Can the cable on the neosteel be detached while wearing it?
Not like you ever tried. 
No lock is unpickable - except those that are unlockable and some very specific magnetic - electric locks. There is even a CB I know about, but I won't mention it here, since there are too many people looking for ways to lock their children.
Renita Although some people says, that locks are easy to pick, I was not successive in it.
They have a higher security lock you can upgrade to which I think I'm going to do... If the store is ever back on line.
I feel like I'll never even be able to order. One person in a different chat room told me it took almost a year from the time he ordered his measuring kit to get his belt. I really hope that's not true.
Ines Is your man as concerned about safety as you are?
If he is a strict keyholder you know that your chances of doing wrong things become 0.
Think about it.
Do you think I'm making a mistake by agreeing to let him hold my key? There's really no way to know how strick he'll be until I have the belt. I think he'll put my mental and physical health above everything else.
Are there things you think I should consider before fully entering into the agreement to let him control the belt?
BD1791 Do you think I'm making a mistake by agreeing to let him hold my key?
No, of course, I am not saying that.
BD1791 There's really no way to know how strick he'll be until I have the belt.
I am just saying that the terms of use have to be discussed beforehand, here there have been girls who got the belt, and then their keyholders endured use and even added accessories.
It is important that your man tells you that he has decided for you, openly, I know from the first moment that doing certain things was not going to be an option for me, ever.
It is important to speak up and not be afraid to communicate. I see it as normal for a man to want to be strict with his wife, I even see it as romantic, but that has to be discussed beforehand.
BD1791 Are there things you think I should consider before fully entering into the agreement to let him control the belt?
Yes, of course, you as girls (as me) can (and should) accept a strict chastity regime, but we can not accept surprise, specially not wanted ones.
Ines It is important to speak up and not be afraid to communicate
We have very open communicate. We have talked in depth about time to get use to the belt and expectations for the belt. I don't think he'll get anything or implement any rules without talking to me unless I consent to that kind of thing which I haven't.
If you think of something that you didn't know would be important before you got the belt I'd be interested to hear it. I've tried to anticipate what it will be like but it's hard to know before you know 
Well, basically, and transcending the small inconveniences and small adjustments, the really important thing is that you are clear about your expectations and what it will mean for you.
Time of use, breaks, consequences for bad behavior, what do you think about attempts to cheat... in my family we are all very convinced, but my uncles really had to dissect those terms.
That question can only be answered by you and your partner.
BD1791 That's a great suggested. I've been emailing back and forth with neosteel. I'm going to wait and see what pictures are like when the store is back up but if I can't see well I'll make this request. Thank you for the suggestion!
maybe you can then generally conduct a real sales pitch online via zoom or something similar, then the retailer can show you the different models 
BD1791 It gets confusing when people say the person wearing the belt can take off the bottom part and get access. I wanted to make sure, before I spend the money, that the kind of belt I'm planning to get is secure and that the wearer (or anyone else) can't gain access when it's locked on.
this only works if the wearer has the key, otherwise almost every branded belt is absolutely secure
BikelockFugitive There is even a CB I know about, but I won't mention it here, since there are too many people looking for ways to lock their children.
maybe interesting for children who want to lock up their parents
BD1791 We have very open communicate. We have talked in depth about time to get use to the belt and expectations for the belt. I don't think he'll get anything or implement any rules without talking to me unless I consent to that kind of thing which I haven't.
In my opinion, a very important point is to discuss all the rules beforehand so that nobody experiences a nasty surprise at the end. It's best to set the rules before you wear the belt and not while you're wearing the belt, because then you and he will be too emotionally tied