Jonas Took a long time for me to realise that personal freedom isn't always a good thing

This is so true, sometimes having it as badly as we want it just isn’t good for us

      Sasha This is so true, sometimes having it as badly as we want it just isn’t good for us

      Yes! Complete freedom can defo be destructive. It can wreck our decision making process. Nothing we do is ever wrong! There're no brakes on behaviour, no consequences, no self-reflection.

      Sitting down and drawing up some limits for oneself is a very powerful thing to do. A chastity belt is just the physical embodiment of one such boundary. When used properly, it can be a wonderful tool.

        Sasha This is so true, sometimes having it as badly as we want it just isn’t good for us

        I think the question is rather, can you handle your personal freedom responsibly? 😉

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          Trismegistus I randomly read this, I’m curious to know how it ended. Hopefully good, I like happy end.

              I have read and am not convinced that it is a true story!
              Most people who are here and have had contact with Carrara, know that it is a long delivery time. Very long!
              Even opening such a belt is difficult, as the lock is hidden and requires skill and not just some lockpicking tools.

                Tobbe thanks for pointing out, but I have to say that I doubt of a lot of stories around here. Let's see if our friend @Trismegistus care to explain better

                  Milord And you didn't recognize that this topic is nothing but fun 😂

                      Laura

                      Possibly. Like many others... I still try to give the benefit of the doubts

                        just read the headline again and wondered if this could apply to @HHelen's daughter ? 🤔

                          HHelen

                          I think exactly the same, it is not about money, but about wedding.

                              Ines

                              @HHelen declared that it’s until graduation, and that she can decide because she’s the one that pay. So it is about money

                                  Ines

                                  @HHelen states that if her daughter stop wearing she will stop paying her studies, that she has to get a parental controls on her iPhone as long as she cannot buy her own phone, and that she have to wear until graduation.
                                  This are her statements, I'm just reporting them.

                                      Ines I think exactly the same, it is not about money, but about wedding.

                                      Ideally, yes.

                                      Milord @HHelen declared that it’s until graduation, and that she can decide because she’s the one that pay. So it is about money

                                      It's different kind of money. More like an investment in her future, not spending.
                                      Hence I'm not going to use money as blackmail.

                                      Milord that she has to get a parental controls on her iPhone

                                      Because she actually uses my iPhone.

                                      Milord she cannot buy her own phone,

                                      She can, but doesn't want to.

                                                HHelen It's different kind of money. More like an investment in her future, not spending.
                                                Hence I'm not going to use money as blackmail.

                                                Using study money to push your daughter into a chastity belt is blackmail. Even if you don't throw her out of your house. It’s almost by definition financial blackmail.

                                                HHelen Milord will be free because you will stop paying for her

                                                The belt will not be required as we agreed. Although I stop paying for her education, she can live at my house.