Intro

Megan did you date many and none of them cared? Were you intimate in other ways?

Diana_V I dont have the spare key

May I ask you why? Coz he doesn't trust you?

Megan Men do NOT care. You don't need to go to a dating fetish website where the men want some weird weird things like tying you up and hitting you.

You have a rather skewed picture of these forums!

Megan You don't need to go to a dating fetish website

No, don't need a fetishist at all.

Megan Go on the date, if the date is fun go on another date. If he is really really great marry him, it's great

The only problem how to explain the belt to him.

Renita The only problem how to explain the belt to him.

well, i'm serious now. just tell him why you wear the belt or rather have to wear it. if he doesn't understand that, he's not the right person because he won't understand you either.

Angelina just tell him why you wear the belt or rather have to wear it

"Have to" sounds better, but I also want to hear @Diana_V 's experience, because she did it already.

Diana_V e told him she must.

How do you explain a secondary shield?

Renita How do you explain a secondary shield?

Diana_V the truth to prevent masturbation

They prevent terrible pinching and help with ventilation. When you have a husband there is no need to masturbate.
No husband should be that lazy or disinterested.

Renita How do you explain a secondary shield?

just tell the full truth. tell him that your mother made it more than what you wanted in the beginning, if he is the right one he will understand and support you.

Diana_V i am in the same situation...my mom keeps me in chastity to prevent masturbation

lucy my mom keeps me in chastity to prevent masturbation

But nobody keeps your mom

Diana_V hello

Diana_V i am in a belt 24/7 too

Angelina that your mother made it more than what you wanted in the beginning

Basically the same as for @Diana_V .