hanna_anders we are very different to most western women.
Yes. But we can all learn from what @Amira says. "I will give my parents the present of being pure and chaste until next christmas." What an excellent Christmas gift.
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Nah you're way more pure than me. like my reason for doing this - it's an excuse I've been telling myself and you guys. I lock myself up every night because I've got a fetish for the belt and for the denial. Like going to sleep with my body screaming at me under the belt is bliss. Wearing my belt is only depressing when I'm not aroused. And during the day any thought of touching - nah I love my "not since 2021" and the looking forward to the belt at night - and like it's easy actually. And it's actually been a year now!!!! Kinda blows my mind lol
and like it's easy actually.
Not sure it's easy but I do think it's easier than people think. One has to be able to create an atmosphere to do it in. No sexy clothes, no porn, no booze, controlled showers, etc. No going to bars, no guys hanging about.
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Jen showering in the belt is easiest then I get it taken off after to get properly dry. No guys - I agree but it's becoming a problem
See I have an edge. I shower at the gym (no belt, of course) where there are people coming and going so nothing more than a quick swish with a towel is possible. Not everyone has that situation of course.
Jen I've got a fetish for the belt and for the denial. Like going to sleep with my body screaming at me under the belt is bliss
Long ago I thought I had a fetish for CBs, but over the years it revealed itself to be something quite different. The birth of self-discipline maybe? I dunno. Either way, it would be really helpful to get pleasure from chastity, if chastity is what you want to pursue.
It will be interesting to see whether you ever go full time. Who knows? It doesn't matter ofc. It's just interesting. Sometimes I wonder if all submissive behaviour is play/practice for full on virtue.
) you can do it.Jen Nah you're way more pure than me.
I do not believe it.
Jen I lock myself up every night because I've got a fetish for the belt and for the denial.
I think does not matter, at the end you remain pure and untouched by your own.
I need my belt, a keyholder and even accessories to achieve the same.
My only merit is knowing what my virtue is as a woman, but I do not think I would be able to maintain it alone. I am not complaining either, knowing that I have the help I need makes me feel very good.
But, it does not count as my merit, it is very easy to behave well when you have people who protect you and do not give you the opportunity to be embarrassed.
Kaja I want laser there - totally smooth. I hate pubes.
It is the best. You only needs go over the most delicate part. I did it got my cousin advice and it is the best.
It is a bit expensive, but it is an expense that you will not regret. Not only is it comfortable with the belt, it also gives you a cleaner look.
I did it in the armpits and now I am with the legs.
Ines I think does not matter, at the end you remain pure and untouched by your own.
Thanks
Jonas Long ago I thought I had a fetish for CBs, but over the years it revealed itself to be something quite different. The birth of self-discipline maybe? I dunno.
Yeah I feel the same. Interest in the belt itself was sure the start for me. And the chastity virtue stuff is real and that got me to commit - but I think I'd have failed if it was just that. So yeah basically a fetish for it is keeping me committed to the virtue of it lol
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Avery Since she came to the west what has happened to her? Her new (step-)father has locked her into a belt just as your father did to you.
Yes, but that doesn't have much to do with religion, on the contrary. @Amira wrote that her stepfather wants her in the belt because of western values and over time @Amira became more and more convinced that the belt is right so she became a volunteer. chastity is not necessarily a religious value but primarily a moral one
In addition, @Amira's stepfather was the driving force, at least in the beginning, and as far as I know he is German and not a Muslim
Ines I do not like so much talk about it, but for me worse moment is shaving, not always, but sometimes.
shaving is always a critical moment because you automatically come into contact with your most intimate parts and a kind of sensual feeling can arise 
@Amira how did the conversation go now, what did you say to your parents and how did they react? 
That has everything to do with religion. He objects to western values as a Muslim. As any Muslim would.
Angelina became more and more convinced that the belt is right so she became a volunteer.
I will not believe that until you can find me a quote where she said that. She's no more a volunteer than you are.
Angelina chastity is not necessarily a religious value but primarily a moral one
Please do not lecture on chastity. You are in a belt because your father found you masturbating four years ago so he forced you to be chaste by locking you in a belt. Now you want nothing more than to be out of it so you can fulfill your commitment to Camryn. I hope that happens soon but none of that says chastity to me.
Whether through religion or morals Amira has been chaste all her life. She can speak to what chastity is and is not. We could all learn from her.
Angelina how did the conversation go now, what did you say to your parents and how did they react?
the conversation went pretty well and it won't be like there won't be a backing out if I couldn't take it anymore.
I said that my main present for them this year is something immaterial and it will be that I will wear "it" without the sunday breaks for things that aren't cleaning and hygiene in the next year.
Amira I am wearing my belt and would want to take it off right now. But you are correct that I was not a 100 % volunteer at first.
My stepfather is a muslim and not German
Thank you for the clarifications. Your idea of gifting your chastity to your parents next Christmas is a beautiful thought. I am certain you will succeed.