija

                                glad you found a job good luck 🙂

                                maybe it's possible to wear the thighbands a bit higher and remember to "wrapped" the chains so that no one hears the rattling.
                                keep us informed please 🙂

                                  Maija yes, they're non-negotiable

                                  Congratulation to you new job.
                                  Would it be an option to change the position of the bands higher up with a matching chain length?