Asking mom for takeover the keys
university 
Renita Since it's a real belt, rather than a cage, it's not easy to bypass it. Think again if you really want it.
Yes, that's right, the right belt is something different than a cage. That was also the reason for a real belt, i could always pull it out of the cage.
I thought about it for a long time and only then made the decision, to give the keys in other hands.
I think I'll know more in about an hour.
TimGER One thing is certain: you might not get what you want, but you'll get what you deserve.
Saintprudence TimGER One thing is certain: you might not get what you want, but you'll get what you deserve.
That is why I prefer to caution against a keyholder that is already an authority figure for reasons other than consensual power exchange to the wearer. You may get more than you bargained for and have no way of terminationg that part of your relationship - which seems great for holding you accountable, but can cause serious problems when the situation develops into something truly unforeseen.
Another reason is that it might unintentionally come across as a kink thing, and something like that should alienate any reasonable parent.
My belt is no longer a secret. Now my mum knows about it.
There was a lot to talk about.
My mum had noticed my significantly better results at school, but she hadn't expected such a background.
youdontknowme but can cause serious problems when the situation develops into something truly unforeseen.
that is certainly a point that speaks for the opposite, right.
youdontknowme Another reason is that it might unintentionally come across as a kink thing,
I understand your argument But it's definitely not a kink use. The results of the last school year actually showed that.
When I was wearing the belt, the results were significantly better than when I wasn't wearing it. I spend the most of my time and energy on school and learning and dont wasted it by watching porn and its aftermath.
At this moment no decision has been made. My mum doesn't mind at all. But she would like to take some time to think about it. However, I will be informed of her decision today.
Saintprudence you might not get what you want, but you'll get what you deserve.
If she takes over the key, then first until after graduation. Then we can see further, she said.
TimGER spoiler alert: it will be further! I hope you like the belt, it’s remaining for a while.
Saintprudence But that doesn't necessarily have to be a bad thing, right?
TimGER not at all, as long as you’re prepared to join the ranks of the unwillingly belted. Authority figures are very reluctant to give up the keys once they have them. After enough months it may no longer seem like a game to you but your belt stays locked nonetheless.
Saintprudence After enough months it may no longer seem like a game to you
It's not a game for me either!!! Its a serious use of the belt!!!
I now wear the belt sereously! The padlocks have been replaced with the new ones. And I didn't get a key for the new ones. These will now remain in the hands of my mum.
The day finally ends with a result that I wanted to have.
My mum would also like to register here, if that's generally ok.
There are a few things about your story that puzzle me.
1) Was your mother aware that you were wearing a cage and then a belt?
2) You mention excessive masturbation - how often has this happened to you without a cage/belt?
3) If you already had a cage 3 years ago, why didn't it save you from failing the year?
Andrew 1) Was your mother aware that you were wearing a cage and then a belt?
She didn't know about the belt, but she must have known about the cage because she found it without saying anything. (She told me today)
Laura She is welcomed here
Fine 
Andrew 2) You mention excessive masturbation - how often has this happened to you without a cage/belt?
That started especially in the Corona period, very often when I was bored, which was often the case at that time. 2-6 times a day.
Andrew 3) If you already had a cage 3 years ago, why didn't it save you from failing the year?
The cages weren't safe and i wasn't consistent enough to wear them. The problem is, when I had the cage on for 3-5 days, I used the key. When school exams followed, it was superfluous. (the same would be with the belt now if I had the key)
TimGER I understand your argument But it's definitely not a kink use. The results of the last school year actually showed that.
Did not necessarily mean that kink would be your motivation, more that someone (e.g. your mom) would think that it was a kink thing. But bringing up your grades and how they improved after you bought your devices probably did a lot to allay that worry.