Introductions

Funguy

Vanessa Hello and thanks for the welcome! 😃

Vanessa You prefer to be belted than relive masturbating at an ex-friend's house?Or do you talk about the time when you were caught?

I prefer to be belted than relive getting caught it was the most embarrassing thing ever and I lost a friend.

Vanessa Still reluctantly wearer,so?

Yes I am, I feel like I've learned my lesson but I'm still locked until my mom says otherwise.

Vanessa Maybe when living together or in a relationship for a set duration minimum,so...

If you're talking about living with my bf I doubt it, I've said before my mom doesn't know about him or that I'm gay.

Vanessa No breaks for masturbation?

Not really but I take my sunday cleaning break to do it either way since my mom doesn't see me.

Vanessa

Funguy I prefer to be belted than relive getting caught it was the most embarrassing thing ever and I lost a friend.

Ok,I understand it.

Why do you lose him?

Funguy Yes I am

Sorry for you!

Funguy If you're talking about living with my bf I doubt it, I've said before my mom doesn't know about him or that I'm gay.

But I think you would want to live with him,at some point,even if not marrying...

Funguy I take my sunday cleaning break to do it either way

😉

Angelina

Vanessa I've doubt too,but as it may not be a fantasy,and the quickness he was submissive may be due to the fact he already wanted to,I would give her the benefit of the doubt,too.

It can be a true story if it was deep inside him and he was just looking for the opportunity to live it out.

Vanessa Someone don't wearing it would probably not even think about it,while a wearer would notice it more easily.

that's exactly what I think too

Funguy I've said before my mom doesn't know about him or that I'm gay.

you should tell your mother so that the conditions are clear. furthermore, it can be harmful for the family relationship if you are not honest about this.

Funguy Because he didn't like that I jerked in his bathroom, he called me gross and stuff and we haven't talked since then.

yes, i think it's disgusting too, but it's not a reason to end a friendship.

Funguy My mom said that if I want it off I’ll have to leave her apartment... So that’s the consequence I’d be homeless and lose my relationship with my mom.

a similar situation to many involuntary wearers here on the forum 🙁

Funguy

Vanessa Ok,I understand it.

Why do you lose him?

Because he didn't like that I jerked in his bathroom, he called me gross and stuff and we haven't talked since then.

Vanessa Sorry for you!

Thanks! I feel sorry for everyone that is forced to wear one of them.

Vanessa But I think you would want to live with him,at some point,even if not marrying...

Yeah I do but it doesn't seem very possible at the moment... and even that won't mean I get out of the belt.

Vanessa

Firstly,even if I'm going to answer it a bit(too long to split /paste it,and difficult to follow the talk if posting my answers in several topics),I should remember everyone that it is an "introduction" topic and discussing on the other topics of the forum or creating a new one would be way better than discussing here. Seriously,more than 40 posts since my precedent one,and only one of these was an introduction post...

Funguy Because he didn't like that I jerked in his bathroom, he called me gross and stuff and we haven't talked since then.

Too bad he reacted this way...

Funguy Thanks! I feel sorry for everyone that is forced to wear one of them.

Thank you!

Funguy even that won't mean I get out of the belt.

Why?

Funguy

Classical for reluctantly wearers.But leaving the house is not a problem if you live with your boyfriend,in your own flat.

But breaking the relationship with parents/family is harder to manage,sure...

Angelina It can be a true story if it was deep inside him and he was just looking for the opportunity to live it out.

Yes,that's what I let her have the benefit of the doubt,for now.

Joh Who has damage the relationship? The one who blackmails or the one who refuses?

Anyway,the result would be the same.

dylan

Welcome!

Who forbid you to discuss here?

A chastity bra for a man,it's very unusual.

Angelina I didn't know that men could do that 😮

However,on My-Steel website,it is written it can be used for women or men!😉

dylan i have a girlfriend for about 4 months now

Maybe free in 8 months,so!😉

Do you know if she would want you to be free of it or prefer you would still wear it?

Megan

🤣

Ines

😉

LoonyMel Let's hope his parents never find out that ears are a secondary erogenous zone.

Chastity earrings?😉

dylan it works unfortunately te bra is quiet tight and connected to my belt so it isn't movable or liftable

I guess connecting chains are necessary for using it on a man,yes.

Joh

Funguy
If you really want it off you can get it. Which consequence would it has?

Funguy

Joh

My mom said that if I want it off I’ll have to leave her apartment... So that’s the consequence I’d be homeless and lose my relationship with my mom.

