Jay
I locked in a cage wideout a key holder to. I don’t have any body to trust the key with. So at the moment my best option is having control over it it’s not optimal.
I’m looking in to getting a my-steel belt. But don’t know which type yet hoping to get some advices on this forum on that subject.

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    Simo
    Do you think it is a normal question for someone?
    He is a minor.
    This is a warning.

        [deleted] So, as I can see in your profile name you are a femboy 😀
        Does chastity for you has to do with that?

          [deleted] oh, you're not only a femboy, you are trans. Cute 🥰
          yeah, would probably be pretty embaressing to get hard under a skirt in public.
          Edit: There are some belts which have a shaped base to make it look like you had a vulva in leggins

            [deleted] well, for belts it is really important that they have a good fit.
            There are some good steel cages from china, but no good cheap belts.
            I'd take a look at Mysteel, they have a belt, for transvestides and I guess Neosteel also has one.
            I have a Mysteel untouchable with tube, it also has a shape where you can't explicitely see the male genitals or the tube. Or take the Latwoski, it's similar to the untouchable but with some extras that make urination easier. The cocoon is a chine belt that also covers the genitals

              [deleted] I am a male who is into mommy-dom / cgx (cgl without ageplay but possible ageplay)

                [deleted] There can be Fancy Steel hybrid belt, which offers kind of less bulky design, and there's an option to choose pink strap (It basically has strap instead of metal waistband, and straps are locked with two locks. Chain jock strap is available for that hybrid belt. So it doesn't completely cover the butt but V-shaped, so doing second business may be easier with it.) It costs lower than other belts like MySteel or Neosteel too!

                  [deleted] Hybrid belt costs 499 - 569 AUD, so it's kind of has lower price point than over 1K belts!

                    Ines Do you think it is a normal question for someone?
                    He is a minor.
                    This is a warning.

                    what was that about? did you delete it?

                    [deleted] yeah sort of ig? it helps with the gender dysphoria sometimes, and also prevents erections in a skirt

                    i didn't know you were transsexual. i ask because it's a common reason, but does the belt help you "manage" your sexuality better?

                    [deleted] haha i identify as a demiboy

                    sorry i don't know exactly what that is. something like non-binary or?

                          [deleted] If your budget is $100 then I'd go for a Holytrainer. They are one the best cages you can get. Premium swiss handmade quality 👌🏼 Made of a natural resign that, different to chineese pladtic, doesn't contain cancer-causing softeners.

                              Max9 or a kink 3d belt (3d printed cage, premium brand)

                              Edit: maybe start off with a cheap cage just to find out what size fits you best.. but don'/ wear a chineese plastic cage longterm, they just don't have the quality for that.

                                [deleted] Well some of those don't have the ring behind the testicles the last 2 links look like they would cover you but man in the one erotic photography with his mistress seems like he is going to retract his balls into the odd shaped frame oooh OUCH I am guessing
                                So maybe 2nd from the last. The other ones seem like they could become the worlds most painfull slingshot but again IDK I am certain all men are different I only know how my husband flops around.

                                    [deleted] a demiboy is someone who identifies as mostly masculine but partially feminine

                                    ok, i didn't know that, but i think i understood it

                                      Megan IDK I am certain all men are different I only know how my husband flops around.

                                      If we got hurt every time someone impeded our "flopping", I assure you almost any man would be dressed like a "true scotsman": kilt and no underwear.

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                                          youdontknowme I've always wanted to wear cargo kilts (think like cargo pants with pockets big enough to fit a 1L water bottle, except its a skirt) especially in summer but that will just attract attention that I don't necessarily want. Then again i hear scotland's airport stinks of ballsack.

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                                            Well, kilts are definitely an option if you want to try out wearing thightbands

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                                              Max9 ngl they are kinda pointless for men. My desire to wear a kilt is more of a practicality focus if anything

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                                                I have been on a 2 year hiatus from chastity devices and this forum but I just sprung on a cheap plastic ball trap device that was (edit: not as close as I thought) to my flaccid measurements. https://lockthecock.com/collections/valentines-sale/products/loud-and-clear-3d-cock-cage

                                                Thanks to @Rina for sharing about the fancy steel hybrid belt. I might be able to pony up for one of those in the future, looks way more comfortable to me.

                                                I wanted to ask you guys about getting adjusted to wearing the device. I want to get an idea of how long it takes before the penis will calm down and stay mostly flaccid. Weeks? Months?

                                                My other concern is how to manage and basically minimize the ball stretching and loosening effect of the ball trap devices. I imagine a smaller base ring and/or tying it back to the waist.

                                                I am probably going to start out slow and be wearing my device on some weekdays, and try to use ice if it gets painful. I have a time-lock safe so I could keep the keys out of reach during whichever weekdays I program into it.

                                                I also wanted to give a shoutout to all the virgins on this website. Keep it up, I’m with you. I feel virginity is different as a guy, it’s not as much of a thing to brag about or something women find attractive. I could be an incel for all you know. I have refused a blatant offer for sex at least once though.

                                                • Cb85 replied to this.

                                                  Conrad it’s going to take at least a few weeks to adjust.
                                                  As far as stretching it’s just what it is.

                                                    Conrad I feel virginity is different as a guy

                                                    If you are going to play the short term relationship game your long term relationships will suffer.
                                                    So if you want a great long term relationship virginity is the best way cuz ladies that want long term and future kids don’t want you comparing her to other women.

                                                    Jorden Peterson has a lot to say on the subject