Single again chastity

Christine

James Why doesn’t she want you to touch yourself?

To prevent any kind of sexual pleasure till I get married again.

James Why does she object to the divorce?

She doesn't want me to become a slut.

Vanessa I'm very sorry for you,it is very strict(but like for many of us)...

Thank you for your sympathy.

Vanessa Did your mother told you she was going to buy one for you or only told it to you when she got it?

Yes she told me and explained the reason.

Vanessa Were you surprised or worried,when you knew this?

She said other girls wear belts hence no reasons for me to not wear.

Vanessa Have you accepted it easily?

I had no choice.

Ines

Christine
And the measures?

Laura

Christine To prevent any kind of sexual pleasure till I get married again.

That sounds right for me. Your mom is wise, you haven't got sexual freedom after divorce

Renita

Christine She said other girls wear belts

Who were that girls?

Christine

Ines And the measures?

Ofc, I was measured well.

Christine

Renita Who were that girls?

She was in touch with somebody.

Laura Your mom is wise, you haven't got sexual freedom after divorce

Wasn't that you? Coz she told me exactly the same using different words.

Vanessa

Laura

I remember one of your purposes was to help that the use of chastity belts become more common!

But I can't agree,as she was forced to.

Angelina

Maybe!In August 2019,we started to be pretty active!😉

Christine She was in touch with somebody.

On the net?

Saintprudence

Laura That sounds right for me. Your mom is wise, you haven't got sexual freedom after divorce

This line got me really thinking, especially in light of my recent attempts to reconcile the different elements of my own personality. There’s an inherent sort of sexism in “traditional” chastity, in that it’s primarily authority figures seeking to limit female sexuality. And I’ve absorbed part of that, you know? The fact I belted Goody and that I honestly kind of feel like it’s “right” is evidence of that. It’s a big difference between my two moms. My mother was hyper-fixated on sexuality, period, and was equally terrified of both men and women masturbating. And since, pre-transition, I was a bit of a mama’s boy (no surprise there), I picked up on some of that.

Mother-in-law, Goody’s mom, is more “traditional female” that way. She deep down believes that women should be controlled more closely than men, and that men need to do the controlling in marriages. (Hilariously, her husband is the farthest thing from controlling.) She approves of the idea of women in chastity belts and wishes she’d known of it sooner, and definitely would agree that a divorced woman should be denied sexual freedom and belted until she can find a man. Permanently, if need be. (Which, for Laura and Christine and Renita, may end up being the case!)

Ironically, ever since transitioning to female, I’ve absorbed more of that side of the equation and felt a need to be “controlled” that didn’t really exist when I was presenting as male. And once I was out of the belt, I readily adapted to belting Goody. And the idea of keeping her belted for the rest of her life is — well, I’m not committed to it, but it keeps popping up in my brain, you know?

I’m not sure about what all this means. But I think about it a lot.

Angelina

Renita

the girls here in the Forum 🤣 🤣 🤣

Renita

Laura Yes, but fundamentally the same reason

Then I can only recommend Angelina advice.

Angelina the girls here in the Forum

If so, I can only applaud @Laura 🤣

Renita

Christine Coz she told me exactly the same using different words.

I would say the same.

Laura

Vanessa I remember one of your purposes was to help that the use of chastity belts become more common!

That was not me who has suggested @Christine's mom a chastity belt. However if she was inspired by the forum that's great and we move to the goal

Angelina

Vanessa Maybe!In August 2019,we started to be pretty active!😉

a big step was made for all who are kept in chastity (whether voluntarily or involuntarily) 😉

Christine

Vanessa On the net?

Likely.

Vanessa

Laura

Yes,it would be surprising you did it(a big coincidence),but it was one of the meaning of this forum which have maybe been reached.

Angelina

But not a good one for the ones who had to wear one due to us...

Christine

Maybe it was this board which gave her the idea,so,yes...

Laura

Vanessa but it was one of the meaning of this forum which have maybe been reached.

Nevertheless it works as supposed to and should be recommended to everybody. Once a girl gets divorced she should start wearing a chastity belt to prevent sex even with ex-husband

Angelina

Vanessa

I don't think any girl has to wear a chastity device because of us 😉

Christine

Vanessa Maybe it was this board which gave her the idea,so,yes...

She talked to somebody from the beltedgirls.

Vanessa does Laura's opinion apply particuarly well to your case?Do you have to manage this "cruel" rule?

I disagree with this rule. It deprives a divorced girl of a chance to build a new relationship

Christine

Laura Once a girl gets divorced she should start wearing a chastity belt to prevent sex even with ex-husband

That's cruel.

Vanessa

Laura Nevertheless it works as supposed to and should be recommended to everybody. Once a girl gets divorced she should start wearing a chastity belt to prevent sex even with ex-husband

Bit not if forced.

Angelina

Not sure it happened,yes.

Laura

But they can notice too it is hard for us and make most of us unhappy about it.

Angelina

It is only one of the goal @Laura want for the forum.There is a lot of help and support here too.So,no,you shouldn't leave if it happens,your help would be good(even for the ones who would be belted due to the board)!😉

Christine That's cruel.

I can undertsand the idea,but don't agree with.Especially as you didn't agree.

And,don't answer me if it's too private,but does Laura's opinion apply particuarly well to your case?Do you have to manage this "cruel" rule?

Angelina then you must leave the Forum 🤣 🤣 🤣

Not either!😉

We should try to keep the most of us coming here,it makes the board more active and can lead to interesting dicsussion.

Angelina but so far nobody has written here that the parents have read the forum and therefore bought belt, bra and/or tighbands 😉

As far as we know,no.

Laura I think the soft way works with an innocent girl only

Not sure.She can understand her ways to act is not very good and think it can help her.But maybe more with an abstinence belt than a chastity belt(if excessive masturbation is not the problem).

Ines Well, I think that soft way must be based in convincement, and it is not matter of innocent or guilty girls.

I agree with you,convincing them is better than forcing them to wear a chastity belt.

Except it,I don't feel like you,but can understand your opinion.

Angelina

Right.

Ines

I think a chastity belt is not necessary to be feminine while not acting like a slut,however.

Laura

Not to their precedent partners,sure.But for people not knowing them...

Renita

😉

But you asked for it!😉

Laura

Angelina They do 🙂 Because we are positive examples for their parents, e.g. chastity belts can be used and it works

Angelina

Laura

sorry , but if it is because of us that a girl is involuntarily locked in the cb, I am considering to leave from the forum 🙁 because that was never my goal 🙁

James

Angelina I honestly don’t think that’s true or even proveable Angelina.

Laura

Angelina if it is because of us

Mostly because of me, so you don't need to leave the forum 🙂

Christine That's cruel.

Maybe. But it works

Angelina

James

me neither, at least that is not an acceptable reason 🙁

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