Welcome! I see you had already come into contact with some of the diverse (incl. controversial) messages posted here. 😅
I guess, you already got some classifying comments on these. Generally, I suggest to get over any potential culture shocks and truly learn more about the backgrounds - incl. a critical take on their alleged veracity. As good as this is possible via a forum made of text, ofc...
As I read some signal words (like slave) which I associate (given contemporary contexts) usually with BDSM: In case if you are looking for (recipients for) exciting kink stories, I'm pretty convinced other forums provide more fitting sources and much larger, more targeted, welcoming audiences.
Which shouldn't mean this is forum is enemy anything kink/BDSM. On the contrary, certain models like alive, belted marriage are hardly possible without at least sparks of enjoyment for assertive/reactive dynamics, IMO. (BTW: "Topping from the bottom" or obedient wearers that exert their often concealed but likewise irresistible influence is a thing!)
Somewhere between the transition to these models and other models more focused on virtue, personal protection, self-enhancement, discipline, (over-?)concerned parenting, and further ... there are fine lines and often overlaps that can be pretty puzzling and sometimes upsetting. On the other hand, I found that they gave the forum a character all of its own.
Whatever you make of this.