Angelina But I know because I have the keys

1) I've read the entire thread about your dad's belt (or rather your statements within it). I don't want to question what you write, but the situation you describe is - to put it mildly - very unusual. A man with no experience with chastity belts/cages decides to wear a belt for a year without any relief? 😮 Later, he wears the belt with virtually no problems and bravely endures discomfort and total lack of satisfaction? It's hard for me to imagine, but if it is, your dad is an extraordinary guy...
2) Just because you have a key doesn't mean your father isn't satisfying. Getting yourself ejaculated with a vibrator is not a big problem in this type of belt.

      Andrew

      1) i didn't expect anything else from my father, he will certainly have his problems too, but he won't admit them openly because he expects me to wear the belt and i could use any of his weaknesses against him, he pulls it off poker face style.
      2) he wears the same belt as me only in the men's version, a mysteel total. i don't think he can cheat him so easily 😉

        Every 1-2 weeks it comes off for cleaning.
        Longest I’ve gone between orgasms is 30 days.
        We were using a point system where every ten points I lost the right to orgasm next time she desired to be sexual. I think I had like 60 points then. 😬😝
        I’ve recently have really been a pest sexually to the point where she wasn’t very attracted to me sexually. So I offered to prove that she’s not just a sex object to me by staying in the cage with no orgasms/ sex for 2 months. Thought for sure she’d say nah that’s not right. She told me 3 times you just remember this day that it was your idea.
        Damn me and my big mouth.

          Cb85 I’m just finishing week one of the 8 weeks I promised.

              Cb85 Thought for sure she’d say nah that’s not right. She told me 3 times you just remember this day that it was your idea.
              Damn me and my big mouth.

              That's why I express moderate enthusiasm when my wife teases me and says she will lock me in a cage for more than a month... 😉

              I also don't have a pierced penis, so I can easily cheat and take it out of the cage, although I don't like doing it.

                  Cb85 I’m just finishing week one of the 8 weeks I promised.

                  good luck with it, i hope you hang in there 🙂

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                      Angelina I will stick it out. She’s been very generous with me sexually in the last few months. I really do love her and desire for her to know that, so I’m ok with giving her a break so we can focus on non sexual closeness.
                      However I’m finding out just how selfish I am. It’s very difficult not to be manipulative or ask to cheat my offer. I have a very high sex drive for my age.
                      Still I promised to love her for better or worse and I’d give up having orgasms entirely if that’s what it took to convince her of my love!!

                          I am normally locked up for a week and then removed for good cleaning. I do not necessarily get relief then. Iquently.t depends on the availability of my cunninglis providerl That is about the only way I get really good orgasms. My main reason for being locked is to get better orgasms. I do not have a regular keyholder but a few friends that will help out when needed. Without a device locked on, I tend to masturbate, (unsucessfully) frequently so it really hels me.

                          Andrew A prince albert piercing provides the best way to ensur chastity for a male. Used with a Lori's Tube or other piercing type cage, there will be NO cheating. The Key Holder is in charge.

                            Andrew I also don't have a pierced penis, so I can easily cheat and take it out of the cage, although I don't like doing it.

                            Pulling out for orgasms kinda feels like it would ruin the point of a chastity device in the first place, and doing it while pretending in front of your partner that you have been chaste feels rather cheaty to me. But personally, I find pullout to be a nice method of cleaning up - the device still has you quite literally by the balls, which is a good reminder to not soap up too vigorously, if you catch my drift.

                                youdontknowme But personally, I find pullout to be a nice method of cleaning up - the device still has you quite literally by the balls, which is a good reminder to not soap up too vigorously, if you catch my drift.

                                I do exactly the same. I got the joke 😉

                                  Cb85

                                  your love for her seems to be very strong, it shows in every sentence, i think you will make it if your partner regularly redeems you and she supports you. very romantic words from you 🙂

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                                      My wife is calling it a sexual reset and she’s very on board and supportive.
                                      I’m a very blessed guy. ❤️

                                        Cb85 My wife is calling it a sexual reset and she’s very on board and supportive.
                                        I’m a very blessed guy. ❤️

                                        sexual reset, a beautiful word 😃

                                            17 days later

                                            Angelina yes she is enjoying just being close in other ways like cuddling and kissing and talking. Imagine that a gal that enjoys talking 😂

                                                Cb85

                                                through my (non-voluntary) chastity i have realised that there are many other things to enjoy outside of sex with the right partner by your side, i can share your experiences 🙂

                                                    Angelina I’m on week four as of tomorrow and I’m about 1/2 way through.
                                                    I have noticed I’m not focusing of getting sex from her at all. Which I did focus on frequently before.
                                                    I think in marriages where one person has a high sex drive and the other not it can almost become a barter system of if I do this then maybe he/she will have sex.

                                                    It’s not a healthy position and probably just serves to turn the other person (with the lower sex drive) off.

                                                    This has ended the barter system and “reset” things.

                                                        Cb85

                                                        i wish you continued success. i think in relationships with an asymmetrical sex drive it is important to make compromises. someone with a high drive must learn to be more patient and someone with a low drive should still respect the needs of the partner. 🙂

                                                          I read something like 3% of the population has a super high sex drive. That’s probably me.
                                                          So i don’t know if it’s so much a need as just unusual amount of desire