Joh

Funguy My mom said that if I want it off I’ll have to leave her apartment

Do you really believe her she would do it?
If yes, what kind of mother is she?
Do you think she has the right to do all of this?

Funguy lose my relationship with my mom.

Who has damage the relationship? The one who blackmails or the one who refuses?

Funguy

Angelina you should tell your mother so that the conditions are clear. furthermore, it can be harmful for the family relationship if you are not honest about this.

Yeah I know but it's easier said than done.

Angelina yes, i think it's disgusting too, but it's not a reason to end a friendship.

Well he disagrees :/

Angelina a similar situation to many involuntary wearers here on the forum

Yeah it sucks but for now I just have to live with it.

Funguy

Joh Do you really believe her she would do it?
If yes, what kind of mother is she?
Do you think she has the right to do all of this?

I think she would yes she seemed serious about it and I don't want to take that risk.
I think that she thinks she's helping me so I don't want to she's a bad mother just that she's wrong about it.
She doesn't have the right to do this but I can't stop her without losing her and my home.

Joh Who has damage the relationship? The one who blackmails or the one who refuses?

The one who blackmails obviously but I still love her and don't want her out of my life. She's still my mom.

Angelina

Funguy Yeah I know but it's easier said than done.

it's true that it's not easy, especially for men. but it could be problematic if you don't do it. your mother will have a heart attack if you tell her that you married a man.

Joh I decided to stop the contact to my mother because of her behaviour. All talking didn't change anything.
In the final it was a good decision.

now you are trying the same thing you tried with me. it may have been right for you, but it is not the right solution for everyone.

dylan

welcome to the forum 🙂

dylan i'm Dylan I'm an 18 year old male wearer

dylan I wear a my-steelbra (because im not allowed to have any sexual pleasure)

why do you wear a bra as a man ?

Joh

Funguy She's still my mom.

I decided to stop the contact to my mother because of her behaviour. All talking didn't change anything.
In the final it was a good decision.

LoonyMel

This has a sinister sound.

Funguy

Joh I decided to stop the contact to my mother because of her behaviour. All talking didn't change anything.
In the final it was a good decision

I don’t think that would work for me, I’m dependent on her for now. Once I’m out of the apartment or the belt. But still I love her family is family.

Joh

Funguy family is family.

Yes, family is family but if it is too much it is too much.
You have to decide what is worst. To get support from the government or stay at home.

Funguy

Joh

For me it’s about not losing my mom and not being to see my sister if I’m kicked out for refusing the belt

LoonyMel

Joh To get support from the government or stay at home.

It sounds more and more like histories of heavy domestic abuse do but with different context.

Joh

LoonyMel Yes, it is.

Ines

LoonyMel
For me it sounds as the moments that I use to type some facts about animals....

Chris1

jocarpyDon't you want to masturbate?

Chris1

Chris1 Don't you want to masturbate?

Why wasn't that quesiton deleted I wonder?

LoonyMel

Vanessa If more commonly used and not only if more known.

Yeah, i did not tought about it, but i think it would work better in that case.

dylan

hi
(im sorry my English isn't te best)
i'm Dylan I'm an 18 year old male wearer
im a silent reader fore some time because im not allowed to read or write (so this is probably going to get me in trouble) but we will se 😅
im wearing 24/7 since I was 15, im currently in a latowski belt with a bottom bar, and at night or for punishment I wear a my-steelbra (because im not allowed to have any sexual pleasure)
my parents will keep me in until im 25 or until I have a girlfriend for a year (than she can choose if I will be wearing)
further more I get cleaning brakes 2 a week
and I don't know wat I have to tel more so if jou have any questions I wil try to answer them!

Shrop

dylan

Don't forget to delete this site from your browsers history.

Welcome Dylan. Where are you? Why were you locked? To stop masturbation or to prevent sexual activity/Do you have a boy/girlfriend.

Maija

dylan atowski belt with a bottom bar,

What is a bottom bar?

dylan

Angelina
because I was caught a couple of times pleasuring myself by touching my nipples
my parents didn't like it
so after te first time we made the promise that I would never do it again (but I didn't succeed)

Joh

Angelina now you are trying the same thing you tried with me. it may have been right for you, but it is not the right solution for everyone.

Yes, but you should think about it.
As you can see at your negotiation results it is worth fighting for. Nothing is set in stone and sometimes playing poker is helpful.

Megan

Angelina why do you wear a bra as a man ?

Okay @Ines What are your favorite types of birds? What birds normally migrate out in Spain?

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