Trismegistus I just need some time to be fully independent: financially, emotionally, etc.
Which means you are not fully independent yet
Getting a job, so you can be free from chastity
Avery But what does that do to his relationship with his father?
He always underestimates me. I am in top 1% in school, but he says chastity isn't related to my results. Even when I could freely masturbate, I didn't do it more than 3/4 times a week, and it didn't feel like too much.
I understand why my father acts this way, but I'm still angry and frustrated with his decisions. He feels suspicious towards sexuality, because my mother left him for another man. He wants me to live with him until I graduate, but ironically this stupid belt will make me leave his house.
Other than the belt, his rules aren't so bad. I can come home until 11 pm, and I can make sleepovers twice a month if I inform him 24 hours prior. He doesn't really care if I sleep with a girl, because he knows I can't receive sexual pleasure.
Laura Yes. I think he's afraid that if I become independent, I won't follow his rules anymore, and he's right.
I give extra hours in work, and he thinks I'm earning less that I really am. I don't want to tell him, because I'm afraid he'll try to stop me from working.
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Laura Which means you are not fully independent yet
Being independent is firstly a choice. Then it becomes reality.
Trismegistus when I could freely masturbate, I didn't do it more than 3/4 times a week, and it didn't feel like too much.
That was my experience too.
Trismegistus He doesn't really care if I sleep with a girl, because he knows I can't receive sexual pleasure.
It's something, anyway. At least you can satisfy her to a certain point. Do they have Lovense in your country? It's a real trip.
Trismegistus I've already pleasured her
With your tongue?
Trismegistus because she has high libido
Have you ever thought about a chastity belt for her?
@Trismegistus , or have you ever thought about a ball gag for Renita ?
Renita Not only with my tongue 
. And for chastity belt for her, sometimes I'm a bit jealous, but I don't want to force her to wear one. Right now wearing one is a trauma for me. Maybe in the future if she wants to experiment in a play for few hours or days.
Damien I would 
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Avery I should be able to order from Amazon. I love to satisfy her. The only drawback is I get more horny, but I can't do nothing about it. I guess I'm more focused in her pleasure this way. My girl doesn't deserve to be frustrated. I want her to feel good with me. 
Trismegistus I am in top 1% in school, but he says chastity isn't related to my results.
I would carefully observe your results in school, as well as work once you get the keys.
Despite having sex and masturbating constantly I was a B student. After the belt I’m mostly getting A’s so aside from curbing my behavior it seems it helped me there. I also had the ambition to work hard and get to a point I can support myself and my family, takes so much stress off mom and gives us a better life. Not relevant to you obviously, just my own experience.
I support your decision to want out of it, just saying be mindful of how things evolve and make a mature decision on whether using it in a limited capacity may be a good option
Sasha The only benefit I got from the belt is I started going to gym, and I became fit. I need something to keep my mind off the endless frustration.
I love reading science papers, so studying never was a problem for me. I like it, and I don't need chastity to make me more focused.
I understand your point. From this point of view, being a cb prisoner really motivated me to start saving money, so I can get out of it and live with my girl.
Trismegistus just my advice for what it’s worth, keep a close eye on how your situation evolves with your new freedom and girl friend.
Keep in mind it’s a tool, which from your description was being abused. But can still be useful to you in a much more limited capacity, with a much more tolerant key holder of course
Sasha be mindful of how things evolve and make a mature decision on whether using it in a limited capacity may be a good option
Before September I can do nothing about it, so you really give me a perspective to accept the situation easier.
My gf something teases me that even if I wanted, I can't cheat to her when I'm locked. 
She is so gentle with me, and cuddles me when I'm upset from the frustration. She really helps me emotionally. I love the touch of her skin and the kind and caring words she uses to comfort me.
Sasha My girl is abstaining from masturbation when we're not together, but I give her orgasms when we have alone time.
Maybe I would accept it as a part of our dynamic someday. But first we need to enjoy eachother without it for awhile.
I'm concerned that after so long in the cb, I'll cum too fast when we make love. 
Trismegistus Of course you should safely experience intimacy, and don’t worry about that. I’m sure she expects it and will comfort you.
Sounds like you’re on the right track though, these things are a tool after all right?
Trismegistus I'm concerned that after so long in the cb, I'll cum too fast when we make love.
If this happens just keep on and continue to try to satisfy her with your hands and mouth. At your age you will get another erection in maybe 20 minutes and can now start again. This time you will last longer as it's your second time. If problems do occur learn to laugh it off together and keep doing what you can and things will work out. There's no script you have to follow, concentrate on mutual enjoyment.
I've heard of guys masturbating before they join their girl to make love. This slows them down. It's an alternative IF you have problems.
Avery I've heard of guys masturbating before they join their girl to make love. This slows them down. It's an alternative IF you have problems.
@Trismegistus Watch " There's Something About Mary" that should explain everything.