Kaja Kaja But it feels so sexy and erotic to me. One of my fantasyes o:-).

And the same that I will force my bf to do it (he has the same opinion)

That is a terrible reason to show your belt in public. I am not saying anything against showing your belt in public because it is practical to take of whatever is covering the belt or anything, even if you do wear the belt for play reasons, but ig you deliberately show the belt to satisfy some exhibitionist fantasy, you are essentially making bystanders participate in your sex act, which I would consider a big no-no.

      Joh Because the other people in the dressing romm do not have a free decision whether or not they participate in her exposure kink. Again, if you just happen to be belted in their presence, I do not have a moral issue with it, but if you deliberately seek out the presence of other people, you are making them your play partners in exposure play.

          youdontknowme You can See it in that way or you suppose she/he don't care If someone See it and what they think about.

              Joh She wants to put her boyfriend in a situation where he has to show to random people that he wears a cage. The issue is with intentionally creating such a situation, which is strongly unethical. If it would happen randomly, then well, so what. But intentionally causing that simply is involving bystanders in @Kaja's kink.

                  Joh If she like it why not

                  Because it is in public and maybe minors can see it. It's a private thing.

                  Joh You can See it in that way or you suppose she/he don't care If someone See it and what they think about.

                  It's about what you force others to see not what you want to show.

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                        Sara2001 The Last time I went to a public pool There were separate showers for each sex. The purpose is to wash thoroughly beforehand and if there are no cubicles it means that everyone can see when I take off my baders. Now it's up to each individual to look at me explicitly or not. Out of consideration and because it is decent, one should not do it. When I wear a CB now, I don't expect the others to see at me like usually.

                            Joh When I wear a CB now, I don't expect the others to see at me like usually.

                            I still think that's not the right way to see it, especially if minors are around.

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                                Sara2001

                                Sara2001 I still think that's not the right way to see it, especially if minors are around.

                                It is Always dificult when minors are around. Them it is better Not to drop your baders. Better is to wash yourself with it in.

                                      Joh It is Always dificult when minors are around. Them it is better Not to drop your baders. Better is to wash yourself with it in.

                                      That's a good solution when it hides your equipment.

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                                          Sara2001 It hides Not only your Equipment, If you wear one. You will then not make your private parts visible. So if we are talking about prudent behaviour in the presence of minors, this is the right thing to do. Anyway If you wear one or Not.

                                              I dont hide my privats in front of underage 😀. I just undress, wash and change to swimsuit... All womens do the same there

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                                                Kaja I love the idea, Im down really excited every time (you know what I mean 😉).
                                                But we will not do it in real life. I agree with your argumenst.

                                                Usually people can not realise lot of their fantasyes... One of my favourite is cb at nudist beach, the second is being locked in boarding school (at my younger age, 12 or 13 yo for example). It will never bee done.

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                                                  Kaja I do it the same way.
                                                  But I wanted to point out If you see a problem with minors it is Independent from a CB.

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                                                      Joh Problem with minnors?

                                                      What you mean?

                                                      Underage never excited me 😀

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                                                          Kaja Nonono
                                                          I mean If They think it is Not a good behavior to get nacked If underage in the same showers room.

                                                              Joh And why? We are all the same peoples. Everybody there do the same. Only some girls at puberty are shy and they shower in they swimsuits.

                                                              But all adult womans and kids and most of the teenage girl are normally naked at showers and changing rooms...

                                                                @"Kaja"#p79088Yes. But as you wrote some girls in puberty are shy. Some people keep it to be shy with stranges.

                                                                In my opinion, the problem is more ethical than content.
                                                                That is, a person derives pleasure from the involuntary participation of others.
                                                                I will give a silly example of usual on mine 😂, if a person who generates sexual pleasure shows an apple. Is it moral that I get pleasure from showing that apple without the knowledge of the other party?
                                                                I do not see anything wrong with a belt in a locker room, but if the person wearing it does it out of exhibitionism, I think that, although the situation is the same, the moral dilemma is different