Getting used to My-Steel Female Total
Angelina i will not go into islamic ethics as as an atheist i reject it like all other religious ethics.
I unconditionally respect your view. Is it unwanted to express religious value systems in this forum? My religion has a lot to do with my decision to wear a chastity belt. So I think it should be okay to talk about it at least a bit. But I definitely do not want to trigger anybody.
ZeynepFox Is it unwanted to express religious value systems in this forum? My religion has a lot to do with my decision to wear a chastity belt. So I think it should be okay to talk about it at least a bit. But I definitely do not want to trigger anybody.
There are definitely people on here with far stranger, more fundamentalist belief systems than you. ;-)
ZeynepFox My spouse and I want to marry within the next years
Congratulations!
ZeynepFox I will soon call Petra from My-Steel and ask for an appointment.
Good you can go to the My-Steel shop to choose one.
ZeynepFox It seems that a My-Steel Total with a metal wire may be suitable for me.
It's the one I wear,comfortable and secure,if well fitted
ZeynepFox How long does it take to get used to the belt? And when will I be able to wear 24/7?
The training often last 2 weeks to one month.
1 more hour each day seems good;
And not wearing it during the night until you're used enough to wear it during the day.
Take care too that it does not hurt you nor damage your skin.
Angelina I don't know this, what is it?
I guess it is the cable rear.
ZeynepFox I think a hip style belt would be more feminine
And easier to hide,I think.
ZeynepFox As color, I would prefer red.
Nice choice!
ZeynepFox here will be no overnight wearing before day number ten.
Good!
ZeynepFox So the belt should have a perfect fit from the beginning on?
Not perfect,but pretty good,I think.
Angelina a spray bottle and wet wipes
Very useful,yes!
Angelina thanks for the update, i will not go into islamic ethics as as an atheist i reject it like all other religious ethics. i think it is wrong to wear a belt because of any religion.
I agree but I think the ethics in islam vary as much as in the Christian, Jewish, Hindu and even Buddhism community. If you are in an orthodox environment, rules can be very strict and feel strange for outsiders and don't match with the human rights based on the united nations. But in any of these religions most of the believers are not orthodox but very liberal or flexible.
ZeynepFox It is important for them that I stay chaste and submissive and never become a feminist. ;-)
I personally do not consider the idea that women are people with their own rights, desires and agency to be that feminist. Personally, the idea that wives should be submissive by default is alien to me, but if you want to live that life, who am I to argue. The only thing I ask of you is to make sure that living according to those religious teachings is something you want for yourself, and not just something you put up with because your parents, your fiancé or his parents expect you to.
Sara2001 I agree but I think the ethics in islam vary as much as in the Christian, Jewish, Hindu and even Buddhism community.
That's right. My family can be described as semi-conservative. I wear a headscarf in public, avoid sex before marriage and my mother examines my hymen every weekend. On the other hand, I am allowed to take part in social life without limitations.
ZeynepFox My family can be described as semi-conservative. I wear a headscarf in public, avoid sex before marriage and my mother examines my hymen every weekend. On the other hand, I am allowed to take part in social life without limitations.
Just a note about the males for a change, I saw a travelogue on American TV produced by Rick Steves, a well known American travel host. He included in his program on Central Turkey a circumcision party for a young man who looked about 8-9 years old. It was a big family event with dancing and the boy dressed up like a prince. They were somewhere South of Cappadocia. Interesting, quite unlike anything I know about in my country.
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ZeynepFox Is it unwanted to express religious value systems in this forum?
No, it's not. You're welcome to do so. Just btw. we usually do make posts a bit longer with several responses included so that the amount of messages in the notification box is a bit smaller 
Avery Interesting, quite unlike anything I know about in my country.
That's very interesting, I always thought only the Jewish do that
Laura How will it work once you start wearing your belt 24/7?
With 24/7 chastity, there will be no need for further hymen checks. And after marriage, my fiancé will become my husband and my hymen will hopefully disappear. I think that he will also be given the keys to my My-Steel. With emergency keys kept by my mother.
Joh If you could decide freely and independently, would you also choose this way of life?
Yes, definitely. I believe that wearing a headscarf and staying chaste is quite virtuous and the right way for me. This does of course not mean that I consider females with other value systems as bad or immoral. I only talk about my personal views about what is suitable for myself.
And I really enjoy that unmarried women with very frequent (in my case: weekly) hymen examinations are treated as saints in my community. 
