I know that some will find it strange, but I am also a feminist in my own way. I believe that women have the right to be happy and feel fulfilled.
What happens is that I don't think society has to be burned down for it, society gives me all the tools to do it, I think that current feminists confuse women's liberation with egalitarianism with men and I would not feel fulfilled doing man things.
I do not feel comfortable, for example, with a typical male sexual pattern, or dedicating myself to a risky profession, as a firefighter, in which, moreover, I will always be worse than the boys.
In the couple relationship, I feel comfortable being the part that I am cared for, protected and that when I worry a lot about something, it gives me an button slap and a hug and makes me think positive.
If feminism is the other thing, I do not want it, thanks.
In some things related to sports I am very opposed to the trans movement, but not in the rest, although I do not see it as good to take irreversible steps while a child is being formed, but, I suppose, that feeling like a woman will be because you long for that facet, the socializing in cliques that we girls tend to do, not because they want to drink Bourbon and burp.
Saintprudence I tend to push as extreme a 24/7 locking as possible. (I know part-time locking is okay, but I’m not the one to advise it.)
I am totally voluntary, and I know perfectly well that everything that was not 24/7 was not going to avoid moments of weakness. The longer we are and the safer it is, the more I accept it and the less time I spend fighting with it and that helps me to be calmer and happier. If you don't fight, you don't lose and I'm less frustrated.
BD1791 he's not going to wear one (neither of us want him to).
In my family it is not even considered for men. In the end the chsdtity belt creates a very special link with the keyholder. On the one hand, the sense of protecting the girl who wears it is one of the highest expressions of care and protection, and, I believe, the ones who have to be cared for are us, not them.
On the other hand, with a good keyholder, a dependency relationship is created, I, for example, do not have the right to any break, but nevertheless I have several throughout the day. I must explain why I need it and if it is for a medium-good reason, the break is made. I also like feeling heard and that my keyholders prioritize my personal achievement and if I need a break for it, they do it quickly.
On the other hand, in my opinion, in men I don't like it, in the first place, and I am sorry, but I see it as something for girls. On the other hand, if I am my husband's keyholder, it is evident that the relationships are adulterated since the keyholder-wearer relationship is distorted since it is evident that both figures cannot be separated.
BD1791 why this is something I want when it reduces my power in the relationship
I answer you in my case, because I do not want power in my relationship. So clear.
I am very lazy in my decision-making, and I like that, ultimately, someone else decides for me. I know it sounds contradictory, but as a semi-professional athlete and as a future doctor I am already going to make many decisions away from home, at home I prefer others to decide.
Does this mean we want to get me annulled? No, flatly. Call it hypocrisy, but I want my man to decide but after hearing me and taking me into account in the final decision. I wouldn't give that ability to decide to a jerk who did not have my wishes present in the decision. Call me lazy. Yes I am.