Can the cable on the neosteel be detached while wearing it?

BD1791

Laura Did you expect something

It gets confusing when people say the person wearing the belt can take off the bottom part and get access. I wanted to make sure, before I spend the money, that the kind of belt I'm planning to get is secure and that the wearer (or anyone else) can't gain access when it's locked on.

Laura

BD1791 It gets confusing when people say the person wearing the belt can take off the bottom part and get access

Not when a belt is locked in place

Angelina

BD1791 That's a great suggested. I've been emailing back and forth with neosteel. I'm going to wait and see what pictures are like when the store is back up but if I can't see well I'll make this request. Thank you for the suggestion!

maybe you can then generally conduct a real sales pitch online via zoom or something similar, then the retailer can show you the different models 😉

BD1791 It gets confusing when people say the person wearing the belt can take off the bottom part and get access. I wanted to make sure, before I spend the money, that the kind of belt I'm planning to get is secure and that the wearer (or anyone else) can't gain access when it's locked on.

this only works if the wearer has the key, otherwise almost every branded belt is absolutely secure

BikelockFugitive There is even a CB I know about, but I won't mention it here, since there are too many people looking for ways to lock their children.

maybe interesting for children who want to lock up their parents 😂

BD1791 We have very open communicate. We have talked in depth about time to get use to the belt and expectations for the belt. I don't think he'll get anything or implement any rules without talking to me unless I consent to that kind of thing which I haven't.

In my opinion, a very important point is to discuss all the rules beforehand so that nobody experiences a nasty surprise at the end. It's best to set the rules before you wear the belt and not while you're wearing the belt, because then you and he will be too emotionally tied

BD1791

Tobbe That's exactly how it is.
But a chastity belt should always fit snugly against your body, if it's your own.

That's what I wanted to make sure of. Thank you for your help 🙂

BD1791

Laura Not when a belt is locked in place

That's all I wanted to be sure of. I appreciate your help!

HHelen

Laura and @HHelen even wanted to order one for her daughter

No, I didn't order.

BD1791

HHelen No, I didn't order

Did you go with something else?

HHelen

BD1791 Did you go with something else?

With stock locks.

BikelockFugitive

Laura

Not like you ever tried. 👹
No lock is unpickable - except those that are unlockable and some very specific magnetic - electric locks. There is even a CB I know about, but I won't mention it here, since there are too many people looking for ways to lock their children.

Renita

BD1791 and prevents penetration/stimulation

It works perfectly. Although some people says, that locks are easy to pick, I was not successive in it.

BD1791

Renita Although some people says, that locks are easy to pick, I was not successive in it.

They have a higher security lock you can upgrade to which I think I'm going to do... If the store is ever back on line.

I feel like I'll never even be able to order. One person in a different chat room told me it took almost a year from the time he ordered his measuring kit to get his belt. I really hope that's not true.

Ines

BD1791

Is your man as concerned about safety as you are?
If he is a strict keyholder you know that your chances of doing wrong things become 0.
Think about it.

Renita

BD1791 They have a higher security lock you can upgrade to which I think I'm going to do...

Are you able to pick their standard lock?

BD1791

Ines Is your man as concerned about safety as you are?
If he is a strict keyholder you know that your chances of doing wrong things become 0.
Think about it.

Do you think I'm making a mistake by agreeing to let him hold my key? There's really no way to know how strick he'll be until I have the belt. I think he'll put my mental and physical health above everything else.

Are there things you think I should consider before fully entering into the agreement to let him control the belt?

Ines

BD1791 Do you think I'm making a mistake by agreeing to let him hold my key?

No, of course, I am not saying that.

BD1791 There's really no way to know how strick he'll be until I have the belt.

I am just saying that the terms of use have to be discussed beforehand, here there have been girls who got the belt, and then their keyholders endured use and even added accessories.
It is important that your man tells you that he has decided for you, openly, I know from the first moment that doing certain things was not going to be an option for me, ever.
It is important to speak up and not be afraid to communicate. I see it as normal for a man to want to be strict with his wife, I even see it as romantic, but that has to be discussed beforehand.

BD1791 Are there things you think I should consider before fully entering into the agreement to let him control the belt?

Yes, of course, you as girls (as me) can (and should) accept a strict chastity regime, but we can not accept surprise, specially not wanted ones.

BD1791

Ines It is important to speak up and not be afraid to communicate

We have very open communicate. We have talked in depth about time to get use to the belt and expectations for the belt. I don't think he'll get anything or implement any rules without talking to me unless I consent to that kind of thing which I haven't.

If you think of something that you didn't know would be important before you got the belt I'd be interested to hear it. I've tried to anticipate what it will be like but it's hard to know before you know 😂

Ines

BD1791

Well, basically, and transcending the small inconveniences and small adjustments, the really important thing is that you are clear about your expectations and what it will mean for you.
Time of use, breaks, consequences for bad behavior, what do you think about attempts to cheat... in my family we are all very convinced, but my uncles really had to dissect those terms.
That question can only be answered by you and your partner.

BD1791

Ines Time of use, breaks, consequences for bad behavior, what do you think about attempts to cheat...

What do you mean attempts to cheat? Like trying to get the bent off or masturbate?

Ines

BD1791
Yes.
Or even fight the belt, or use some tools.
All that must be clear.

BD1791

Ines Or even fight the belt, or use some tools.
All that must be clear.

That's a good suggestion. I haven't considered trying to take the belt off behind his back. Does everyone try that at she point?

James

BD1791 Yep. Consequences are always severe for that one.

Yolanda

BD1791 That's a good suggestion. I haven't considered trying to take the belt off behind his back. Does everyone try that at she point?

As long as there are no daughters, it's simple because it's an agreement between two people, but nevertheless he has to tell you what awaits you.

My daughter and niece always say that it is much easier when we have been given clear rules, when I was in charge, my daughter says that I improvised and that it was even worse, even though in some things I was not as strict as my husband.

BD1791 What kind of consequences happen for that?

Consequences for certain behaviors, what is allowed and what is not, my husband accepts that we fight with the belt, but trying to reach us below the belt would already be considered bad behavior, and sliding elements under the shield would be cause for more serious punishment and many nights with the blocking piece, until trust was restore

BD1791

James Yep. Consequences are always severe for that one.

What kind of consequences happen for that?

James

BD1791 That depends entirely on the sort of relationship you have, to be honest. Happy to email you about this if @Laura does not mind.

Ines

@BD1791 James

As long as it does not become a catalog of "punishments" or "consequences" there is no problem in commenting on what is in the different relations, but they must be placed in the correct thread.

BD1791

James Happy to email you about this if @Laura does not mind.

I'm fine with email if the two of you are comfortable with it.

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