Accidentally flashing chastity equipment in public

Angelina

Raquel ?? I was talking about flash mi belt in public.

oh, you referred to the original topic, sorry with many posts it can happen that I think you are referring to the last answers.
Sorry, my mistake 😅

Sara2001

Angelina indeed something similar to what @reactionary69 has linked, but i would recommend to wear a pair of swimming shorts over it to make the marks from the lock on the belt invisible.

I can show it to him, but it's very expensive for trying. With a boxer short and a wide t-shirt it could maybe work. How hot will it be in this outfit when you wear it for a few hours at the beach?

Roland If the chain is removed you should be able to move relatively freely. Do I understand it correctly only the chain is removed the the bands themselves?

Yes the bands itself will stay in place at all times, except for cleaning and after marriage of course for having fun together. He will just remove the chain from time to time if it is necessary, like for sports.

Angelina

Sara2001 I can show it to him, but it's very expensive for trying. With a boxer short and a wide t-shirt it could maybe work. How hot will it be in this outfit when you wear it for a few hours at the beach?

yes, i admit that i found it by chance during a shopping trip in the city, over the internet it's a risk. after a while it gets very hot, but then it's even more worth it because then you go swimming more often 😉

Sara2001

Angelina after a while it gets very hot, but then it's even more worth it because then you go swimming more often

That's what I worried about. He is not very open to the idea anyway. He says for refreshing I can take a shower whenever I want, but he thinks that it's not save that my equipment doesn't get discovered, so I will not be allowed to do so.

Joh

Sara2001 You could travel in Autumn when it is not hot any more and viewer people around at the beach. It would keep you warm. 😀

Angelina

Sara2001 but he thinks that it's not save that my equipment doesn't get discovered

i can take his worry away, if you wear a full body suit no one sees anything and what could be noticed is not recognised as a belt etc., but i can understand his worry.

Joh

good idea, the beach is then also emptier and it would most likely not be noticed 🙂

Joh

Angelina
Yup.
I think it's worth trying before you reject it. If people are too close, just leave it.
She can only win.

Angelina

Joh I think it's worth trying before you reject it. If people are too close, just leave it.

right, besides, regardless of my belt, i wouldn't want to go to beaches that are too crowded, a bit of privacy is a must 😉

Sin tell your husband to stop being an obsessive controlling dick about everything

please no insults

Megan

I think at the latest when @Sara2001 lives together with her boyfriend in her own house/flat then there will be changes because then they will no longer be influenced by anyone in one direction or the other, at the moment it seems to me more like a test phase.

Sin

...or you could just, you know... tell your husband to stop being an obsessive controlling dick about everything because it's hot and you want to go for a swim.

Jen

Sin LOL that reply's more refreshing than a shower😆
Been hot here, pool's been great

Sara2001

Sin ...or you could just, you know... tell your husband to stop being an obsessive controlling dick about everything because it's hot and you want to go for a swim.

Why should I do this? I agreed to this kind of lifestyle. This way of living is consensual. I don't need to go swimming for my long term happiness, while feeling his love and seeing how proud he is of me gives me a lot of great feelings.

Sin

Jen Been hot here, pool's been great

OMG it's been like 40+ degrees here every day! Christmas was 40+ for six days straight... Two weeks ago it was 40 for the whole week... Today is 39. Tomorrow is 40. Saturday is 40. It's the craziest summer ever. You walk out the front door and it's like walking into an oven.

Megan

Sin It's snowing in USA

Sara2001 This way of living is consensual.

I think you two are letting your parents scare you into rigid hierarchies. A lot of this fear should just go away with some calm time on your honeymoon. Especially once both of your bodies enjoy hetero norm penetrative sex you should get over the fear that you have to 'enforce' you marriage. Hopefully you can be as relax in your chastity as I am.
My husband and I don't constantly live in fear they our genitals' will abandon us 😀

Ines

Sin
OMG!
I will not say anything about that, but I do not understand it.
But since it is consensual, I do not have anything to say.

Joh

Angelina I think at the latest when @Sara2001 lives together with her boyfriend in her own house/flat then there will be changes because then they will no longer be influenced by anyone in one direction or the other, at the moment it seems to me more like a test phase.

It will be when he is her husband and not before. 😉
And I agree. Than they are free to decide mostly on themselves. A rest of influence always exist. They live not alone on an island.

Megan

Abby82 cant rly swim now because of ice etc, maybe again in june😃

It's a blizzard in Texas climate change 😄

Angelina I think at the latest when @Sara2001 lives together with her boyfriend in her own house/flat then there will be changes because then they will no longer be influenced by anyone in one direction or the other, at the moment it seems to me more like a test phase.

Sara2001 think we are already far beyond the suggestions of our parents. My father often says that he thinks that my rules are very strict and that we should be careful that it's really working for us like this 😃 But basically you are right. I am sure a lot of things will change this August. In the first few months we will definitely find out what truly works for us in the long run and then there will be more changes over time with more experiences or changed opinions.

I agree and Daniel is probably a wonderful man 😃 I am just concerned because we are on the internet and the internet has bdsm themes

Sara2001

Joh And I agree. Than they are free to decide mostly on themselves. A rest of influence always exist. They live not alone on an island.

I think we are already far beyond the suggestions of our parents. My father often says that he thinks that my rules are very strict and that we should be careful that it's really working for us like this 😃 But basically you are right. I am sure a lot of things will change this August. In the first few months we will definitely find out what truly works for us in the long run and then there will be more changes over time with more experiences or changed opinions.

Angelina

Joh It will be when he is her husband and not before. 😉

I'm not 100% sure,but @Sara2001 will probably be happy to tell us if anything changes in the living situation before the wedding. 😉

Sara2001 My father often says that he thinks that my rules are very strict and that we should be careful that it's really working for us like this 😃

if even your father says that, then you really do have a very strict lifestyle. 😮

Sara2001 I am sure a lot of things will change this August.

moving date or wedding date? 😉

Sara2001

Megan I agree and Daniel is probably a wonderful man 😃 I am just concerned because we are on the internet and the internet has bdsm themes

We are absolutely not in BDSM. We think it's a play thing.

Angelina moving date or wedding date?

It's the same 🙂

Angelina if even your father says that, then you really do have a very strict lifestyle. 😮

I already said this. My rules are always the strictest to reduce any possible conflict at the beginning.

Angelina

Sara2001 It's the same 🙂

I hope your wedding will be everything you imagined, I am very happy for you. 🙂

Sara2001 My rules are always the strictest to reduce any possible conflict at the beginning.

i am still amazed that it worked out that way. i always thought that it would create more conflict, but talking clearly helps a lot.

Joh

Sara2001 We think it's a play thing.

Wow. To name it play thing is an understatement, in my opinion 😉
Nevertheless you like it, do it.

Sara2001

Angelina i am still amazed that it worked out that way. i always thought that it would create more conflict, but talking clearly helps a lot.

This is something you can't stress enough. If anyone ever thinks about entering a relationship with one partner who is the leader and another partner who is submitting to the other, talking is the key to happiness and success. Talking, talking, talking and reflection of what you two doo. And of course both need to feel that the other one has your long term goals and happiness as his first priority. Only when this is given, it can be healthy.

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