Sasha I think I can do it. But if I can't my mother will let me out for a break. idk what will happen then though, I assume we'll renegotiate it or something

Ines A 17 meter herring? Now thatโ€™s impressive

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    To endure abuses do not make them legal. Talk with them and decide later.

    I am so confused, why are you talking in code (and what does it mean? ๐Ÿฅบ)

      CutiedeTahlia youdontknowme im not allowed to buy sex toys without asking/telling them about it (just because i am underage and all), which i broke

      So they think of it as a sex toy and make you wear it? I mean, guess it makes sense from a "reap what you sow" perspective, but I still question any parent who would engage in such a dynamic.

      I definitely hope those animal facts are appropriate.

        CutiedeTahlia They're a bit weird like that. She did make sure I was okay with actually doing it first so I guess this is kind of my fault

        Maybe they wear; or one does with the other as KH?

          Ines

          The thing that surprises me most is finding out something so big and scary ISN'T native only to Australian waters. You could tell me Australian fish shoot heat vision from their eyes and I'd believe you.

            CutiedeTahlia idk if this is a punishment or not either? because i did kind of break some of the house rules and she was a bit annoyed about that while we were talking. i'll have to see how things go i guess

            you are 17 and living with your parents, it was clear that they would notice it at some point. now of course the question is if this is not exactly what you actually want, for the belt to work?

            Ines The royal herring is the longest fish in the world with specimens up to 17 meters, longer than whale sharks.

            really, do you have a book where all this animal facts are written? ๐Ÿ˜‚

            youdontknowme but I still question any parent who would engage in such a dynamic.

            on the subject of chastity belt no, on other things maybe. she wanted it so she should wear it properly, i think i can understand that. if then i would only do it for a short period of time.

            Ines The Problem is that the world is not only black or white but has infinite shades of grey in between. Because we know nothing about their parents or mother especially how liberal or conservative they are, it's really hard to tell if it's a fairy tale.
            We have heard other stories that hardly anyone found suspicious just because she was an adult but her adult daughters were also in the CB. But it was a fairytale and what an incredible one.

            I have some doubts so far but not to the extent that her story is not true. I think we can watch it critically and see what else comes to make a decision.

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              Joh

              I think I do not deserve lessons like that. Such story is pretty usual so, allow me be skeptical. I have responsibility as moderator, and think in how many forums could you talk this way with a mod.
              I am tired of stories like that, tired, specially in new users tide as we have now.

                There seems to be an influx of people who claim to have a BDSM relationship with their parents lately. And it is a common trope in erotic fantasies: Parents found out about the chastity device and take possession of the key. Usually a boy, since with penis cages it is usually easier to get one that is suitable for multi-day wear in secret, but not always.

                Personally, I think there is little harm in extending the benefit of doubt to everyone, since they might actually be stuck in a situation where they need help. But also, with roleplayers, they either get bored or the stories get spicier and spicier, and calling them out usually helps that the former takes place. And finally, we do not want real-life wearers to take advice from people who claim to be in the same situation, but have never experienced it except in their fantasies, while stroking their... egos.

                  Ines I am sorry that you feel attacked. I considered my comment as a general contribution and did not have you personally in mind. I apologise again for referring to your fish fakts.
                  You are doing a good and balanced job as a moderator and I did not mean to criticise you in any way.

                    Joh

                    I overreacted too, Joh, 40 degrees here. Sorry.

                      youdontknowme

                      For me, a wake-up call is the occurrence of the following events in history:
                      1) the author declares that he (she) is a minor,
                      2) is forced against his will to wear a belt by his parents or guardians but does not take real action to free himself,
                      3) wearing a chastity belt is a punishment or consequence of some misbehavior (sexual or not) or to correct its effects or to improve academic performance,
                      4) the user tries to artificially maintain his topic, presenting "updates" of his story on an ongoing basis, sometimes even adapting it to the "expectations" and suggestions of other users,
                      5) most willingly focuses on his own violent experiences (because they give him the greatest pleasure),
                      6) regardless of the topic, he is mainly limited to reporting his experiences, he is unable to present more general conclusions,
                      7) there are extremely improbable themes in his story,
                      8) he falls into contradictions in his relations.

                      The more of the above points appear in the user's activity, the greater the probability that it is a person who only presents his fantasies, not real experiences.

                      And one more thing. Based on my own experience of working with young people, I sincerely doubt that a minor who has been abused actually seeks help on this forum. It is too "specialized" and at the same time it can be perceived as an erotic forum.

                      Finally, a caveat. Even a court with extensive evidence can make mistakes. All the more, a mistake may occur when assessing on the basis of reports published on the forum. However, this does not release either moderators or users from a sober assessment of the published content.