Other people want me to wear a chastity belt
Angelina
I have 3 aunts and they each have 4-5 kids from different guys, so I don't know if it is them or the guy, but divorce is very common in my family. I once attended a school event for one of my cousins, and they asked for their last name, and I was like, it could be A..., B...., or C..., unless they kept our grandfather's last name, D.... They school officials thought I was being ridiculous, you could see it in their face they thought I was making it hard on them.
i agree, but meant more the wordplay of @MissBlossom
At some point it says UnUnUnUnmarried on the belt 
Update.
Well it has just been over a week now and I am still mostly free of the belt. I have not been wearing it out of the house when I go to work or when she is away at work or overnight when I am sleeping. Life is so much easier without the hassle of the belt. I am in a much happier place right now that i have been in a long time. Like I think why did I ever put up with any of this I should of done this years ago.
I have had just one instance where I was locked back in but that was for a night out with my friends drinking. I had previously agreed to that so I was not bothered about it. I did come in quite late that night and she was sleeping so had to sleep in it. One of our mutual friends was there and she made a very odd comment that made me think for a min but in the end I concluded it was pretty innocent. She made the comment oh your misses has started letting you out of the cage. It did make me a little shaky for a few min but I figured out it was probably because this was the 1st time in about 4 months I was out at a quiz night mid week.
My partner has been taking it better than I actually thought she would. She has mostly not talked about it but has brought it up on a few occasions. The morning after the night out I had she said "was that not easier going out like that. You are used to the belt and it is no hassle for me to wear it and it gives her so much peace of mind me wearing it". I just turned round and said you try wearing one long enough to get used to it and see how you feel after that. The only other occasion she brought it up was Sunday night she had the belt waiting for me after I had a shower and a shave. She said that "she wanted me ready to go for when she gets back on Tuesday". I just ignored that and put the belt back in the cupboard. She did go quiet for the rest of the evening and was very short with me when I asked her anything.
Giving me the silent treatment did kind of annoy me so I decided to get my own back. I decided to leave my laptop open and on in the living room with a load of tabs open looking at flats in a different city along with a few job applications. I know she has seen it as the laptop was moved and I can see a few websites she went to when i was out.
I actually feel quite pleased at myself for actually standing up for myself and not buckling to my partners unreasonable and unjustified anxieties. Lets see what the next few weeks brings wish me luck.
Carlos
Overall, that's great to hear!
I have a suggestion, though. Being strong and unshakable is sexy. Being petty and seeking little revenges is weak and not sexy. The next time she gives you the silent treatment, shrug it off, do your own thing and ignore it. See if she reacts differently.
Carlos good to hear from you, I was beginning to worry but glad to hear things are going well.
It seems like she hasn't abandoned the idea of getting you to ware again, but isn't going to try and force it.
I agree with what others have said though, the passive aggressive thing with the tabs is probably not all that helpful in the long run, even if it was probably satisfying at the time. I'd say if she gets like that again probably just give her space and let her know you're willing to talk about it when she's ready.
The incident with your friend is funny in retrospect, though I can see why it would be nerve-wracking in the moment.
Congratulations, stay strong.
looks like a bonafide power struggle that has little to do with chastity. My girl wants me in chastity so that's where i stay. A little discomfort and inconvienience is a small price to pay for a peaceful relationship. We both like her to be in control, we agree on this so. No power struggle, no fear of bad behavior and a happy girl, well worth it to me.
Carlos I was locked back in but that was for a night out with my friends drinking.
Carlos Sunday night she had the belt waiting for me after I had a shower and a shave. She said that "she wanted me ready to go for when she gets back on Tuesday". I just ignored that and put the belt back in the cupboard.
Hey thanks for the update. Good progress indeed, but I still think you should dump the belt in the trash. I can't see how it can ever be good within this relationship.
Carlos I just turned round and said you try wearing one long enough to get used to it and see how you feel after that.
How about you get a tape measure and start taking measurements for a CB the next time she comes with such a request.
And congratulation to you success. Continue to stand up for yourself.
it is nice to read that your situation has improved, you have to be a bit tough now, but you should not ignore her needs. this does not mean that you should wear the belt again, but you should help her to overcome her problems so that she learns to trust you completely even without the belt.
Joh How about you get a tape measure and start taking measurements for a CB the next time she comes with such a request.
That would also be a possibility. @Carlos, the next time your girlfriend wants you to wear the belt, you can tell her that you will only do it if she wears one too.
Weekly update
Well this week has went really well. I have not been back in the belt at all. I have been really happy all week.
My partner has been on fairly good form as well she has not been that moody or done anything crazy at all. She just mentioned the belt once and that was asking me if i was going to get rid of it and she did not think it was a good idea to totally get rid of it. I think she twigged on that i am not going to go back to it and it was best not push it too far as i would just split with her.
After reading a few of your comments i think i have done relatively well considering where i was a just a few weeks ago.
@Angelina I think that is a good idea if she does bring it up again i should say to her that she should try wearing one that should kill that argument pretty quickly. There is no chance she would wear one.
I am supposed to be going out at the weekend so i am not going to automatically put the belt on i am just going to ignore it and see if she brings it up. Fingers crossed she wont mention it either and has finally accepted that i am free of the belt.
Carlos I always feel bad for the people who can't enjoy it. If only I could find a girlfriend like that, lol.
Nah, but I do find it problematic that she has so few trust in you. That's not an essence for a long lasting relationship. It's good you made a compromise you can both agree on.
You really need to do somed to so spmething to build some trust.
Is there a specific reason why you don't like the belt?