A Forum Thought

Renita not applicable here, but in my adult community, we have a separate place where only people that we meet in person can enter. We do a lot of meeting (they are mostly called “munch” )

Here it can be a picture with a paper in hands where it’s written nick and the site name. Or a lot of other possibility.

Renita No need to prove anything. Only matters how others perceive them.

If a thread should be only for women it is necessary to know if the told gender right.

Angelina who lie about their age?

Up to them

Angelina we don't know how old they are

Minor guessed.

Angelina I disagree

I can assure you that I personally will take the issue and it will be very boring area.

Joh If a thread should be only for women it is necessary to know if the told gender right.

The idea is not so much to know whom we are talking to. The idea is to make sure that all the spicy stuff gets put into an area where nobody can claim to be a minor, so any spicy fantasies about minors can be snuffed out quickly and with prejudice.

youdontknowme
OK. That would be a solution.

Joh
I think any attempt in that direction is going to fail, u less you want to implement professional age verification systems (which don't come for free).
Rather than engaging in a guessing exercise who is what he/she claims to be, why not accept people at what they claim to be.
There will always be fakes and trolls.

Joh If a thread should be only for women it is necessary to know if the told gender right

Yes, it must be claimed first, but no proof is required.

Ines Minor guessed.

Doing this based on assumptions can become very questionable

youdontknowme The idea is not so much to know whom we are talking to. The idea is to make sure that all the spicy stuff gets put into an area where nobody can claim to be a minor, so any spicy fantasies about minors can be snuffed out quickly and with prejudice.

If it can be implemented like that, it's an idea that can be discussed

Ines No my problem. If she does not want say an age, then we should to act defensively.

well, then we should test it, then we'll see what the right way is

Some young teens don't dislose their ages until contacted privately, then stop discussing here,

KarimM Some young teens don't dislose their ages until contacted privately, then stop discussing here,

because unfortunately they don't find what they are looking for here, we should pay more attention to making the forum a place where everyone feels welcome again

KarimM And some just pretend to be 18

Greatcornbow

And we can not do much if someone says that is 18. However she will not be a pervs magnet.