well, his decision was, "stay in the belt until you get married". that's one decision. of course, this decision had an impact every day, but it is also a decision that you cannot simply reverse without appearing untrustworthy yourself
Milord And financial and emotional support by parents is a right, not a priviledge.
right, but there are different ways in which this can be lived out. let's put it bluntly, my life would not have been 1% better if my father was in prison because he locked me in the belt. My father raised me alone (with the help of his parents) and I give him credit for that, I can't destroy both of our lives because I think one thing is completely wrong, I have to weigh it up and think about what makes sense
