youdontknowme Not that I have any personal experience, even as someone who falls into the "less attractive male" category.
I've never seen you, of course, but if you say this just because you are older you should stop thinking that way.
The older a man gets, the easier it becomes to be attractive. Have a job, don't be in prison, be a little bit of a gentleman, and be single, and the women your age will swoon.
Men get distinguished with age. Women just get old. That's another reason for women to marry young. If you are smart about it, you can catch your prince before he realizes that he is a prince.