Since this discussion has crossed into the fetish area, I will just say..

There is a generally accepted rule (that I have seen a definate pattern with audioguy58 claiming
to go 100% against) OR just saying he is... He might just be doing absolutely nothing except to stir a pot to boiling here.

That rule is - Do not involve others in your fetish activity without their knowledge and consent.

Since there is no fetish police force that will desend on you for breaking that rule... Play at your own risk. Unfortunately if there is an "incident"... You will just make things just a tiny bit more difficult for the others, and vanilla people will just dislike "whatever fetish activity" even more.

(I will now get off my soap box...)

      Saintprudence I’ll just be genuinely sad when you get fired, sued, or both over it.

      I would not, because that idea to use other people as unknowing tools to get whatever sexual kick out of it is - and that is my opinion - just sick and disgusting. So any adverse consequences (e. g. loss of job etc) are well deserved then.

          JonesMacGyver That rule is - Do not involve others in your fetish activity without their knowledge and consent.

          👍️

          I think that is the most important point and the whole problem of the idea.

            audioguy58
            (EDITED after Ines post below) You have received a lot of constuctive critism about your activities this locking thermostat cover and your swim (not accidentilly flashing your equipment).

            You think we are piling on you and being negitive.

            We are trying to provide guidence to you to avoid you making yourself (and others) look bad/get embarrassed.

                audioguy58 “ … a denial-of-service attack targeted at human beings.“

                Audio, please, here anyone is harassing you, in fact you had compliments.

                @audioguy58
                JonesMacGyver

                Please, down the tone.
                I will review accidentally flash thread.

                    JonesMacGyver We are trying to provide guidence to you to avoid you making yourself (and others) look bad/get embarrassed.

                    right, no one wants to insult or criticise anyone too negatively, but this is still a forum where discussion should take place

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                      curious So any adverse consequences (e. g. loss of job etc) are well deserved then.

                      Sounds like an impermissible deviation from Marxism-Leninism to me.

                      I’m glad you’re not my union rep.

                          audioguy58
                          If you demonstrate highly inappropriate behaviour by instrumentalising other people for your kink without their consent, any adverse consequences you get out of this are more than deserved from my perspective. So why should I feel sorry for someone who is abusing other people sexually (even if it is without their knowledge) for his sexual kinks and then has to hace the consequences?

                              curious

                              100% agree. i wouldn't want to work with someone who abuses me for his sexual pleasure. a termination of the employment relationship is actually the least and actually still the most harmless, i think of reporting to the police etc.

                                JonesMacGyver Someone, who has another thermostat key, might see the extra key and remove it

                                I already addressed that issue many months ago.

                                  JonesMacGyver I suggest you find someone you can talk to, open up about your desire for them to be a keyholder for you. Develop a plan (make sure you have an emergency plan) then live in reality.

                                  Well thanks for the helpful advice. EDITED

                                      audioguy58 Huh? Are we even watching the same movie here?

                                      You wrote that you want to stick to your plan, even if it is only to annoy us, which I find very mean.

                                      audioguy58 EDITED.

                                      please refrain from insulting others, i'm not an admin/mod, but i'll pass this on to @Ines and @Laura now

                                            Ines locked the discussion .
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