Introductions

Hi! I'm new here... I'll call myself Maximus, as I'll try to be sincere as I can, it's better to have some privacy

I'm a single male from Spain, and I'm interested in increasing my knowledge in female chastity.

Usually you can find webs, pictures or stories, or even 'true stories' in internet, but are more for delight or kinki oriented, things which can be funny, but doesn't reflect the actual use, or at realistic use for wearers... you know.. fancy stories of 24/7 without release indefinitely like in the jail, punishment, etc...

I readed a bit here, there are tons of posts , and I found a mix of plausible real life comments but some others which for me, looks a bit exaggerated, towards romantic, or too young girls involved.. or even some situations I already readed in some stories... but well, for me is good to know and try to ask and discuss.

I don't know in other countries or personal environments, but something related to this is just pure BDSM, and not well considered, if you are a girl and it's difficult to talk about liking these things, imagine being a guy... or talking about it to a girl who didn't knew about it, sounds as slaving or just goes agains the "empowerment" sold nowadays by populists...

I'm totally just, equitative, and sharing obligations and taking decisions with past partners and future, and I hope the last... but apart of making her happy, beloved and special, I love the idea of being the only cause of her pleasure because is the most beatiful and exciting thing for me, and sometimes play a bit with that.. or even manage that in the way we can build a bit tension for her for stronger sensations on relief

Despite I had very traditional partners and some receptive to some spicy things, special things or belts are not mandatory for being happy and loving somebody, I still try to know and understand because is something I liked and if one day I find somebody interested in this I would like to become her keyholder, then will be useful knowing what are the challenges for her, things to consider and know when is true or false her complains or concerns.

Well, I just intended to write a brief presentation with my main ideas, but at the end became to a summary of my interest in chastity belts, sorry for the huge message

Maximus I love the idea of being the only cause of her pleasure because is the most beatiful and exciting thing for me, and sometimes play a bit with that.. or even manage that in the way we can build a bit tension for her for stronger sensations on relief

Hi Maximus! Would this be reciprocated? Would it not be fair to lock a cage on your dick and let her hold the keys also? You could build some stronger sensations for yourself!

Laura Welcome

Thank you

Sin Hi Maximus! Would this be reciprocated? Would it not be fair to lock a cage on your dick and let her hold the keys also? You could build some stronger sensations for yourself!

Hi!

I know also exist chastity for men, but if men should wear or not is another discussion, are even dominant woman and submissive men who likes that, but is not the case for me, I wouldn't enjoy that, and is why I would be happy if I find somebody who enjoys CB, not imposed..
for example, I met somebody who liked very much the idea, but the reality is when we are looking for a partner, there are more important things than just intimacy, and was not the proper girl, I don't miss the hope.. I'll find the partner for life, but also with this side can be possible!

But I'll explain my point of view why is better of both of us obviating any type of supposed dominance or whatever... just our fun/happiness

By the name I don't know if you are man or women, and you could have experienced...
For sure we all agree, for a woman, accumulating energy/desire/tension, may enjoy a lot with stronger feelings,
but in part could be the same for a man, just for a while.. but we are different to women, we also accumulate something physical.. which if is not released it will tend to finish sooner once we are enjoying of our love..
Then you can imagine that if you merge the strongs sensations for the woman with a man which is not overexcited and able to enjoy while is able to last for her more time while is enjoying these even multiple sensations... will be very pleasant for both, right?

dylan atowski belt with a bottom bar,

What is a bottom bar?

Maximus
Hola, Maximus. Bienvenido a estos lares. Por favor, repasa las normas y siéntete libre de participar.
In the other way, I agree with you, so many strange stories lately, anyway, when you read some suspicious story, it is time for an animal awesome fact!

Megan
I love the ducks! They are pretty common, but I like them. .
In Spain we have plenty of migration of birds, of every size: from big flamingos to little swallow, we have pelican, a lot of kids of eagles, various types of vultures...

Maximus By the name I don't know if you are man or women, and you could have experienced...

My name is Jacinta. ;-)
I wear a belt but I am not controlled by anyone else. On the contrary I use it to deny my partner when he misbehaves.

(So a bit different to most other people on here).

Ines
OMG!
Hola Inés! cuando empecé a leer la respuesta en español, tardé unos instantes en ver lo que no encajaba! it was written in spanish
Then, also seeing the next message, so you are also from Spain? I never imagined I could find somebody from Spain and even talk.. also the name is not usual outside Spain and latin countries, but I recently I met a german girl called Ines, maybe descendant of migrants

and you? how are you involved in the chastity belts?

Sin

Yes, a different way to handle the power haha, at the end, nobody likes to deprive themselves of the good things being in a couple
And you Jacinta? where are you? that name isn't anglo-saxon..

Maximus And you Jacinta? where are you? that name isn't anglo-saxon..

Australia. But I think the name is Spanish?!

lol I just read this on Urban Dictionary...
"Jacinta is a name used most often to describe a female. A Jacinta is usually very pure and innocent regardless of her expressive nature and attractive attire. When in love with a Jacinta most men find they are unable to think impure thoughts of her and are restricted (in a good way) to having only loving thoughts of her."
Uncanny!

@Ines I just realized when I pass the mouse over your name pops up a brief introduction, then you are wearer, and clicking open a list of messages, and after a brief reading, seems you are also cult, definetely you are spanish, no joke, I readed you using many spanish expression (speaking in silver ) and chastity belts defender... do you have boyfriend or husband? if not, I'll marry you (somebody like you in the same country, I though could be somebody in the same continent as much, and many fiction as I said)

Oooh chastity hookup!

Ines and Maximus sitting in a tree
K-I-S-S-I-N-G

Maximus

Lol!
Well, yes, I am currently in a relationship! But thanks for your appreciation!

Sin

I see, here is not common because the name is not used many time ago, but is still known by a novel from famous writter Benito Pérez Galdós, called "Fortunata y Jacinta"

@Ines I think I was writting while you replied

Sin
You made me feel like I was back in my school days.

Vanessa Anyway,the result would be the same.

Correct. The damage is already done.

Vanessa Chastity earrings?

New invention. Never done before

dylan but im scared that she woud start to like it at that point but you never know

You should think about what you want in near future and work on it to get it. Let not other decide what you can do or not.

Sin

don't be bad..

Sorry, I didn't realize the message was there as we were overlapping replies and ended a bit sad for a moment I was close to a proper person.. type, country, but not time! still looking for..
Meanwhile to learn about these female chastity details...

If you are from Australia, do you have a fancy steel? never saw one or even closed but for me seems to be the favorite, very adjustable, which I think is key... and modular which also is very important,
and in different shapes/modes, the waist models seemed fine, but slim fit model looks awesome and usable in many real life situations, but is still secure?

Recently they changed their designs, anybody with the latest design? for me seems worse except for a bit better looking, rear end worse for the wearer unless you want to fix a plug.. before I think was better with the split tubes in the anus area,

and what about the front shield? is just hold by two torx screws? I hope they are soldered from the inside or something, because then their security is a joke..
Then if that it's true? then is not removable/modular as before...

Maximus the waist models seemed fine, but slim fit model looks awesome and usable in many real life situations, but is still secure?

There is a thread that I made, but, yes, in general is very safe, but it should be fitted tightly.