Samantha fully control my sexuality, not only when I can have fun but also when I can give pleasure to my partner.
I am pleased to read that you are happily living your chastity-dream!! As it's all consensual, I think its so cool.
Going into this relationship I was very upfront with Mark about my situation and that he might never have sex with me, he found the belt rather sexy and he loves what it does to my "enthusiasm" 😉
I'm sure it's a wonderful and highly charged relationship! And I think your bf is very good to support you with this for as well as giving up sex it appears he is now prevented from pleasing himself too. Can I ask how secure is his device is? Eg: Does he have a piercing to prevent pull-out? How rarely does Anna release him?
One thing that might not be fully apparent, Mark is in the same situation as I am now, he gave away his keys in the same way as I did and it's not connected to my situation in any way other than we are a couple. Even if we break up (Hope not!) Anna would remain his keyholder.
Of course it won't happen, but in the event of some major bust-up Anna would remain your friend, but his keyholder!! Awkward! But back in reality, how on earth did you convince Mark to give up control of his body to Anna...? I understand (and probably share) many of your motivations for full chastity, but he doesn't know her as well as you do.
Also, when Anna gives either of you your keys, how long do you get them for, and how does she ensure that she gets them back?! Is your agreement written down, is something held as security, how does it work?
Our situation might change one day, I "probed" Anna about it, and someday she might give us the keys, but when and if is up to her
I think your bf would be a good keyholder because a) he knows to be very firm and b) he's gone through it so has earned huge trust. However, the use of an external referee remains the most sensible I think. Otherwise you can always just weaken and "treat" yourselves whenever you want. ("I'll let you out, if you let me out!").
Thanks for sharing your story on the forum. It's fascinating.
