Getting out from the belt

youdontknowme

Milord If I take a wrong decision, I apologize with my son and correct it. I don't think my son have a poor idea of me just because I change my idea, as long as there is a solid basis for this

It takes a big man to admit a mistake and act on that. I am not sure that Angelina's dad has realized the value in that. Or imparetd it on her, for that matter.

Milord

youdontknowme thanks for compliment, but not deserved. Reality evolves, and a good idea can also degrades into a bad one. @Angelina: Admittedly putting you in chastity against your own will was a bad idea from start, and not moving from it in my own opinion made it just much worse
Errare humanum est, perseverare autem diabolicum
Making error is human, insisting on it is diabolical.

youdontknowme

Milord thanks for compliment, but not deserved.

On the contrary, there are too many people around who would never admit their mistakes, especially not in front of people they have authority over.

Milord

youdontknowme admitting mistakes don’t undermine authority and greatly improve trust, one of the pillars of leadership
Anymore, @Angelina father’s behavior is undefendable. Criminal for start, he continued too. For the law it would have been an aggravated condition.

Sasha

Milord Not sure about leadership yet, but I know it’s a part of being a good person. Though it makes sense.
Took me a while to learn that but I got there!

Christine

Milord I'm not comfortable with the idea that you have to move out to get rid of something

I moved out for my own reasons, not to get rid of the belt.

Milord May I ask how is life unbelted?

The whole life has changed.

Milord What changed, it has been a barely noticeable or a great revolution?

Nothing, but the situation has reversed.

Milord If no one wears a belt in your family, what do they think about it?

Mostly curious

Milord

Christine thanks for answering, but I can't understand if:

Christine The whole life has changed.

Christine Nothing, but the situation has reversed

Can you help me?

Laura

Milord Can you help me?

It's obvious

Christine She wears, I don't.

Christine

Milord Can you help me?

We switched roles. Nothing, but this.

Milord Q: Things changed?
A: everything changed

I have moved out to change my life.

Milord Q: what changed?
A: nothing, except for reverse

Dumb question.

Milord

Laura it's not obvious at all

Q: Things changed?
A: everything changed
Q: what changed?
A: nothing, except for reverse

This is what I understood with @Christine and just asked to understand better.

Renita

Joh So you mean your parents will disapier?

Just a remark.

Rina

Renita But you can't get another parent.

There can be many kind of keyholders, like your trusted friends, your partner, or your spouse.

Renita

Rina like your trusted friends, your partner, or your spouse.

All of those can be changed, but your parents.

Ines

Milord

Even she is a good, polite and regular participant in the forum, a lot of us think that she is very cryptic sometimes.
However, obviously, she is in her full right to be.

Milord

Ines absolutely. But she answered me, so I implied that I can ask to clarify

Ines

Milord that I can ask to clarify

You are free to ask as you want to everyone, of course.

youdontknowme

Renita Which is an argument against parents as keyholders. If bad wearing experiences damage that relationship, you are not going to find another like it.

Angelina

Milord may I ask you what your is your relative's position?

from my immediate family only my grandma is still alive and she knows and supports it (although for different reasons than my father, so rather religious reasons)

youdontknowme but to continue upholding a decision you know is wrong,

he doesn't think the decision was wrong. he knew it was illegal, but he still thinks it was right

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