Keyholder welcome thread.

Jonas

Ines Jonas I've been involved in here has been shut down in this way.

Well, I think that it happens to majority of users, Jonas. I think that the only difference is that male discussions are less, but you know that I have to be watching every conversation.
My intention is not shut down you, sorry.

Jonas I am concerned that it was the content that provoked the animal facts. The idea that for you, any form of male submission is "out of sight".

It is the background of the story, not if it is about girls of boys, you know that I make the same with that kind of stories when they are about girls.

Thank you very much for making all this clear @Ines. I do appreciate the work you do as a moderator. I understand that I too am not above being moderated when off topic. I just can't understand your reasoning from the animal facts alone.

Would be okay to wait and see if this discussion continues and becomes more understandable, or do you want it to end?

Andrew

Jonas Would be okay to wait and see if this discussion continues and becomes more understandable, or do you want it to end?

I suggest waiting for @Suzanne's answers to the questions asked her.

Jonas

Andrew Up to mod to decide.

Ines

Jonas

Yes, yes, of course. I promise do not disturb more! 😊

Jonas

Ines And I'll try hard to be less sensitive!! 😊

Jonas

Suzanne with us, with the exception that not the men in the relationships are keyholders, but the women. Something that feels good to me, but I can imagine that many men and women on the forum have a different opinion. So be it.

Yours is an unusual situation for the forum and clearly not what we're used to discussing, but if you want to speak further, please do so.
I was asking what advice and support your mother gave you; Laura was I think wondering where early belts came from; Angelina was asking about your family's values and Andrew asked what age you and your brother were when you learned about male chastity.

KHDream

Male from one of the Scandinavian countries. I've been lurking on this forum for a while.

On the one hand I'm hoping most users here are trolls because otherwise I'm absolutely horrified about the number of people abusing younger family members by locking them into bondage devices. For me this is just so weird, offputting and in some cases rather vomit inducing, and this is certainly not something that I will ever come to terms with. For me this seems just as weird as locking a collar or a pair of handcuffs on them. When stumbling upon such content I'm very grateful for people like @gwen and @Sin who seems to be keeping the forum sane...

On the other hand I also find many good and thoughtful discussions on both practical issues concerning chastity belt wearing and, most notably, the emotional aspects. I'm especially interested in reading about the emotional effects it can have on relationships and very much enjoy reading the thoughts of for example @foxies and her partner, two people who just seems to do things very right. Reading about the emotional sides of chastity belt wearing is something I haven't really found at other places.

I'm also totally in awe of the partner of @Zoe after reading how she managed to maneuver @Zoe into a chastity belt. For myself I can only hope to eventually accomplish the same with my partner.

So that's where my interests lie, consensual wearing within an adult relationship, for D/s purposes. In short: I would like to keep my partner locked up. (And as a matter of fact, she is actually wearing one as I'm writing this. But there's still a very long way left to go.)

Avery

KHDream On the one hand I'm hoping most users here are trolls because otherwise I'm absolutely horrified about the number of people abusing younger family members by locking them into bondage devices. For me this is just so weird

Boy, you ARE welcome! Keep posting!

Zoe

KHDream I'm also totally in awe of the partner of @Zoe after reading how she managed to maneuver @Zoe into a chastity belt.

Me too. And trust me, I also curse her, for knowing too well, how to play me, on a regular base. (Most of the time she is spot on though. Just don't tell her, I said this. I would get to hear this till the end of my days! 🫣)

Looking forward to reading more from you here already 🙂

Sasha

KHDream welcome, please feel free to ask anything you’d like and make yourself at home.
The mods do a great job dealing with the trolls btw

Joh

KHDream I would like to keep my partner locked up. (And as a matter of fact, she is actually wearing one as I'm writing this. But there's still a very long way left to go.)

Which is your reason to have your partner in a CB?
Is it a brand or a no-name CB?
What will be the regime when she is 24/7?

