Joh Do you really believe her she would do it?
If yes, what kind of mother is she?
Do you think she has the right to do all of this?

I think she would yes she seemed serious about it and I don't want to take that risk.
I think that she thinks she's helping me so I don't want to she's a bad mother just that she's wrong about it.
She doesn't have the right to do this but I can't stop her without losing her and my home.

Joh Who has damage the relationship? The one who blackmails or the one who refuses?

The one who blackmails obviously but I still love her and don't want her out of my life. She's still my mom.

  • Joh replied to this.

    Funguy She's still my mom.

    I decided to stop the contact to my mother because of her behaviour. All talking didn't change anything.
    In the final it was a good decision.

      Joh I decided to stop the contact to my mother because of her behaviour. All talking didn't change anything.
      In the final it was a good decision

      I don’t think that would work for me, I’m dependent on her for now. Once I’m out of the apartment or the belt. But still I love her family is family.

      • Joh replied to this.

        Funguy family is family.

        Yes, family is family but if it is too much it is too much.
        You have to decide what is worst. To get support from the government or stay at home.

          Joh

          For me it’s about not losing my mom and not being to see my sister if I’m kicked out for refusing the belt

          Joh To get support from the government or stay at home.

          It sounds more and more like histories of heavy domestic abuse do but with different context.

            Vanessa If more commonly used and not only if more known.

            Yeah, i did not tought about it, but i think it would work better in that case.

            hi
            (im sorry my English isn't te best)
            i'm Dylan I'm an 18 year old male wearer
            im a silent reader fore some time because im not allowed to read or write (so this is probably going to get me in trouble) but we will se 😅
            im wearing 24/7 since I was 15, im currently in a latowski belt with a bottom bar, and at night or for punishment I wear a my-steelbra (because im not allowed to have any sexual pleasure)
            my parents will keep me in until im 25 or until I have a girlfriend for a year (than she can choose if I will be wearing)
            further more I get cleaning brakes 2 a week
            and I don't know wat I have to tel more so if jou have any questions I wil try to answer them!

              Funguy Yeah I know but it's easier said than done.

              it's true that it's not easy, especially for men. but it could be problematic if you don't do it. your mother will have a heart attack if you tell her that you married a man.

              Joh I decided to stop the contact to my mother because of her behaviour. All talking didn't change anything.
              In the final it was a good decision.

              now you are trying the same thing you tried with me. it may have been right for you, but it is not the right solution for everyone.

              dylan

              welcome to the forum 🙂

              dylan i'm Dylan I'm an 18 year old male wearer

              dylan I wear a my-steelbra (because im not allowed to have any sexual pleasure)

              why do you wear a bra as a man ?

                Angelina
                because I was caught a couple of times pleasuring myself by touching my nipples
                my parents didn't like it
                so after te first time we made the promise that I would never do it again (but I didn't succeed)

                  Angelina
                  some can some can't
                  some like it others don't
                  my parents didn't let me touch my dick so than you come up with something else
                  didnt you have that?

                    dylan

                    Don't forget to delete this site from your browsers history.

                    Welcome Dylan. Where are you? Why were you locked? To stop masturbation or to prevent sexual activity/Do you have a boy/girlfriend.

                      Shrop
                      thank you I won't forget it!

                      I live in te Netherlands

                      im locked for both reasons to stop masturbation and to stop any sexual activity

                      i have a girlfriend for about 4 months now

                        Angelina now you are trying the same thing you tried with me. it may have been right for you, but it is not the right solution for everyone.

                        Yes, but you should think about it.
                        As you can see at your negotiation results it is worth fighting for. Nothing is set in stone and sometimes playing poker is helpful.