Keyholder welcome thread.

Sasha

MissBlossom want their spouse to be their bff and get disappointed when that doesn't happen.

I’ve never really understood that desire to be honest.
What I think I want in a partner/spouse is obviously love and trust. But someone who shares a few common interests, but not all of my interests
But also someone who makes up for my shortcomings. I’m very good at this you’re good at that. So neither of us really has a dominant position in the relationship, we just make one whole

Joh

Angelina From my own expiriance I can say sometime it is Not possible to find a comon Base anymore.
If you are Young when you start a Relation you are still in development. It is likely the development has different direction. Look at the divorce rate. 20012 it was 50% and 2021 it was 40% in Germany.

Angelina

Joh Look at the divorce rate. 20012 it was 50% and 2021 it was 40% in Germany.

yes, but i assume that 80% of these divorces could be prevented. in most cases there is a common basis, but the partners are too selfish and/or don't talk about problems

Joh

Angelina I agree with you and this is whhat I posted ad the beginning of the conversation.

KarimM

Nice thread.

KarimM

Keyholder to my wife now emergency keys for my stepdaughter.

Jonas

KarimM Keyholder to my wife now emergency keys for my stepdaughter.

I read why your step daughter wears a belt, but can I ask why did you and your wife decide that your wife should wear a belt too?

KarimM

Jonas her decision alone. personal story.

Jonas

KarimM her decision alone. personal story.

Ofc her decision to wear, but your decision to key-hold.

Hope everyone is happy with their choices and things go really well for you all.

KarimM

Jonas Happy mostly.

Jonas

KarimM Well, yeah. It's tough to go without all the orgasms you want.

MissBlossom

Jonas It's tough to go without all the orgasms you want.

I think it's less of a challenge for a wife. We don't have physical pressure building up, which they say is actually uncomfortable (blue b***s). It's more like tension and craving.

Also, men are kind of easy to seduce. lol

Jonas

MissBlossom

MissBlossom I think it's less of a challenge for a wife.

We don't have physical pressure building up, which they say is actually uncomfortable (blue b***s).

BB defo a thing, but more of a risk in my experience via constant edging. If it's locked away without being bothered, the pressure and ache isn't an issue.

So overall I'd say it depends on the individual rather than their sex.

It's more like tension and craving.

You see this sounds more like what I feel... although sometimes with a huge force behind it.

I become aware of the whole belt and my instability to remove it and ending panting my way through the episode as if I'm in labour!!

Obviously my wife finds this all very amusing and well deserved. There's very little sympathy out there for chronic masturbators!! (Tbh I have no sympathy for me either).

Also, men are kind of easy to seduce. lol

Have never tried!! Lol

Sasha

MissBlossom think it's less of a challenge for a wife

Not a wife yet, but I am sort of a parental figure to my siblings. And yeah, taking care of them and helping mom with the house definitely makes the tension less of an issue
And unfortunately yes I know exactly how easy you can seduce a boy, though some girls were pretty easy too

KarimM

MissBlossom that's the idea.

Joh

MissBlossom (blue b***s)

What does it mean?

Owl

[Slowly drifting OffTopic]

Joh

I strongly suspect MissBlossom's tactfully censored phrase was to describe a distinct IMHO more or less agonizingly masculine state, originating in male genitals and consuming one's mind. Until relieved, Nirvana is reached, or a violent explosion.
(With more graphic descriptions definitely demanding equally violent censorship.)
;-)

For those preferring a more "dry" description:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_balls

Money Quote: "Most often it describes a temporary fluid congestion (vasocongestion) in the testicles, caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male without ejaculation. "

Joh

Owl Thank you. I was not familiar with this.

Owl

[OffTopic?]
Allow me to add a comment (s. Owl)

A fundamental asymmetry that entitles to nothing, but drives everything. Well, not exactly. But it explains a lot.
(Sometimes I can't come up with "better" reasons for much of world's weal or woe than mundane biology. Maybe I'll know when I let go of this form and achieve a state not longer ruled by molecules and matter... Beyond space, beyond time.)

Angelina

Owl

so in short, there is too much sperm in the testicles?

Raziel

Owl
A long time ago, my friends called it "choking the chicken."

Jonas

Joh Thank you. I was not familiar with this.

You're lucky! 😄

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