Diana_V but yes the belt turned out to be the bummer.

Did you mentioned it to a man?

    Diana_V nothing, except some men can't handle it. Had a date a few times where, twice I thought yes this is the one, but yes the belt turned out to be the bummer.

    Maybe you search in the wrong group.
    And it needs time to find the right person. You know what you want and need and it makes it not easy but it helps you to be successful.

      Laura

      Yes. not immediately of course. I think it's important to tell. Open and honest who I am

        Renita
        One immediately got up and walked away, the other said sorry you are a nice woman but this is not for me

          Joh

          Basically the normal things, honest, funny, someone who really has something meaningful to say. A Man not a wimp. Someone who respects my present and my past. And know what it takes for my future

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            Diana_V Basically the normal things, honest, funny, someone who really has something meaningful to say. A Man not a wimp. Someone who respects my present and my past. And know what it takes for my future

            Ask you direct. Do you want a men-lead relationship again? With the same rules as before?

              Diana_V I was thinking about your situation and we could continue the discussion in private, if you like. If so Laura should send you my email address.

              @Laura
              Goodmorning Laura,

              Can you give Joh my email address.

                Diana_V One immediately got up and walked away, the other said sorry you are a nice woman but this is not for me

                Is there a chance that your son would let you go on a date without the belt?

                  Diana_V Should I be ashamed?

                  No, just not scare out from the beginning.
                  That's my idea, but my mom is against it and doesn't allow dating with the belt.
                  I thought, that you son might think differently.