Zoe Thinking about telling my mum I am wearing steel underwear just makes me feel I very scared and like something is really not right with me.
If you can get past your conflict on this, (time really helps), I think telling close family is incredibly relaxing. You shouldn't have to creep around your own flat/house hiding who you are. My rule is if they're close enough to come in, they're close enough for me to come out.