Belts for plus size ladies.

Ines

Renita And lie to yourself?

No.
A chastity belt makes feel yourself very caressed and valuable. A lot of people with overweight has a serious problem of self-esteem prior to take the weight.

Philip

CharInChastity Yes I am a man. But my original post asked what would be the best belt type for a plus size lady. I just wanted some information before I responded to a question one of my wife's colleagues asked. I have no intention of getting a belt for my wife.

Ines

Philip
Answering you, I think that a cable belt. Easily adjustable.

curious

Can we maybe talk in height and weight (preferably in SI units) rather than dress sizes, which
a) mean nothing to me
b) seem to be different anyhow depending on where you are from?

At some point I would assume a belt would not work anymore. The hip bones prevent the belt from simply being pushed down. If waist belt is larger than hip, it would probably be possible to slide the belt off with some effort.
Security might be compromised anyhow because a thick fat layer under the skin might allow for fingers to reach the forbidden zone. The only way to prevent that would be to make the belt extremely tight which then would cause all sorts of skin problems.

Avery

curious Can we maybe talk in height and weight

Actually, no we can't. Doesn't work. Check out the following link. It defaults to a perfect US size ten, based on boob, waist and bum measurements. Use the little arrows next to the three measurements to adjust for the exact size of the woman you are interested in and it will give you dress size for US, UK, and EU based on each of the three measurements.

https://www.omnicalculator.com/everyday-life/dress-size

Ines

curious The only way to prevent that would be to make the belt extremely tight which then would cause all sorts of skin problems.

Cable belt have to be used very tight, so no difference in this point.
However, a waist belt moderately tightened can work too, due even if it is not excruciatingly tight, it will have enough compressed flesh under it to avoid cheating.

Samtpfote

I'm plus-size men and I asked at My-Steel, if an chastity belt may be suitable and I am afraid that I will get the KG over my hips even when closed. I got the following answer:
"Your fear is not entirely unjustified. A hip model would be ideal. Here's what you do:

Take a leather belt and put it on very tightly below your belly. Then try to slip the leather belt over the buttocks. If this goes very easily and the belt is tight, you should refrain from this investment. The problem, if you look from behind, back, loin, pelvis and butt area are on the same level, then stripping is very easy."

Angelina

youdontknowme She explained her reasoning; if nothing else it would mean social norms became friendlier to locked girls. But I still have hope that that can be achieved with less drastic ways, and I imagine that for someone locked against their will, freedom is worth more than the changed social norms anyway.

it would be nice if something could happen in conversations between girls that chastity belts could be talked about in the same way as house arrest or mobile phone bans or the like. forcing something on others is definitely wrong, however.

Renita And her chastity belt will be an additional problem.

i don't think a woman's weight should be be viewed so negatively, i know enough who have a partner anyway. it depends on what the man finds attractive. although i must say that the belt is perhaps too tight and uncomfortable or it cannot be locked.

Renita

Angelina i don't think a woman's weight should be be viewed so negatively

Of course, if she is attractive for men. But it's hard to believe with size 14+.

Angelina

Renita Of course, if she is attractive for men. But it's hard to believe with size 14+.

it's certainly more difficult for such women because the ideal picture is different, but it's certainly doable 🙂

hanna_anders

Renita Of course, if she is attractive for men. But it's hard to believe with size 14+

Why is that hard to believe? Plenty of women are larger than me and have perfectly happy lives. I'm happy being skinny, but I wouldnt dream of saying a more plump girl can't be attractive. Men like women of all shapes and sizes, luckily we dont all conform to a standard ideal of whats attractive in your eyes.

Avery

hanna_anders Men like women of all shapes and sizes, luckily we dont all conform to a standard ideal of whats attractive in your eyes.

Right. Also, women get older, have children and put on some weight. The guy Phillip who started the thread said he is 39. The lady in question is probably middle-aged and has a middle-aged shape. So probably is her man.

Philip

@Ines can i ask you to split or halt this thread?

The intention of this thread was only to ask "what belt would be best for a plus size lady?"

My intention for asking this question was a request from my wife from her colleague that found out about possibility of chastity belts. My wife's colleague accidentally came across our lifestyle and started asking questions. From what i am lead to believe my wife's colleague and her wife have been married for a few years now.

I have no idea what the intention was behind the inquiry was. Weather it was just curiosity ( Which i actually suspect), something that they might use as a marital aid or something that might be prevent masturbation within a married couple i do not know.

Unforeseen to myself i did not anticipate that a debate on who would find whom attractive would descend from this thread. This is something beyond the original question that i really do not want to get in to.

Regards

Philip

Ines

Philip

Yes, @Philip. Done.
In fact I did not understand why people did not answer: cable belt, hip belt or Carrara belt, when the question was very easy.

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