How you guys stop thinking about release?!?

youdontknowme

Tabletop Uugh BUT WHEN?!?!? haha jkjk 🙂 Idk it’s just strange that for the first 3 weeks or so i didn’t really felt that way

Yeah, the first time frustration comes back is usually the worst one. For some it is after two weeks, for some after three, but usually that range is when you get the biggest frustrated period of a chastity lockup. How long it lasts also depends on the individual. Might be a few days, might be a week or a little more.

Tabletop If im honest, and i hate to say it, i think my schoolwork actually improved overall. It’s just the first month of school but yea i already spend much much more time on doing stuff for school then ever before. Like i also stopped procrastinating, that was a huge problem last year….

It’s just on some days (like today) it feels my stoopid heads can only think of one thing :/

It is like riding a bike. Roll too far to the right, you end up in the ditch. So you need to steer left, but if you steer too far, you end up in oncoming traffic. And then in the ditch.

It is obvious that you benefit from some amount of sexual control, but that does not mean more is better. Just like butter on bread makes the bread taste better, but you would not eat a chunk of butter by itself.

Max9

Tabletop It's a normal thing that this occures to you at some time. But don't worry, it's just a phase and will become better after some time, when your body got used to have no sexual actions anymore.
That's because your nody is used to produce hormones and sperm in a way that you have an ejaculation and replacement regularily. So after some time of abstinence the level of hormones has rised quite high. At some point your body will notice that there won't be anymore exit for them so he will adjust the amount of production of them.

Angelina

Tabletop Yea ig, it’s just strange how strong the desire is, yk? Like I’ve never really felt i had to “do it” this bad…

yes, the need to want something is always greatest when it is not possible, that is the case in many areas of life. it will also get better again, but unfortunately you have to endure it.

Tabletop

EDITED

Minor.

Sasha

Tabletop It gets much easier over time, you’ll get there.
And good luck on those assignments

Angelina

Tabletop Anyways thanks for your support ig and yea i figure the horniness will eventually come back but until then I’m good

it's a wave, sometimes everything is good and sometimes not. but i can tell you that after a while there are more normal moments than frustrating ones. 🙂

WriterAlexis

Tabletop

I am reminded of the story told by Attar of Nishapur, of a Persian king who desired a magic ring. He assembled a group of wise men to create a ring that would make him happy when he was sad. The ring they forged was inscribed with the phrase "This Too Shall Pass."

It is a maxim that serves as both a source of comfort during times of stress, but also as a cautionary tale when your successes are forthcoming.

Remember that in both your times of horniness and frigidity. This too shall pass.

Conrad

Tabletop

I don’t wear a device 24/7 but I have trained myself not to masturbate, so maybe my advice is applicable?

1.) pray without ceasing. You can try repeating a simple prayer or memorize all 150 psalms if you want more ammo against temptations

2.) distract yourself, don’t think about sex, don’t stare at girls (or guys), don’t look at naughty images online or read about sex.

3.) physical exercise, intense physical exercise can help with urges.

4.) apply ice if it gets painful. Not everyone has this issue but I certainly do get pain in my testicles if I am aroused and deny myself of release/orgasm.

5.) watch your diet, overeating and rich foods increase arousal/horniness. Eat simpler blander tasting foods and not to excess

youdontknowme

WriterAlexis I love this sort of double meaning. Just like the (admittedly off-topic) Ozymandias one: "Look upon my works, ye mighty, and despair."

Tabletop

EDITED

Minor

Sasha

Tabletop That’s the idea.
For me my belt and soon new gear represents the shortest road in and the quickest path to victory

WriterAlexis

Conrad

No offense, but all of that sounds awful.

Sasha

Conrad Exercise really does help a lot. And can’t argue with the results either

Conrad

WriterAlexis

None taken.

Angelina

Sasha Exercise really does help a lot. And can’t argue with the results either

but i would be deterred by the food tips 😂

tonif

WriterAlexis

Markus

3) doing Yoga, they give some extra postures for celibates

Do you know which ones?

Markus

WriterAlexis Yes, but must look in the book. or you google for practice of brahmacharya

WriterAlexis

Markus

I'll test them out and let you know how it goes.