Tabletop I admit I don't believe much of what you're saying. However, if that were true, your parents would be complete idiots to think that by putting a cage on you, they would control all of your behavior. On the contrary. They will only cause more frustration and more aggression. If you don't want to wear the cage, just take it off and tell your parents that you won't be fulfilling the pact because you made it under actual coercion on their part. Masturbation is your business and nothing to them. What country are you from?

      I would say talk first, then take action. Tell them that their measures go beyond what you agreed to, and that you will not continue the agreement under this conditions. Then their choice is to either change their approach to one you could accept, or the agreement is cancelled and you cut the lock off. If they threaten retribution, tell them you would prefer to resolve that without getting the authorities involved.

      Note that I do not know your local laws, social services or relationship with your parents, so keep that in mind when considering my advice.

      Andrew I admit I don't believe much of what you're saying.

      youdontknowme Before dialing social services

      Basically I think the same than Andrew, for that my maximalist answer.

          Laura I don't think native language necessarily holds much weight, they could have moved to the US

              CutiedeTahlia I don't think native language necessarily holds much weight

              I see something else as you might have guessed

              CutiedeTahlia they could have moved to the US

              Indeed. That's why I'm asking. For example, my first language is French

                  Tabletop I can’t just take it off they would go bonks about it 🙁

                  Life is the art of making decisions. Many of them are not easy. You wanted advice, so we gave you advice. I suspect that no one here will come up with anything wiser than what has been written (although I may be wrong).

                    We gave you your options. Either you endure it, or you discuss it and negotiate, or you just blatantly defy your parents and deal with their respone. We informed you of your rights and recourses, which you might want to use in whatever confrontation awaits you. That is all we can offer.

                    Tabletop

                    ok, maybe the editing is missing a part, but i can't see what exactly you agreed to? what measures to improve your behavior were decided? Did you really agree to wear a chastity cage?

                      I mean, having a private shower unlock once a week, or even once a day, would not be enough to let... ahem... certain habits get excessive, and it definitely would not result in you doing anything risky with girls. Should be an easy enough case to argue if your parents are not hardliners on that topic.

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                      Tabletop If that is a compromise you can live with, then that is some excellent progress. But it might help if your behavior stays consistently good. If they have no reason to be unhappy with you, you might be able to persuade them to give you an opportunity to demonstrate that you can behave well even with a little more freedom, privacy and relief.

                      You need to be absolutely sure you can maintain good behavior after that policy change though, if your parents' satisfaction with you declines when they give you that chance, you are probably not going to get another chance any time soon.

                        Tabletop They don’t see me completely nude anymore and I’m happy with that tho they do check me daily for the lock still but like only the lock part which is not that humiliating ig

                        Honestly if I were in your place, I would have been more bothered by the scrutiny to what I am doing than by the nudity itself. But yeah, that probably does not take into account the awkwardness of your body reacting to that brief moment of freedom. I remember when I was younger, the thread of unintentional erections made family nudity that much more uncomfortable than it usually was.

                          youdontknowme Cough, the question should be first, which country the guy is from, but yes, it's abuse in almost all places.

                          (Even in the GOP ruled US states he should be able to get help, by phrasing it as "help, my parents locked me into a sex toy", let's see if child services doesn't show with a blue light escort from the PD if they get such a call 😆 )

                          But fact is that cultural approaches to "self abuse" DO vary by jurisdiction.

                              George Sadly the parents would probably get a warning, be ordered to consoling, etc. But given their track record of leaving kids in bad situations, I doubt it would get much more attention than that.
                              Now if they get that report 3-4 times then yeah maybe