Belts for plus size ladies.

Natalia

CharInChastity It would also make it less taboo and not somthing that needs to be hidden if everyone wore one.

You don't need a law for that! It would just be desirable for a belt to be seen as a normal piece of clothing. So he would not have to be hidden!

Angelina There is nothing wrong with wearing it voluntarily, but you shouldn't want to force it on other girls just so you don't feel alone.

Very beautiful words!

Andrew

Ines Well, it is my opinion. Anyway, it is different "should" of "have".
Every girl is free for wear or do not wear, but however even if the girls that do not wear it, should wear it. 🤭

A rather radical view, but understandable.

CharInChastity If I have to every girls should have to

Pure pathology. If you were raped, would you demand that every other woman be raped too?

Ines

Andrew Pure pathology.

Agree.
Another suspicious point.

youdontknowme

Angelina it wouldn't change anything if another girl had to, it wouldn't make anything better for you, but only worse for other girls.

She explained her reasoning; if nothing else it would mean social norms became friendlier to locked girls. But I still have hope that that can be achieved with less drastic ways, and I imagine that for someone locked against their will, freedom is worth more than the changed social norms anyway.

Angelina

youdontknowme She explained her reasoning; if nothing else it would mean social norms became friendlier to locked girls. But I still have hope that that can be achieved with less drastic ways, and I imagine that for someone locked against their will, freedom is worth more than the changed social norms anyway.

it would be nice if something could happen in conversations between girls that chastity belts could be talked about in the same way as house arrest or mobile phone bans or the like. forcing something on others is definitely wrong, however.

Renita And her chastity belt will be an additional problem.

i don't think a woman's weight should be be viewed so negatively, i know enough who have a partner anyway. it depends on what the man finds attractive. although i must say that the belt is perhaps too tight and uncomfortable or it cannot be locked.

CharInChastity

Philip your profile says you are a man that wants to try chastity. Does your wife want to try it to?

Philip

CharInChastity My wife has no interest in wearing a chastity belt at all.

CharInChastity

Philip ok, your post says looking for a belt for a plus’s sized lady but your profile says your a man.

Philip

CharInChastity Yes I am a man. But my original post asked what would be the best belt type for a plus size lady. I just wanted some information before I responded to a question one of my wife's colleagues asked. I have no intention of getting a belt for my wife.

Renita

CharInChastity Ladies of sizes want to have relations. And men/ meim an love woman of all sizes.

Yes, she needs relations, rather than chastity belt.

CharInChastity That’s just mean.

That's just realistic.

Ines but she herself will feel highly valued

And lie to yourself?

CharInChastity I would love if there was a chastity belt law.

Are you @Lana? https://unwedchastity.org/d/614-chastity-belt-law

Angelina even fatter women have sexual feelings and want a partner who loves them

And her chastity belt will be an additional problem.

Ines

Renita And lie to yourself?

No.
A chastity belt makes feel yourself very caressed and valuable. A lot of people with overweight has a serious problem of self-esteem prior to take the weight.

Ines

Philip
Answering you, I think that a cable belt. Easily adjustable.

curious

Can we maybe talk in height and weight (preferably in SI units) rather than dress sizes, which
a) mean nothing to me
b) seem to be different anyhow depending on where you are from?

At some point I would assume a belt would not work anymore. The hip bones prevent the belt from simply being pushed down. If waist belt is larger than hip, it would probably be possible to slide the belt off with some effort.
Security might be compromised anyhow because a thick fat layer under the skin might allow for fingers to reach the forbidden zone. The only way to prevent that would be to make the belt extremely tight which then would cause all sorts of skin problems.

Avery

curious Can we maybe talk in height and weight

Actually, no we can't. Doesn't work. Check out the following link. It defaults to a perfect US size ten, based on boob, waist and bum measurements. Use the little arrows next to the three measurements to adjust for the exact size of the woman you are interested in and it will give you dress size for US, UK, and EU based on each of the three measurements.

https://www.omnicalculator.com/everyday-life/dress-size

Ines

curious The only way to prevent that would be to make the belt extremely tight which then would cause all sorts of skin problems.

Cable belt have to be used very tight, so no difference in this point.
However, a waist belt moderately tightened can work too, due even if it is not excruciatingly tight, it will have enough compressed flesh under it to avoid cheating.

Samtpfote

I'm plus-size men and I asked at My-Steel, if an chastity belt may be suitable and I am afraid that I will get the KG over my hips even when closed. I got the following answer:
"Your fear is not entirely unjustified. A hip model would be ideal. Here's what you do:

Take a leather belt and put it on very tightly below your belly. Then try to slip the leather belt over the buttocks. If this goes very easily and the belt is tight, you should refrain from this investment. The problem, if you look from behind, back, loin, pelvis and butt area are on the same level, then stripping is very easy."

Renita

Angelina i don't think a woman's weight should be be viewed so negatively

Of course, if she is attractive for men. But it's hard to believe with size 14+.

Angelina

Renita Of course, if she is attractive for men. But it's hard to believe with size 14+.

it's certainly more difficult for such women because the ideal picture is different, but it's certainly doable 🙂

hanna_anders

Renita Of course, if she is attractive for men. But it's hard to believe with size 14+

Why is that hard to believe? Plenty of women are larger than me and have perfectly happy lives. I'm happy being skinny, but I wouldnt dream of saying a more plump girl can't be attractive. Men like women of all shapes and sizes, luckily we dont all conform to a standard ideal of whats attractive in your eyes.

Avery

hanna_anders Men like women of all shapes and sizes, luckily we dont all conform to a standard ideal of whats attractive in your eyes.

Right. Also, women get older, have children and put on some weight. The guy Phillip who started the thread said he is 39. The lady in question is probably middle-aged and has a middle-aged shape. So probably is her man.

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