Introductions
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Shrop Marc, There is a possibility that your friend is not telling the whole truth of only mastubating weekly, he might be also having sex. I think you need are larger sample the just one guys orgasming habits before you do anything irreversable like giving your parents your keys.
Right.
Sorry,but I don't remember,is it willingly?
Angelina the belt can be an additional tool
I agree.
Hiya, I'm Jo. Amazed that there's a community for something like this, I kind of thought I was the only one! I'm nineteen now, and I've worn a chastity belt since I was thirteen. At first I hated it, but over time I've come to really appreciate the good being belted has done for me! 
James My parents thought it would help keep me under control during my teen years. At first they were wrong and it just made me act out, but these days I've come around to it 
Vanessa What good has it done for me? It's helped me keep concentrated on what matters most - family and self-control! Teenagers are really vulnerable to doing stupid stuff, and the belt kept me under control!
Joh Girl! Sorry, the name is confusing.
Angelina See above Jo stands for Jodie. My dad has my keys most of the time, but my mum does if he's away.
jocarpy What good has it done for me? It's helped me keep concentrated on what matters most - family and self-control! Teenagers are really vulnerable to doing stupid stuff, and the belt kept me under control!
so would you say that in retrospect you are glad that your parents put the belt on you? Do you wear "only" the belt or also thighbands and/or chastity bra?
jocarpy See above
thank you for the clarification 
jocarpy What good has it done for me? It's helped me keep concentrated on what matters most - family and self-control! Teenagers are really vulnerable to doing stupid stuff, and the belt kept me under control!
How can you judge that if you only grew up with the CB? You don't know what it would have been like without it.
Why are you wearing it now when you an adult?
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jocarpy My parents thought it would help keep me under control during my teen years. At first they were wrong and it just made me act out, but these days I've come around to it
So,you worn it reluctantly at first,but willingly now?
jocarpy It's helped me keep concentrated on what matters most - family and self-control!
Do you think it is worth the negative parts?
jocarpy My dad has my keys most of the time, but my mum does if he's away.
They both agree totally about making you wear it?Who got the idea?
Angelina Do you wear "only" the belt or also thighbands and/or chastity bra?
Good question.
I wonder too.
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Angelina she certainly has friends to compare herself with
Not really.
If you look at all members here at the forum you see how different their experience are. You can see some similarity but it is not possible to extrapolate how it would have been if she could have developed freely.
The same applies the other way around. I cannot estimate how I would have developed if I had been in a CB.
Angelina
But I don't see how that helps to judge how one has developed then.
You can certainly say something in general but nothing specific to your person. That is not possible.
Imagine, for example, that you met someone without CB and restriction. How would it have gone then? We don't know and we will never find out. It could have been wonderful, so-so, or a total bust. Now we think further. How would that have affected your further development? We now have three different starting points and can't say how much they influenced you. Everything that comes after that also has its influence. Sometimes in a positive way, sometimes in a negative way.
You develop over time on so many situation that it is not possible to predict the outcome.
Hi, Mel here. 34/m (And despite being Italian, Mel is actually how i am called by everyone. part of my surname).
I'd like to put a presentation here because after reading some parts of this forum i think it is common courtesy to, at least, be polite and greet everyone.
I stumbled on this forum by coincidences, being interested in the lifestyle of a woman which actually lives with a CB and not just as a kink (like one of those thins i saw first here and convinced me to read further) but as an actual lifestyle.
I have read your introductions (not all, there are more than 2800 posts by now) and i managed to understand the point of view you all have, willing or unwilling, unwed or wed chastity, your theories, your feelings and i decided to create a profile just to thank you all.
Reading you made me understand more your visions on this matters and the feelings, the hardships and the advantages that cb brings with them.
I started out thinking that maybe there was one woman in the world like you, but i understood chastity and protective use from chastity belts is a little more (not much) common than what i tought.
And i have to thank you all for, indirectly, teching me about it.