youdontknowme I think the implication was that the woman's body shape would serve as a substitude for the chastity belt, that no man would want to have sex with her so she is inherently safe from any unwanted activity. Which seems downright insulting.

Yes, I understood that, too.

youdontknowme And yeah, "abolutely every woman should wear" sounds like a somewhat warped world view. Make that "should have the opportunity to wear" and we can agree on that, but the women who want to be in charge of their own sexuality should have that right.

Well, it is my opinion. Anyway, it is different "should" of "have".
Every girl is free for wear or do not wear, but however even if the girls that do not wear it, should wear it. 🤭

        youdontknowme yeah, "abolutely every woman should wear" sounds like a somewhat warped world view. Make that "should have the opportunity to wear" and we can agree on that, but the women who want to be in charge of their own sexuality should have that right.

        Since I have to wear one I want every other girl too. I would love if there was a chastity belt law. All woman required to be in chastity and when they get married the key goes to their husband. If I have to every girls should have to. It would also make it less taboo and not somthing that needs to be hidden if everyone wore one.

            CharInChastity All woman required to be in chastity

            That does not mean they all need a belt. One quarter of the world already lives that way and they don't wear belts, that I've ever heard of.

              Laura I agree 😂

              At least we know you're a girl.

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                CharInChastity Since I have to wear one I want every other girl too.

                I think it would be better if you were given the choice than if everyone else was denied it. But there is definitely something to be said in favor of promoting enforced chastity as a valid lifestyle choice.

                  Renita That's US 14. I doubt, that she needs a chastity belt 😃

                  please remain polite. even fatter women have sexual feelings and want a partner who loves them.

                  CharInChastity If I have to every girls should have to.

                  no, i see it differently. i share certain points of your point of view, but this argument is not very nice. that you have to wear the belt is because of your parents and it wouldn't change anything if another girl had to, it wouldn't make anything better for you, but only worse for other girls. There is nothing wrong with wearing it voluntarily, but you shouldn't want to force it on other girls just so you don't feel alone.

                        CharInChastity It would also make it less taboo and not somthing that needs to be hidden if everyone wore one.

                        You don't need a law for that! It would just be desirable for a belt to be seen as a normal piece of clothing. So he would not have to be hidden!

                        Angelina There is nothing wrong with wearing it voluntarily, but you shouldn't want to force it on other girls just so you don't feel alone.

                        Very beautiful words!

                            Ines Well, it is my opinion. Anyway, it is different "should" of "have".
                            Every girl is free for wear or do not wear, but however even if the girls that do not wear it, should wear it. 🤭

                            A rather radical view, but understandable.

                            CharInChastity If I have to every girls should have to

                            Pure pathology. If you were raped, would you demand that every other woman be raped too?

                                  Angelina it wouldn't change anything if another girl had to, it wouldn't make anything better for you, but only worse for other girls.

                                  She explained her reasoning; if nothing else it would mean social norms became friendlier to locked girls. But I still have hope that that can be achieved with less drastic ways, and I imagine that for someone locked against their will, freedom is worth more than the changed social norms anyway.

                                      Andrew Pure pathology.

                                      Agree.
                                      Another suspicious point.

                                        Philip your profile says you are a man that wants to try chastity. Does your wife want to try it to?

                                            Philip ok, your post says looking for a belt for a plus’s sized lady but your profile says your a man.

                                                CharInChastity Ladies of sizes want to have relations. And men/ meim an love woman of all sizes.

                                                Yes, she needs relations, rather than chastity belt.

                                                CharInChastity That’s just mean.

                                                That's just realistic.

                                                Ines but she herself will feel highly valued

                                                And lie to yourself?

                                                CharInChastity I would love if there was a chastity belt law.

                                                Are you @Lana? https://unwedchastity.org/d/614-chastity-belt-law

                                                Angelina even fatter women have sexual feelings and want a partner who loves them

                                                And her chastity belt will be an additional problem.

                                                            Renita And lie to yourself?

                                                            No.
                                                            A chastity belt makes feel yourself very caressed and valuable. A lot of people with overweight has a serious problem of self-esteem prior to take the weight.

                                                              CharInChastity Yes I am a man. But my original post asked what would be the best belt type for a plus size lady. I just wanted some information before I responded to a question one of my wife's colleagues asked. I have no intention of getting a belt for my wife.

                                                                  Philip
                                                                  Answering you, I think that a cable belt. Easily adjustable.

                                                                    Can we maybe talk in height and weight (preferably in SI units) rather than dress sizes, which
                                                                    a) mean nothing to me
                                                                    b) seem to be different anyhow depending on where you are from?

                                                                    At some point I would assume a belt would not work anymore. The hip bones prevent the belt from simply being pushed down. If waist belt is larger than hip, it would probably be possible to slide the belt off with some effort.
                                                                    Security might be compromised anyhow because a thick fat layer under the skin might allow for fingers to reach the forbidden zone. The only way to prevent that would be to make the belt extremely tight which then would cause all sorts of skin problems.