Intro
Diana_V Thank you very much. I think/hope @Laura has the time to give me my addres,ra soon.
I am very curious what experience you have made and how much will be the same for me as it is for you for such a long time and how things will be after years in such a relationship. Of course you can ask me whatever you want, too.
@Laura Thank you very much in advance.
It was not my intention to end the discussion here 
. Maybe you can discribe a bit how your daughter's handle the new situation. How open are they to their belts at all? Are they on a way into marriage? How do they find their boyfriends?
When my husband was sick and it became clear he wasn't going to make it. I started thinking about what if he's gone. The options for me were. I managed my key and the daughters' keys or find a key holder. I discussed the options with my husband. He didn't think it was wise to manage my own key. He said you are not used to that and added that you have developed into a good woman, a shame to destroy it. He thought it was risky to find a key holder outside our circle. He said a key holder has a very important and not to be underestimated role. The idea that a stranger would keep the keys made him anxious. Why not your own son?
Our son? Yes he knows how it works. I trust him 100% that he takes good care of you and our daughters. I'm sure he will protect our daughters and make sure they go into marriage as virgins later on. I had to think about that, I told my husband. I had a few bumps. The fact that he would see my chastity belt wasn't really the problem. He had seen it many times before, but the cleaning did. The idea of him watching while cleaning made me insecure. I discussed this with my husband and he reassured me. You can trust him to treat you with respect.
I said ok this is the best solution for now
welcome to the forum 
Diana_V i’m not ready for a new man in my Life
that's understandable, but your daughters are in their mid/late twenties, what about them? do they have a man in their lives that they might want to marry?
Sara2001 But some things are not appreciated here. Would it be possible to write by mail?
so far i have not read anything that would be in any way unacceptable for the forum
Sara2001 It was not my intention to end the discussion here
i understand, you were just a bit too fast. of course you can also write everything via email, but wait and see how the discussion develops, if it gets to a critical point, you can always switch. i just remembered a question for @Laura. what is the current status with the private messages? then you could leave the writing via email.
Diana_V She has been married for one year, her husband is now her keykeeper.
did your daughter's husband want this or did she want it herself?