Introductions
thanks that google translate is pretty good
LoonyMel If everybody knew, it would be no different from bracers or glasses.
correct, but both had a bad reputation for a long time, that is no longer the case today, but it took a long time
welcome to the forum 
the belt will likely come off when you marry your boyfriend 
Foxies So how good is a Google translation?
at least so well that I was able to translate it 
If I do marry him that is we’re still not sure if we do want to be married.
Thank you.
I've doubt too,but as it may not be a fantasy,and the quickness he was submissive may be due to the fact he already wanted to,I would give her the benefit of the doubt,too.
Sin It's not unusual at all really, it's the honeymoon period for him and he's trying to say "Look how good this could be for us!".
Possible,yes.
Maija My cousins are also in the same situation as me and my sister.
Reluctantly or willingly?
Angelina When you wear a belt yourself, you pay attention to it yourself.
I think so,too.
Someone don't wearing it would probably not even think about it,while a wearer would notice it more easily.
LazyGoat The city is Helsinki, and "pääkaupunkiseutu" is a region (3 other cities) around Helsinki.
There is probably other users of chastity in such a big town than a capital,yes.Maybe some you met without knowing they have it on.
LoonyMel Or maybe it would be less inconvenient.
If more commonly used and not only if more known.
Welcome!
You prefer to be belted than relive masturbating at an ex-friend's house?Or do you talk about the time when you were caught?
Still reluctantly wearer,so?
Tobbe but we have to talk english here...
Yes.
Thank you.
Maybe when living together or in a relationship for a set duration minimum,so...
No breaks for masturbation?
Vanessa Hello and thanks for the welcome! 
Vanessa You prefer to be belted than relive masturbating at an ex-friend's house?Or do you talk about the time when you were caught?
I prefer to be belted than relive getting caught it was the most embarrassing thing ever and I lost a friend.
Vanessa Still reluctantly wearer,so?
Yes I am, I feel like I've learned my lesson but I'm still locked until my mom says otherwise.
Vanessa Maybe when living together or in a relationship for a set duration minimum,so...
If you're talking about living with my bf I doubt it, I've said before my mom doesn't know about him or that I'm gay.
Vanessa No breaks for masturbation?
Not really but I take my sunday cleaning break to do it either way since my mom doesn't see me.
Funguy I prefer to be belted than relive getting caught it was the most embarrassing thing ever and I lost a friend.
Ok,I understand it.
Why do you lose him?
Funguy Yes I am
Sorry for you!
Funguy If you're talking about living with my bf I doubt it, I've said before my mom doesn't know about him or that I'm gay.
But I think you would want to live with him,at some point,even if not marrying...
Funguy I take my sunday cleaning break to do it either way
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Vanessa Ok,I understand it.
Why do you lose him?
Because he didn't like that I jerked in his bathroom, he called me gross and stuff and we haven't talked since then.
Vanessa Sorry for you!
Thanks! I feel sorry for everyone that is forced to wear one of them.
Vanessa But I think you would want to live with him,at some point,even if not marrying...
Yeah I do but it doesn't seem very possible at the moment... and even that won't mean I get out of the belt.
Vanessa I've doubt too,but as it may not be a fantasy,and the quickness he was submissive may be due to the fact he already wanted to,I would give her the benefit of the doubt,too.
It can be a true story if it was deep inside him and he was just looking for the opportunity to live it out.
Vanessa Someone don't wearing it would probably not even think about it,while a wearer would notice it more easily.
that's exactly what I think too
Funguy I've said before my mom doesn't know about him or that I'm gay.
you should tell your mother so that the conditions are clear. furthermore, it can be harmful for the family relationship if you are not honest about this.
Funguy Because he didn't like that I jerked in his bathroom, he called me gross and stuff and we haven't talked since then.
yes, i think it's disgusting too, but it's not a reason to end a friendship.
Funguy My mom said that if I want it off I’ll have to leave her apartment... So that’s the consequence I’d be homeless and lose my relationship with my mom.
a similar situation to many involuntary wearers here on the forum 
Funguy My mom said that if I want it off I’ll have to leave her apartment
Do you really believe her she would do it?
If yes, what kind of mother is she?
Do you think she has the right to do all of this?
Funguy lose my relationship with my mom.
Who has damage the relationship? The one who blackmails or the one who refuses?
Angelina you should tell your mother so that the conditions are clear. furthermore, it can be harmful for the family relationship if you are not honest about this.
Yeah I know but it's easier said than done.
Angelina yes, i think it's disgusting too, but it's not a reason to end a friendship.
Well he disagrees :/
Angelina a similar situation to many involuntary wearers here on the forum
Yeah it sucks but for now I just have to live with it.
Joh Do you really believe her she would do it?
If yes, what kind of mother is she?
Do you think she has the right to do all of this?
I think she would yes she seemed serious about it and I don't want to take that risk.
I think that she thinks she's helping me so I don't want to she's a bad mother just that she's wrong about it.
She doesn't have the right to do this but I can't stop her without losing her and my home.
Joh Who has damage the relationship? The one who blackmails or the one who refuses?
The one who blackmails obviously but I still love her and don't want her out of my life. She's still my mom.
This has a sinister sound.
Joh I decided to stop the contact to my mother because of her behaviour. All talking didn't change anything.
In the final it was a good decision
I don’t think that would work for me, I’m dependent on her for now. Once I’m out of the apartment or the belt. But still I love her family is family.