Joh

Welcome @KHDream
Could you also write a short introduction in our Introduction thread.

KHDream

Avery Thank you! Remember seeing your posts and noticing you being one of the sane ones as well.

Damien

KHDream It's not exactly diplomatic joining a forum to declare their members insane. Even if you were 100% right, you would not convince many people of your higher moral values like that.

Avery

Damien It's not exactly diplomatic joining a forum to declare their members insane. Even if you were 100% right, you would not convince many people of your higher moral values like that.

You have a very confused idea of what moral values are. He stood up for what is right. Is your idea of moral values that he remain silent?

youdontknowme

I mean, he does have a point that the number of people who proclaim to be in less-than-consensual keyholding relationships is hard to believe and even harder to accept, so some hope in the notion that not every story is completely accurate seems justified in my eyes.

Angelina

youdontknowme I mean, he does have a point that the number of people who proclaim to be in less-than-consensual keyholding relationships is hard to believe and even harder to accept, so some hope in the notion that not every story is completely accurate seems justified in my eyes.

i wouldn't believe it either if i hadn't experienced it myself and until i read this forum (and the thread on misterpoll) i didn't believe it was happening to others either

KHDream But on the other hand I just find the issue of parents belting their kids so extremely uncomfortable that I had very serious doubt whether this is a place where you would want to join at all.

how do you feel about this if it is not involuntary, or even at the request of the teenage children or young adult children?

KHDream

Zoe I just really loved reading about your story. Like, well played! 🤣

It will be interesting to see how this plays out for us. The challenge is different. She really does not mind trying but it also seems as a chastity belt is something that takes a lot of dedication to start wearing. According to most sources I've read it seems as it takes from at least 1-2 months up to 4-6 months of more or less daily wear, slowly adjusting fit and adding time, until it can be worn "comfortably" 😆. Until it can just be part of daily routine. A lot of life can get in the way during those months making it hard to keep up this dedication. And she can of course decide that the positives are not worth the negatives for her.

I also know that I've read pieces from you about how it has deepened the relationship. And I can certainly see how this could be the case. I've kind of experienced how other things that you could call "games" also have that kind of effect.

Damien

Avery All I'm saying is that insulting people will not change their mind. But maybe I'm wrong, have you ever found you convinced somebody by insulting them? Or maybe someone won you over by insulting you?

Avery

Damien All I'm saying is that insulting people will not change their mind.

So you have abandoned your attack on his moral values. This is good.

KHDream

Damien I just find this place so so very double-edged. There really are some very interesting conversations going on. And some very interesting stories being shared. But on the other hand I just find the issue of parents belting their kids so extremely uncomfortable that I had very serious doubt whether this is a place where you would want to join at all.

So in this case, even though I may not convert anyone I feel that it's important for my own sake to declare how I feel about it. (And maybe at the same time give some support to the people who does feel the same.) Being silent about it would for me feel the same as condoning it.

Damien

Avery I have always felt uncomfortable hearing stories of parents belting their kids.

Avery

Damien I have always felt uncomfortable hearing stories of parents belting their kids.

I think we all do.

Ines

We are absolutely against forced users and of course much more if that implies young users, but firstly here those stories are moderated since a lot of months ago, - years-, and if he wants only couples stories, there are plenty of other forums.
I am the first one feeling sick with certain stories that, again, do not have place in this forum since a lot of months ago, but I will not tolerate a strange that comes here and firstly set two teams, good and bad, being the "red team" users in consensual chastity relationship.
Further we do not have any bondage story because I do not tolerate it...

Ines

KHDream

And you are free to express your opinion, but do not disrespect the rest of the users. Your opinion respect all use of the belt outside the couple is probably due to a relationship of fetishistic character with the belt, you are not the primary, nor I will censor your opinion, but I will not tolerate that you insult users for whom the use of the belt has nothing erotic.
And I repeat, if there is any history of forced use are prior to my moderation here because it is a red line.
I sincerely believe you owe this community an apology.

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