Corsets and chastity belts

Eva30corsetlover

Hello, my name is Eva, I am 30 and I live in Europe.

A few years ago I became quite fond of wearing corsets. I started waist training seriously ten months ago and I have been wearing one 22h per day for three months now.

The reason I am reaching out to you now is because my husband and I have reached to the conclusion (I guess I could explain why if necessary in another post) that I should be wearing a chastity belt (I have had one before getting married so I know the feeling).
We want to make something good for our couple out of this experience. And I don't want to give up corseting which have helped me tremendously by adding structure to my life.

So my question is this : does anyone has experience wearing both a corset (cotton or silk waist cincher to be exact, as it does not includes my breast) and a chastity belt for long periods of time ?
I know how to hide those under plain cloths, and to live with the constraints it will bring to my life. I know how to keep good hygiene.

But we don't know how to make them work mechanically.
My corsets are custom, made specifically for me. the belts we have seen (neosteel, Carrara, etc.) will be made custom for me as well. my husband wants me to be comfortable in the device.
But what should we look for ? which one is on top of the other ? this kind of things.

If one of you has had experience with both of these devices, I would be very grateful to have some guidance.

Thanks a lot for accepting me in your community.
Eva

Bryan

Eva30corsetlover Hey Eva. I am afraid I don't have any personal knowledge of the combination. Do you still have the belt from before you were married? Seems like could be quite helpful for testing combinations.

Sin

Eva30corsetlover I used to wear a corset with CB all the time, it's totally fine. If anything it makes it more comfortable as it reduces the wear and abrasiveness of the belt directly on the skin around the waist / hips.

In winter I still wear a shaper just for the additional comfort. The corset goes on first, the belt sits over the top. The belt will need some adjustability around the waist if you want to wear it with or without the corset.

Renita

Eva30corsetlover have had one before getting married so I know the feeling

What belt did you wear?

Andrew

Eva30corsetlover But what should we look for ? which one is on top of the other ? this kind of things.

At the beginning of the disclaimer: I have no experience in the subject (once in my life I wore a corset) only some theoretical knowledge.

In my opinion, the best combination would be a waist chastity belt worn over a corset. I've seen this arrangement many times in fetish photos and it seemed to make the most sense. I doubt that wearing a belt under a corset would be comfortable. What's more, if you look at the 19th century constructions, the corset has always been a kind of base for elements covering the genitals (chastity belt). The best example is the male chastity belt from the New York sex museum, where the basis of the construction is a leather lumbar corset to which elements covering the crotch and closing the whole are attached. If you plan to wear the chastity belt all the time, you can also adjust the corsets to attach the belt to them by sewing on the belt loops.

Eva30corsetlover I wear it 22h a day

Even sleeping in a corset?

Eva30corsetlover

Bryan thank you for your answer.

No I don't have it anymore unfortunately.

Some people recommend the belt above the corset and some recommend the belt below. But it is mostly in kinky circles so I still don't know how it should be for permanent wear.

What is a waist-style belt ? I only know one kind of belt, the usual ones from neosteel or Carrara.

Bryan

Eva30corsetlover I am afraid I misspoke in my earlier message. A hip-style (not waist) belt sits lower. However most folks here seem to have (and to prefer) a waist style belt that sits higher (but might conflict more with a corset)

https://www.my-steel.de/hip-style-or-waist-style

Ines

Eva30corsetlover

Hello, I do not know anything about corset further they are cute.

Bryan

Sin I don't have any first-hand belt experience but have some familiarity with corsets. I am a bit surprised the belt can be worn over the corset as the metal busk closure in front and laces in back, as well as some of the curves introduced seem as if they would interfere with the tight fit that makes the belt effective?

Eva30corsetlover

Sin that is amazing !! Thanks.
Is the belt as effective ?
So you're saying the belt.has to be custom made because off the additional layer involved ?
Can you please tell me more ?
I would be so happy yo be able to wear both.

Sin

Bryan As long as you can't shimmy the belt over the hip bones it's not coming off! The curves of a corset should mimic the natural curves of the body. The belt doesn't have to be too much looser, maybe a single pant size at most. Most belts have that amount of adjustability built in to account for bloating etc. If anything the waist band would sit ever so slightly higher, meaning the shield / crotch section of the belt is pulled closer to the body (making it tighter).

In most cases the corset is far more restrictive than the belt. I have a steel boned PVC waspie, a very restrictive latex overbust and a few fancy bridal lace types. Only the bridal ones have clasps in front. The kink ones aren't exactly designed to escape from! The fitted shapewear I use is like a corset-shaped singlet, I use it specifically to stop the belt chafing. It's really only the thickness of a T shirt so I don't have to resize the belt or anything drastic.

If you're getting a belt made I would suggest an anatomical hip band if you want your corsets to last. Steel is very unforgiving.

Eva30corsetlover

Sin what is anatomical ? With rubber ?
What kind of corsets would.you suggest ?
Restrictive is perfect for the day. But I also need one more forgiving for the night without decreasing the belt efficiency.

Sin

Eva30corsetlover Is the belt as effective ?

Depends on many things.

So you're saying the belt.has to be custom made because off the additional layer involved ?

No but it's preferable for a good fit. You should mention your desire to wear a corset with the belt to the manufacturer.

Eva30corsetlover what is anatomical ? With rubber ?

If it's solid steel then the waistband should flare out to account for your hips, and it absolutely should be custom made. A straight, circular waistband will tear your corsets to shreds. Personally I use a cable belt which I prefer because I lead a very active lifestyle.

Eva30corsetlover What kind of corsets would.you suggest ? Restrictive is perfect for the day.

Latex of course! But with that I think we're straying too far from the purpose of this site. You can use whatever corset you wish, it won't affect the belt.

Sin

If this is anything to go by...

Eva30corsetlover I had scoliosis and had to wear a corset during puberty... In the process I built a special relationship with corsets. And I wear one permanently.

...you should chat to your prosthetist and get something ahem "supportive" custom made for you. Alternatively HW Design in Vienna have some very restrictive corsets, but given your medical history you should be very careful tight-lacing all the time. You should definitely be going down this path with some guidance from your doc, OT and/or physio. Don't mess with your spine, you only get one.

Ines

Sin Don't mess with your spine, you only get one.

Let me send you a kiss. 😘

Eva30corsetlover

Sin I could not agree more !! I am doing this under supervision. The operation did not correct 100% and my actual corset is customade to correct the rest. I wear it 22h a day because for the remaining 2 hours I do for 1h abs and back musculation (as advised by the medical team) so the muscles keep doing their job. Thank you for saying this.

Sin

Eva30corsetlover The operation did not correct 100% and my actual corset is customade to correct the rest.

By a seamstress or an orthotist? May I ask what the operation was? How long ago was it?

Eva30corsetlover

Renita I have no idea tbh.
I asked my mom and we discussed it. It looked very similar to the one my sister had. But I don't know the brand. Sorry.

Renita

Eva30corsetlover Can you describe it?

Eva30corsetlover

Sin it is made by a corset maker and checked by the orthist.
It was 14 years ago

Eva30corsetlover

Andrew
Good idea. Maybe have the corset designed to form a base to the belt and yes have the belt fixed to the corset. That would be neat.

Yes I do sleep in my corset.