Getting used to My-Steel Female Total
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Thank you! That's lovely.
I feel indeed very excited about getting a chastity belt. My feelings are somehow a mixture of confusion and being fascinated. I hope I will be able to describe them better after having calmed down a bit.
I'm really happy to hear this. You sound like you are approaching the idea very positively which should really help you to get used to the belt quickly and make it a part of your everyday life.
Petra will surely grant me a firm presentation of My-Steel's chastity belts and enable me to make a sound decision. Contemporarily, I think a hip style belt would be more feminine than a waist style one.
I would choose the waist belt style for security, but either will be fine.
Starting softly and increasing by an hour a day sounds great. Thank you very much.
The belt must shaped correctly by hand after it arrives to match your body shape. And this is a process that you should repeat and repeat until you get it exactly right in the early days. You'll know when it's right.
It's a big change, both physically and mentally, so it makes sense to take things slowly. The belt is steel so after initial shaping, your body and mind must change, adapt and flow around it, rather than the other way around!
My fiancé and I have talked a lot about wearing the chastity belt after marriage. According to Islamic ethics, women should be submissive and always focus on the sexual desires of their husbands. I will also be obligated to let my husband enjoy my body whenever he wants. This way of life will certainly be supported by 24/7 chastity. So I will definitely continue wearing it after marriage.
Wow, that's such a big change for you and such a great gift to your husband. If you know this to be your will then fantastic, I hope and expect you to be very happy!
Thanks so much for your reply. You can always gain support and assistance here on the forum.
Best wishes to you!
Max9 You actually made a good choice with a cable style, many people say it's the most comfortable variation (and it also secures you from having ansl sex with a person) - just like double cable.
I am glad to hear this. I will certainly get more insights after trying several belts when meeting Petra. 
ZeynepFox The measuring will be done by Petra Möbus in the showroom of My-Steel. So the belt should have a perfect fit from the beginning on?
It's great to have a personal measurement, however sore spots and pressure points only become apparent with wear over time, hence subtle bending of the metal will still be required.
thanks for the update, i will not go into islamic ethics as as an atheist i reject it like all other religious ethics. i think it is wrong to wear a belt because of any religion.
i think it's good that you have personal contact with the manufacturer, so you can be sure to get a perfectly fitting belt and have a contact person in case of problems. 
ZeynepFox Do you have any hygiene issues with the belt's anus opening? I think it's not easy to stay clean with a crotch band?
I have a spray bottle and wet wipes, so it works quite well, but you need practice.
Max9 The probably most challanging part is the front shield where you pee.
right, peeing is the much bigger challenge because you can't give too much pressure or there will be total chaos.
ZeynepFox So the belt should have a perfect fit from the beginning on?
she is an expert, if she does it right on the spot, the belt should fit perfectly. however, it is not normal underwear, it is a different feeling you have to get used to.
Angelina i will not go into islamic ethics as as an atheist i reject it like all other religious ethics.
I unconditionally respect your view. Is it unwanted to express religious value systems in this forum? My religion has a lot to do with my decision to wear a chastity belt. So I think it should be okay to talk about it at least a bit. But I definitely do not want to trigger anybody.
ZeynepFox Is it unwanted to express religious value systems in this forum? My religion has a lot to do with my decision to wear a chastity belt. So I think it should be okay to talk about it at least a bit. But I definitely do not want to trigger anybody.
There are definitely people on here with far stranger, more fundamentalist belief systems than you. ;-)
ZeynepFox My spouse and I want to marry within the next years
Congratulations!
ZeynepFox I will soon call Petra from My-Steel and ask for an appointment.
Good you can go to the My-Steel shop to choose one.
ZeynepFox It seems that a My-Steel Total with a metal wire may be suitable for me.
It's the one I wear,comfortable and secure,if well fitted
ZeynepFox How long does it take to get used to the belt? And when will I be able to wear 24/7?
The training often last 2 weeks to one month.
1 more hour each day seems good;
And not wearing it during the night until you're used enough to wear it during the day.
Take care too that it does not hurt you nor damage your skin.
Angelina I don't know this, what is it?
I guess it is the cable rear.
ZeynepFox I think a hip style belt would be more feminine
And easier to hide,I think.
ZeynepFox As color, I would prefer red.
Nice choice!
ZeynepFox here will be no overnight wearing before day number ten.
Good!
ZeynepFox So the belt should have a perfect fit from the beginning on?
Not perfect,but pretty good,I think.
Angelina a spray bottle and wet wipes
Very useful,yes!
