BD1791 I don't plan on trying but if he's strict... Who knows what I'll do if I'm desperate

If he cares about you as much as you say, he will be quite strict! And you probably will become desperate at some point, but that happens to the most willing wearers.

He has reason to be strict, too; you admit you technically cheated at the end of your marriage, and he also knows you are willing to be in a sexual relationship with him as an unmarried woman. These all are least dance on the border of being un-virtuous. He’s acting for your own good to keep you belted. And I think you know deep down you should be belted, since you’re cooperating.

(Hi! I’m Prudence - resident crazy chaste religious girl turned evangelist for belting others 🙂. )

    Angelina so you want to buy a neosteel too? why two belts? sounds expensive

    I think neosteel is a better quality belt but since Dr. Mende passed away there is no way to know when the store will actually reopen. I don't want to wait forever for a belt. My partner and I have been talking about one for a while and finally decided to do it. So... Idk. Yes it's more expensive but this way I'll have a belt for now and then can get what I think is a better belt when it's available again.

      Saintprudence He has reason to be strict, too; you admit you technically cheated at the end of your marriage, and he also knows you are willing to be in a sexual relationship with him as an unmarried woman. These all are least dance on the border of being un-virtuous. He’s acting for your own good to keep you belted. And I think you know deep down you should be belted, since you’re cooperating.

      Hi Prudence,

      I'll give you the cheating though that's very simplified but the willingness to have sexual relationship with him before marriage? He doesn't want that one to stop 😂. We are in a committed relationship that we both plan on being in forever. Whether or not the legal contract of marriage ever takes place... I guess we'll have to wait and see.

      BD1791 No d rings on it because they appear to stick out kind of far. I'll get d rings on the neosteel when I can order it.

      We have the hip version.
      The rings are nice but cumbersome, on my belt they were changed for others in "D" as they say around here, flatter.
      I only have one belt at the moment.

      Angelina so you want to buy a neosteel too? why two belts? sounds expensive

      My cousin is delighted to be able to change them, and sometimes the FS is a bit too tight and I would love to be able to rest by changing for another model.

        Saintprudence

        Saintprudence If he cares about you as much as you say, he will be quite strict!

        In agreement. What would be the reason for making a woman you love wear a belt if it is not so that it fulfills its function.

        Saintprudence And you probably will become desperate at some point, but that happens to the most willing wearers.

        Yes, a bit of drama sometimes is unavoidable.

        Saintprudence And I think you know deep down you should be belted, since you’re cooperating.

        Good point. At the end, my wife is proud of wearing It.

        Saintprudence (Hi! I’m Prudence - resident crazy chaste religious girl turned evangelist for belting others 🙂. )

        I missed you. I hope read you here more frequently.

        BD1791 Who knows what I'll do if I'm desperate 😂🤣

        We have a system where the girls and my wife get a safety boost on their belts if they try to cheat. Maybe a system with the same purpose will help you.

          Rafael We have a system where the girls and my wife get a safety boost on their belts if they try to cheat. Maybe a system with the same purpose will help you.

          What's a safety boost?

          BD1791 While I've read the hip ones are secure it seems the waist ones are more secure. Is that your understanding too?

          No, same level of security, but the hip one is easier to hide.

            Christine No, same level of security, but the hip one is easier to hide.

            Yes, it allows better clothes choice. When I begin to use belt 24/7 I asked for one.

            Christine No, same level of security, but the hip one

            How do you sleep with it on. It looks like it works be hard to sleep on your side.

              BD1791

              Yes, specially if you have wide hips or you bed is hard. However sleep in your side is unconfortable even in waist model. I have both models.
              Do you know the stuffed cushion for pregnant women? They are great help for us too.

                Ines Do you know the stuffed cushion for pregnant women? They are great help for us too.

                I use a body pillow already. I think they are similar. Bummer. I usually sleep on my side.

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                  BD1791
                  You will change posture.
                  Do not worry, it happens to everyone here!

                    Ines You will change posture.

                    Like my posture will get better or it will change in some harmful way?

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                      BD1791
                      No, no, nothing harmful, only that you will find another more comfortable posture.
                      I will never accept anything harmful for me or anyone.

                        Ines No, no, nothing harmful, only that you will find another more comfortable posture.

                        I assumed I wouldn't be able to slouch anymore. I'm horrible with that. Hopefully I get use to it quickly.

                        I've been feeling more nervous since I ordered...

                          BD1791

                          Do not worry, talk to your man and express your nervousness, it is normal that he allows you to get used to it.

                            Ines it is normal that he allows you to get used to it.

                            We have already talked about time to get use to it and he completely on board with that. I'm giving him a lot of control and that's a bit scary. I liked the idea, don't get me wrong, but now that it's becoming a reality... I'm nervous.

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                              BD1791 I'm giving him a lot of control and that's a bit scary.

                              The bound with keyholder can be amazing. You have the last word, you give him the control, but remember that you borrow it, control at the end is yours.

                                Rafael I missed you. I hope read you here more frequently.

                                It warms my heart to hear that, and I’ll try. My problem is that the past two months are seeing a refinement in my chastity philosophy and I’m still working it out.

                                I’m a trans woman, a dedicated feminist, a chastity fan, and was raised in an extremely cult like version of Catholicism. All these viewpoints collide a lot; sometimes I’m very “it’s horrible that anyone would belt anyone ever” and some days I’m like “as long as Christine’s mom pays her rent, she should accept the belt.”

                                Feminism even pulls me two ways here. One side tells me it’s horrible for a patriarchal family to belt its women. Another tells me that Yolanda is free to make her own choices, like any woman, and she chose your authority and she chose the belt, and I cannot criticize. Same with grown children accepting it. (Of course, kids are 100 percent off limits.)

                                One outcome is that in general, I don’t push chastity, but when someone like Yolanda or our new friend BD1791 chooses to join the locked sisterhood, I tend to push as extreme a 24/7 locking as possible. (I know part-time locking is okay, but I’m not the one to advise it.)