dvoraks Rules about belts bands,... dresscode, ...

I guess it just doesn't seem that complicated to me. I keep thinking I'm missing something when I talk to him and I probably am but so far, after reading the other thread, I think we have discussed the major things.

Renita I had the belt until 2007 before it died. Replaced it with a tollyboy had that for a few years. I couldn't pick that lock but I did try.

I am planning to get a belt by the end of the year but I don't know what to go for.

    BD1791 I think this is really good advice but I also think it's hard to anticipate everything. We'll set up our ground rules but I'm sure the rules will evolve as we figure this belt thing out.

    yes, it is difficult, but if the rules are not clear, it can lead to extreme disputes, so clarify beforehand what is allowed and what is not allowed.

    BD1791 Fancy steel is the only belt maker with an open store right now 😂. Hopefully I'll be happy with it.

    it's not my number 1, but it seems to be a good belt from what i read here. i wish you much success. 🙂

    BD1791 No d rings on it because they appear to stick out kind of far. I'll get d rings on the neosteel when I can order it.

    so you want to buy a neosteel too? why two belts? sounds expensive

      BD1791 I don't plan on trying but if he's strict... Who knows what I'll do if I'm desperate

      If he cares about you as much as you say, he will be quite strict! And you probably will become desperate at some point, but that happens to the most willing wearers.

      He has reason to be strict, too; you admit you technically cheated at the end of your marriage, and he also knows you are willing to be in a sexual relationship with him as an unmarried woman. These all are least dance on the border of being un-virtuous. He’s acting for your own good to keep you belted. And I think you know deep down you should be belted, since you’re cooperating.

      (Hi! I’m Prudence - resident crazy chaste religious girl turned evangelist for belting others 🙂. )

        Angelina so you want to buy a neosteel too? why two belts? sounds expensive

        I think neosteel is a better quality belt but since Dr. Mende passed away there is no way to know when the store will actually reopen. I don't want to wait forever for a belt. My partner and I have been talking about one for a while and finally decided to do it. So... Idk. Yes it's more expensive but this way I'll have a belt for now and then can get what I think is a better belt when it's available again.

          Saintprudence He has reason to be strict, too; you admit you technically cheated at the end of your marriage, and he also knows you are willing to be in a sexual relationship with him as an unmarried woman. These all are least dance on the border of being un-virtuous. He’s acting for your own good to keep you belted. And I think you know deep down you should be belted, since you’re cooperating.

          Hi Prudence,

          I'll give you the cheating though that's very simplified but the willingness to have sexual relationship with him before marriage? He doesn't want that one to stop 😂. We are in a committed relationship that we both plan on being in forever. Whether or not the legal contract of marriage ever takes place... I guess we'll have to wait and see.

          BD1791 No d rings on it because they appear to stick out kind of far. I'll get d rings on the neosteel when I can order it.

          We have the hip version.
          The rings are nice but cumbersome, on my belt they were changed for others in "D" as they say around here, flatter.
          I only have one belt at the moment.

          Angelina so you want to buy a neosteel too? why two belts? sounds expensive

          My cousin is delighted to be able to change them, and sometimes the FS is a bit too tight and I would love to be able to rest by changing for another model.

            Saintprudence

            Saintprudence If he cares about you as much as you say, he will be quite strict!

            In agreement. What would be the reason for making a woman you love wear a belt if it is not so that it fulfills its function.

            Saintprudence And you probably will become desperate at some point, but that happens to the most willing wearers.

            Yes, a bit of drama sometimes is unavoidable.

            Saintprudence And I think you know deep down you should be belted, since you’re cooperating.

            Good point. At the end, my wife is proud of wearing It.

            Saintprudence (Hi! I’m Prudence - resident crazy chaste religious girl turned evangelist for belting others 🙂. )

            I missed you. I hope read you here more frequently.

            BD1791 Who knows what I'll do if I'm desperate 😂🤣

            We have a system where the girls and my wife get a safety boost on their belts if they try to cheat. Maybe a system with the same purpose will help you.

              Rafael We have a system where the girls and my wife get a safety boost on their belts if they try to cheat. Maybe a system with the same purpose will help you.

              What's a safety boost?

              BD1791 While I've read the hip ones are secure it seems the waist ones are more secure. Is that your understanding too?

              No, same level of security, but the hip one is easier to hide.

                Christine No, same level of security, but the hip one is easier to hide.

                Yes, it allows better clothes choice. When I begin to use belt 24/7 I asked for one.

                Christine No, same level of security, but the hip one

                How do you sleep with it on. It looks like it works be hard to sleep on your side.

                  BD1791

                  Yes, specially if you have wide hips or you bed is hard. However sleep in your side is unconfortable even in waist model. I have both models.
                  Do you know the stuffed cushion for pregnant women? They are great help for us too.

                    Ines Do you know the stuffed cushion for pregnant women? They are great help for us too.

                    I use a body pillow already. I think they are similar. Bummer. I usually sleep on my side.

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                      BD1791
                      You will change posture.
                      Do not worry, it happens to everyone here!

                        Ines You will change posture.

                        Like my posture will get better or it will change in some harmful way?

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                          BD1791
                          No, no, nothing harmful, only that you will find another more comfortable posture.
                          I will never accept anything harmful for me or anyone.