Specifically in the introductions topic there are a lot of horror stories. Most of them, especially the worse ones, are fake. I think that is only a small consolation though: it is a relief that those are not actual abuses, but it is also disturbing that people enjoy these sorts of fantasies and think it is an appropriate thing to role-play in public. Then again, those abuses happen more often than they should, and frankly, what people like Fritzl or Priklopil did is worse than any chastity belt.
Some of the longer-standing members here have also been in what I would call less-than-consensual arrangements. @Lukas and @Angelina come to mind.
Ines 4- Recently I opened a Discord account and, oh, surprise!, some of the worse cases of this forum have accounts in kinky servers.
Hey, now you are being unfair. I am in some of those kinky servers you joined, too, and while I amfairly liberal towards people who describe themselves as victims, I am generally very much against non-consensual wear. I admit my moral code on some of the grey areas is constantly developing and influenced by how happy people seem to be, but I do not excuse abusers justifying their positions or pretend to be an abused minor for fun.
I would say if anything, those who have dealings with the kink community have very strong views on consent. The consent requirements to interfere in someone's bodily autonomy by doing things like locking chastity devices onto them or restraining them are at least as large as those to engage in sexual acts. Maybe even moreso, since you are creating a power imbalance.
