Sasha be mindful of how things evolve and make a mature decision on whether using it in a limited capacity may be a good option

Before September I can do nothing about it, so you really give me a perspective to accept the situation easier.

My gf something teases me that even if I wanted, I can't cheat to her when I'm locked. 😅 She is so gentle with me, and cuddles me when I'm upset from the frustration. She really helps me emotionally. I love the touch of her skin and the kind and caring words she uses to comfort me.

    Sasha My girl is abstaining from masturbation when we're not together, but I give her orgasms when we have alone time.

    Maybe I would accept it as a part of our dynamic someday. But first we need to enjoy eachother without it for awhile.

    I'm concerned that after so long in the cb, I'll cum too fast when we make love. 😢

        Renita he can solve the problem with belt later

        ... said @Renita , who can't get rid of her own belt 😂

            Trismegistus Of course you should safely experience intimacy, and don’t worry about that. I’m sure she expects it and will comfort you.
            Sounds like you’re on the right track though, these things are a tool after all right?

              Trismegistus I'm concerned that after so long in the cb, I'll cum too fast when we make love.

              If this happens just keep on and continue to try to satisfy her with your hands and mouth. At your age you will get another erection in maybe 20 minutes and can now start again. This time you will last longer as it's your second time. If problems do occur learn to laugh it off together and keep doing what you can and things will work out. There's no script you have to follow, concentrate on mutual enjoyment.

              I've heard of guys masturbating before they join their girl to make love. This slows them down. It's an alternative IF you have problems.

                  Avery I've heard of guys masturbating before they join their girl to make love. This slows them down. It's an alternative IF you have problems.

                  @Trismegistus Watch " There's Something About Mary" that should explain everything.

                      Philip Watch " There's Something About Mary" that should explain everything.

                      I always knew there was something fishy about Brett Favre.

                        Trismegistus Not only with my tongue

                        But if she worn a chastity belt, you couldn't pleasure her and you would be in the same situation.

                        Trismegistus My girl is abstaining from masturbation when we're not together

                        A chastity belt for her would be very helpful in that.

                        Laura who can't get rid of her own belt

                        Because I don't really want to.

                                Renita A chastity belt for her would be very helpful in that.

                                Some folks can manage. It does require some actual commitment which his girl apparently has.

                                    Trismegistus I don't want to keep it. My philosophy is that growing up is becoming independent. My father thinks I'm just too rebellious, but my gf thinks I'm right to be unhappy about the belt.

                                    We're dating almost one year, and I want her someday to be my wife.

                                    that all sounds good, tell your father so. he should either give you the keys when you move out or you should break the padlock. you don't have to destroy the whole belt, just the padlock.

                                    Trismegistus I'm concerned that after so long in the cb, I'll cum too fast when we make love. 😢

                                    maybe you should masturbate an hour before or so? then the chance that you hold out longer is higher (I think)

                                          Angelina you don't have to destroy the whole belt, just the padlock

                                          I love how you have grown so fond of belts that you want to protect them from destruction. Or is that only male belts?

                                              Angelina you should break the padlock. you don't have to destroy the whole belt, just the padlock.

                                              To let his girlfriend replace the lock 😂

                                                  Laura She once asked me if I would agree her to keep the keys, if my father gives them to me. I'm still not sure I would like to be locked anymore. If there are any benefits for our relationship, I would do it for her.

                                                      Angelina maybe you should masturbate an hour before or so? then the chance that you hold out longer is higher (I think)

                                                      I'm not sure I still remember how to masturbate after so long in the belt 🤣🤣🤣

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                                                          Trismegistus Test it and find out. If after some time you have the need to locked again than do it.

                                                          Trismegistus I'm not sure I still remember how to masturbate after so long in the belt 🤣🤣🤣

                                                          It is natural. You will mange it.

                                                              Trismegistus Like suddenly sharing a flat all day every day in pandemy, like a new home office job instead of being away 10hrs a day, unlocking a belted partner will create change in the dynamic of the relationship. @Angelina and you will experience that change soon, and I'm sure it will be great, but I'm also very curious to hear about some funny little side effects 🙂

                                                              Anyway, do take your six weeks off before you even consider relocking please.

                                                                Trismegistus She once asked me if I would agree her to keep the keys

                                                                Would she be interested? Because if I was her I wouldn't

                                                                    Laura It was just a tease IMO. We're both craving something we still can't experience. I prefer not to use chastity in our relationship. Trust between partners doesn't need any devices to guarantee it.

                                                                        Trismegistus It was just a tease IMO.

                                                                        Then ask her seriously if she wants you to keep the belt